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Everything will be okay, one day...
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I think there are and always will be so many questions that will never be answered.
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Really good points ex... And may I suggest trust your gut..; When you can't put your finger on it, but you know something isn't right.. Our instinct knows... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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7/20/2021 5:37 pm |
I never get involved with a lady physically until we have talked for awhile to get to know them outside of anything to do with any sex or bdsm play.I want to know her as a person and what her other interests are.Talk to them long enough and you will find out if they are playing games or if you will feel any connection.
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One important thing to remember. Everyone is not singular1 Individuality is NOT a choice. The more alike we seem to be the the more different we are! Try not to lump personalities together always search for the individual because just because they look, act, smile, laugh, smell, sound they are one individual. ie: I went to school with identical maternal twins and they were for the most part identical but their personalities and preferences were not! they played different sports, one played guitar-the other no music he was more mechanically inclined. they went to different universities one for Engineering one for Psychology. You may think 'their parents raised them this way' NOPE! that is one reason why one became a Psychologist and talking with him at a recent Class reunion told me that he believes that it had to do with which side of the brain becomes dominant. (both are right handed btw.) Sorry for the rambling "Thesis", I'll stop now!
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It's good to have sites like this one to develop new friendships and possible relationships, but then again it's kind of sad that we have sites like this one where people of bad will can lurk. I agree with pac369, trust your instincts and don't deviate. Otherwise...
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Ex, Pac is absolutely correct. Use your gut. MIne has kept me out of more trouble than I care to discuss. But it's also led me into some great friendships, and relationships. I have some really beautiful things in my life because I chose to listen to it. After a while, you need to shut this damn thing off and go out and live as well. Nothing is ever going to be a substitute for that. I hope you find the peace you're looking for. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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This (to an extent) is a world of dominants and submissives. However, before one can fulfil that role, on whatever part of that spectrum, one must be attracted to/satisfied by what is on offer. You (and I mean you  ) need to be reassured that the person you are dealing with is sincere, so if you and they are to have any future, then they need to respond to your requirements first, before there could ever be a relationship. If they can't do that, then they dismiss themselves for further consideration. We all do this - much as I might enjoy the firm young body (!) I have no interest in anybody younger than (say) 30; I have no interest in scat, extreme pain (or pain, actually!); humiliation etc. These things make up our hard boundaries - I am not remotely interested in men - but then, when you move a notch closer to somebody who may be of interest, the softer boundaries come in: are they married, are they too clingy; are they engaging etc. Even online, there is a rutual of courtship to go through before you could stand on the cusp of a "relationship" (in its loosest form) and at each stage of that dance, you both have the option to politely decline or take a step or two backwards - to do anything else is plain silly.
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