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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
7/26/2021 11:08 am
Loving

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
7/26/2021 11:25 am

Love ain't always enough...


drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
7/26/2021 11:31 am

For whatever reason, some just can't give that much and are too afraid to share themselves.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 11:59 am:
I hope, really hope, that at least they know and are aware of their own reasons, girl.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
7/26/2021 11:45 am

that’s the kinda love devotion dedication loyalty partnership l seek w a sub!
Love is work
Love takes two that are committed to it


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 12:01 pm:
Thank you for your comment, yes it is a hard work indeed and as such rewarding in its fulfillment...

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
7/26/2021 2:16 pm

Loving someone in all of her moods, conditions, under any circumstances... not being afraid of all her flaws, not being a deserter when it becomes difficult... but even if you love them with all your heart, is she ready to be loved that way?

me.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 12:07 pm:
it takes a bit of bravery to let somebody love you.. bravery to be who you are, bravery to let somebody see you as you are and bravery to trust them they won't destroy you knowing your weaknesses.. it is easier to give up denying the need for love... most common tool of self-defense

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
7/26/2021 2:32 pm

I don't believe in truly unconditional love. You can have a very tolerant, understanding love, but in any life, there are boundaries that simply cannot be crossed. When you find that somebody special, it is unlikely that they will cross any of your red lines (or you theirs), but there are always going to be some actions that, if taken, would be unforgivable - for instance, lying about something significant, being unfaithful where you have promised to be faithful...


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 12:11 pm:
What you described here, Raven, is what I consider to be unconditional.. loving, accepting, respecting, and not pre-conditioning.. and I believe that it is possible to have such a relationship.. maybe I won't have it, but I know it exists...

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
7/26/2021 6:31 pm

There is no secret formula, but a relationship, well a successful relationship takes equal parts of Love from both sides. Love the photo.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 12:13 pm:
I love this photo too.. there is a bit of me in there.. I don't know why but when I saw it it was like I saw myself...

aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
7/27/2021 3:47 am

Your post made me think of my very first blog post ever. This is what it said;

“The truth is that the more intimately you know someone, the more clearly you’ll see their flaws. That’s just the way it is. This is why marriages fail, why children are abandoned, why friendships don’t last. You might think you love someone until you see the way they act when they’re out of money or under pressure or hungry, for goodness’ sake. Love is something different. Love is choosing to serve someone and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart. Love is patient and kind, love is deliberate. Love is hard. Love is pain and sacrifice, it’s seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship.”

― The Great Kamryn

I definaltley beieve this is 100% true. My last D/s relationship was a very long one for all these reasons and more. It's why marriages used to last for 40, 50, even 60 years. Nowadays people are just built differently.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 12:33 pm:
I agree with what your post is saying completely.. and if you think, looking just from the other perspective, it happens that with opening oneself, showing weaknesses, how vulnerable you are, having health issues, or financial problems perhaps.. you can easily think you don't deserve to be loved, that your partner won't love you in your bad days, or will be annoyed with your bad moments, and then you decide their love is not for you.. that you don't deserve to be loved because you are not as you used to be, as you remember you can be... and you reject (under god knows what excuses) the love someone is giving to you accepting all your issues, problems, flows, darkness or whatever... destructive insecurities...

Springfiel117 44M
10 posts
7/27/2021 9:00 am

Not everyone thinks they are deserving of love.


ExNameForUse replies on 7/27/2021 12:14 pm:
That is the right answer... and the whole truth. Thank you for your comment.


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