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hush0101 55F  
318 posts
1/8/2023 10:58 am
~Sigh~



"Even the bad ones say the right things"

Wow, isn't that the truth!!

Wonder if I will ever learn.

I am tired of this ride....wonder if getting off the pathway would be a good thing.

~sigh~

hush

drmgirl622 68F  
26087 posts
1/8/2023 11:16 am

The bad ones can be very charming.....


bimom4taboo 54F
2078 posts
1/8/2023 12:29 pm

so true but you have to keep trying. if not it's just toy's and they can fill in greatly but still not the real thing. so smile and get going again !!!


ValS2012 63F
85 posts
1/8/2023 12:46 pm

Don't give up, hush. It only means the posers, liars, and pretenders win again

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and tell yourself, "Not Again!" and don't give up on yourself!!! We all here for you! xx


lisamac197906 44F  
43 posts
1/8/2023 1:09 pm

I feel your pain sister. I let one in so deep. He seemed the real deal and was local (hallelujah). Big plans to meet this weekend after hours upon hours of talking and getting to know one another, to wake up this morning left unread and his profile changed. I would have hoped for at least the curtesy of at least a goodbye your not what I am looking for. I want to encourage you to continue on because there could be a good one out there for you, but I don’t believe it myself.

Big hugs


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
1/8/2023 2:17 pm

So many fakes on these sites. Keep going though, we have found real people on here as well.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


boh99 68M
3153 posts
1/8/2023 2:30 pm

what would you like to hear ? boh00 at wifelovers.com if you'd like a pen pal


Rowena_H_of_A 38F  
366 posts
1/8/2023 2:30 pm

So sorry.... just listen to your heart...
Sending some warm tender hugs to you...


kajira belongs fully to Master Adomis4u2


alwaysassertive 64M

1/8/2023 2:33 pm

Somehow it seems like a pattern. you're choosing the ride you take. perhaps it would be wise to check the destination before getting on. when you do the same thing, you get the same thing. Maybe some self examination is in order. Looks like you're going around in circles, but it's your life and your ride. You know what you need to do.


TinmanSn 100M
74 posts
1/8/2023 2:58 pm

I too am tired of the ride. I've given up any number of times. The landscape grows steadily more desolate and bleak but as they say - hope springs eternal.

Or perhaps I've gone insane? Trying the same thing over and over expecting different results.


DancingDom 74M
22578 posts
1/8/2023 3:53 pm

Sometimes a short break will help with clarity on your goals, selection process, desire etc. But do what you feel like doing.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


meltwill2 72M  
3795 posts
1/8/2023 4:07 pm

    Quoting lisamac197906:
    I feel your pain sister. I let one in so deep. He seemed the real deal and was local (hallelujah). Big plans to meet this weekend after hours upon hours of talking and getting to know one another, to wake up this morning left unread and his profile changed. I would have hoped for at least the curtesy of at least a goodbye your not what I am looking for. I want to encourage you to continue on because there could be a good one out there for you, but I don’t believe it myself.

    Big hugs
YOU have the last laugh on him because YOU know what he missed and he does not and he will never have a clue.... Some are rude.....some are just asses....


likeithot19 62M
6023 posts
1/8/2023 4:33 pm

I also believe in the two way street.
My way or the highway, gets old quick
For most... but not all


yermaineman 65M
390 posts
1/8/2023 5:25 pm

I'm sorry that they even exist,... for all of us.
~Heavy sigh~
Fall back,... gain perspective,... perhaps a bit of adjustment here and there
Can't give up...
smiling for you 😀😎


BssMan63 61M
95 posts
1/8/2023 6:45 pm

My way or the Highway has never worked for me and I also dont expect anyone to be perfect so we all make mistakes just need to be ready for the mistakes and know they will happen. John


heatedcorrosion 56M
80 posts
1/8/2023 8:23 pm

In so sorry, it is so difficult to separate the wheat front the chaff. And there will always imposters player and just immature men who fail at being men. Need to learn manners and take responsibility for what they say and promises. Keep learning and you will be able to sift through the stunted makes and ding one with personal integrity. Good luck.


knottaslut 53F

1/8/2023 10:57 pm

How many times have I heard this, it's mainly men. They use a smooth line and expect you to fall over them, ask them how their wives are and their face goes all blank. Taking a person out for dinner, a little bit of getting to know you chat over a meal? No way, it's 2 time consuming and awkward not to mention the cost of a good meal. They look at you like a piece of freshly baked cake, you're just something that's soft, hot and ready to consume.


ExNameForUse 53F
5752 posts
1/9/2023 12:49 am

They say we keep repeating the same mistakes until we learn the lesson.
I believe all the answers are within ourselves and why we choose who we choose and what we choose... look inside, there is the answer.
There will always be charming badasses... see the pathern and avoid.


tastetester61 62M
1777 posts
1/9/2023 2:05 am

    Quoting knottaslut:
    How many times have I heard this, it's mainly men. They use a smooth line and expect you to fall over them, ask them how their wives are and their face goes all blank. Taking a person out for dinner, a little bit of getting to know you chat over a meal? No way, it's 2 time consuming and awkward not to mention the cost of a good meal. They look at you like a piece of freshly baked cake, you're just something that's soft, hot and ready to consume.
I agree, and it puzzles me! It's all the things a lady does outside the bedroom that makes me want to get them in there.

I recommend a short break to declutter your mind. Then you can start to analyse your selection process and adjust so as to bypass what you don't want.

Good luck.


Tckg12 69M
2484 posts
1/9/2023 2:23 am

if you're looking for conversation and chats i'd be happy to help you.

that being said there are many scammers on this. site and there are some who are actually looking to meet others with similar interests but they are few and far between. just nned to be patient and persistent in your search. don't give up.


mr_invisible0 70M
115 posts
1/9/2023 6:15 am

Ahhh the yellow brick road searching for a mind that will turn you on a thousand miles away


BadDoggBlue 66M

1/9/2023 7:50 am

I have found that most men and woman here are fakes and i sympathize with your pain and hurt. I would love to chat with you even though i amcurrently living in Germany. If you are interested send me a message on my blog.We can work something out.


funluvnlilbrat 41F  
1 post
1/10/2023 6:43 am

I hear you.. somtimes its extreamly dishearting.


mr_invisible0 70M
115 posts
1/24/2023 5:43 am

cum closer and tell me all about it


CelticMaster57 66M  
85 posts
2/7/2023 8:48 pm

Hugs, My friend.



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