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Blogs > ExNameForUse > Thoughts of an Introvert

ExNameForUse 53F
4243 posts
6/18/2021 2:51 pm
Road to nowhere
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DancingDom 74M
22588 posts
6/18/2021 3:42 pm

 Sorry for your loss.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2021 11:11 am:
Thank you, DD.

drmgirl622 68F  
26110 posts
6/18/2021 6:55 pm

 Let me give you a hug......


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2021 11:10 am:
Thank you, I really appreciate your time for reading and sharing your thoughts, your understanding...

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
6/19/2021 11:30 am

 I never knew why this didn't work out. I am sorry for you that you didn't find the happiness that, I suspect, you deserve. I know something of loss and grief and can understand how one could experience something similar, even if the object of your love is still around. Life moves forward and other possibilities will present themselves. It is possible that they may never live up to what went before, but that doesn't diminish their value. Life is a vast array of possible paths, but in the end, there is only one path you can follow and that is your own. It would be foolish to suggest that something "even better" will shortly come along (I know how I would feel if somebody was insensitive enough to say that to me), but something different will surely come for you. Some paths we walk down together; some we must walk alone, but that doesn't mean you won't have a companion on a future path.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/19/2021 2:30 pm:
We all deserve it, the happiness... why it didn't work out is something I don't know either, still don't understand, and still trying to put all of the puzzles in place and see the clear and whole picture. I guess there were signs, maybe I didn't take them seriously enough. All that makes me upset and I have a deep feeling of being betrayed. Not to mention that all is happening in a situation when friendly support for moving now from this place to another, separating from my son, would mean a world to me... I really feel betrayed. Sorry to bother with too many words, and thank you for reading me and being in a way "with me" since I started writing here, as writing helps ease the ache for a moment...

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
6/20/2021 12:04 pm

 Perhaps he is what the French would call a fantasmeur. He could spin a compelling tale of your future together, intrigue you, seduce you, but he never had any intention ofmaking it a reality. Perhaps he has commitments that he either could not or did not wnat to escape. When the fantasy began to take on shape and offer a chance of reality, he retreated because it (not you) was not something he ever wanted to become real. If this scenario is close to the truth, then he is utterly beneath contempt for making you believe a fantasy could ever be real. In any relationship, even the shadow of one, we eachowe the other honesty, but sadly many (men and women) fall short of the mark.


ExNameForUse replies on 6/21/2021 3:29 pm:
Maybe I am way too naive, but I could defend to the death my belief that he is not of that kind. But if he was, then I salute him and his ways and I salute to my blindness.

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
6/20/2021 6:26 pm


ExNameForUse replies on 6/21/2021 3:16 pm:
Thank you...


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