Close Please enter your Username and Password
Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
Password reset link sent to
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Blogs > ExNameForUse > Thoughts of an Introvert

ExNameForUse 53F
4245 posts
6/15/2021 3:00 pm
The Illusion
This post is only viewable by Local Fetish Fans members.
Join Local Fetish Fans now!

1uncommondom 77M

6/15/2021 5:39 pm

 Everyone claims to be lonely,
but their afraid of intimacy.
They keep their TV on for company,
expecting more from technology
and less from their partners . .
Social networks give the illusion
of companionship, without the
demands of friendship.

"We don't see things as they are,
we see them as we are."
Anaiis Nin


ExNameForUse replies on 6/16/2021 1:12 pm:
As someone said, what you see in me, is a reflection of you... I do agree, people are frightened of intimacy, of being vulnerable, or showing their weaknesses.. it is fear of being rejected, fear of losing respect, fear of not being appreciated the way they are... screens are the perfect place to hide and remain safe, feeding the illusions instead of nurturing what is real.

FL_Firmhand 64M

6/15/2021 5:44 pm

 Sometime you are able to be there and hold them and they do not die alone


ExNameForUse replies on 6/16/2021 1:17 pm:
In truth, having that would mean I have achieved something in my life, either to hold someone's hand or to have someone to hold mine when the day comes.

vc210616alt01 51M/52F

6/15/2021 6:15 pm


vc210616alt01 51M/52F

6/15/2021 6:16 pm


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
6/15/2021 6:25 pm

 And to think, Orson Welles had Rita Hayworth and partner, Delores Del Rio...but words/phrases resonate.

I consider my fortunate.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/16/2021 1:18 pm:
The first time I read this, it had resonated with my whole being. Glad you felt it too.

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
6/15/2021 11:04 pm

 Actually, Orson is (was!) wrong. We are individuals and experience the world from our own unique perspectives, but that is not to say we are alone. Many of us have the comfort of family - either that we were born into, or that we create. Many are lucky enough to find a "soul mate" with whom theycan share life's adventures and trials and surely, only but the saddest bastards can name one or two very close friends and a supporting cast of acquaintances. And, increasingly, these days digital technology is there, as the French would say, "pour brisser la solitude".


ExNameForUse replies on 6/16/2021 12:54 pm:
This time I shall disagree as I think Orson was right here. No matter of our family members, friends, or just acquaintances, we share our lives, good and/or bad days, going through your deepest, darkest or brightest - you need to do alone, when you remain alone, with your own self...


Become a member to comment on this blog


×
×