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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
1/29/2022 1:03 pm
Sweet Little Lies

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
1/29/2022 1:03 pm

A small reward for handling well the above-mentioned situation… good girls get rewards, right


chameleon63 61M
203 posts
1/29/2022 1:58 pm

Well done Ex, that's a step forward. I've often said the hard part of being smart or aware is the stark realization of all the lies people expect you to believe "just because" .. because of who they think they are, or their position, or their arrogance or ego.
There is a quote, actually it's a social misquote that's been attributed to George Orwell, that sadly seems to more true every passing day.

"In a Time of Universal Deceit — Telling the Truth Is a Revolutionary Act"

The clips are a nice touch, they seem to make you smile.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 2:27 pm:
Thank you, I felt a bit proud of myself, if that's not too much to say, but I really did... in this case, it was a mixture of arrogance and huge self-esteem, but now not my problem any longer.
Not many revolutionaries left these days, unfortunately...

drmgirl622 68F  
26119 posts
1/29/2022 2:37 pm

Well done for responding! Acknowledgement of the hurt and expressing your feelings will help to let go of disappointment.

I do love those little clips you have there


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 3:10 pm:
Thank you, Girl. I am pleased with how I dealt with the situation and my own understanding of what was happening and responding accordingly...
And little clips are cute, thank you just a little thing to brighten the day

Plzrmeister 67M  
10464 posts
1/29/2022 2:40 pm

Holy cheese and crackers! Is Ex beautiful or freaking what?!?!
I'd love seeing those clamps squeezing some other sensitive ends! Yes, good girls get rewards ... Always.


The face that launched a thousand ships I'm telling ya. Helen of Troy has got nothing on Ex. I'd say something about those wonderful nipple clamps, except I think my heart just leapt into my throat.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 3:26 pm:
Thank you, Plz. A bit exaggerated, but I will take all you said as a compliment.

DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
1/29/2022 2:43 pm

Well now you know. No point in maintain any sort of relationship with a liar.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 2:56 pm:
It was a "friend", DD, we knew each other for a few years now.
I think this has happened now only because I have changed in the meanwhile, not afraid of losing people even if I know they are not "my" people... a lot of time wasted on wrong people in my life.. don't have energy for that, DD, anymore.

alwaysassertive 64M

1/29/2022 3:21 pm

Some lies are okay. For instance if a woman asks, " does this dress make my ass look big"? I'm not going to say..yea honey you got a big ass. I'm going to tell her she looks great. However I might also say. I don't really like that particular dress. Do you mind if I help you pick out something to wear?

While telling a lie in general isn't good. If you watch the movie Casablanca. It's riddled with examples where lying was noble.

Although those are good examples where It's okay to lie. I'm not going to tell you I drive a Corvette and have a 6 figure income. There's a threshold I won't cross.

If someone tells you they never lie. That person is a lier. How many times have you told someone to have a nice day and you're thinking fuck you or when stoped for speeding someone asks the officer, " did I do something wrong"?
As if they expect the officer to say, " no bitch, driving a 100 miles per hour in a 65 is just fine, You're good to go".

Basically what I'm saying is. Sometimes it's okay, and other times It's not.
There is no black and white answer. It all depends on the situation and the possible outcome. Oh, and if that red dress makes your ass look big. I'm not going to say something that's going to hurt you.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 3:33 pm:
I understand what you are saying AA. I myself lie every day when someone asks me how I am I always say I am fine, thank you, even when I am not... this situation was a little bit different and not that much related to telling a lie, as to attempt to fool me afterward.. it was like.. do you believe more your own eyes and what you see than to what I am saying... that was a bit too much...

And my ass looks perfect in that red dress, just that you know

alwaysassertive 64M

1/29/2022 4:49 pm

You're right. Your ass looks fantastic in whatever you're wearing. There's no reason for you to feel down. You're a desirable woman. If you're not a man's most valuable treasure then, he's not worthy to have you. When you feel down just remember your value. I don't know anything about good girls. I like bad girls. Girls that are motorcycle friendly.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 11:50 pm:
I was just joking a bit about "red dress and my ass", as an extend to your example of truth speaking. So all good, I am not down at all.
Good girl and bad girl are still just girls, both hapilly reside in one girl's mind. One does not exclude the other.

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
1/29/2022 8:31 pm

Ex

YOU deserve your reward!

Well done on getting over this guy quickly!

I love the earrings too


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 1/29/2022 11:55 pm:
Jenny, thank you, so I thought when I saw those cuties through the open door of that shop when I was out for a walk.
It was a 'friend', not a guy in that sense, knowing each other for a few years, but obviously lacking a few important atributes for a friend title.. respect in the first place.
I dont need that in my life 🙂

rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
1/29/2022 8:43 pm

I think you handled that situation rather well.
And, those clips!! 😆
I want them!!😍
I, seriously thought they were earrings!!
You could easily wear them on the streets!
Nobody will know....😘


ExNameForUse replies on 1/30/2022 12:00 am:
They are MULTI clips, 2 in 1, or at least I made them to be 😊
Please, do me a pleasure, if you wish of course, and send me the details through Fet, where you can find me under the same name, and I would love to make them as a little present for you.
It would make me really happy to make someone else happy 🙂

Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
1/30/2022 12:28 am

How's your hearing? It's a little fuzzy, but otherwise, okay.
End bad jokes . . .

What you said about the squeeze, and wanting more . . .Are you really a masochist?

The way you handled the 'friend' lie is quite remarkable. Kudos to you, and screw him to him!
Liars lie to themselves first and foremost. Therefore, they can never be trusted.

Best Wishes!


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


ExNameForUse replies on 1/30/2022 12:34 am:
No, I am not seeing myself as a masochist, not at all.
And having one less fake friend is always a kind of win, no matter how bitter the feeling at first can be.
Best to you, too.

aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/31/2022 5:22 am

I love the clamps. They are beautiful. "Super sweet & super pinchy" is a great combination! I adore that feeling as well.
As for what happened to you. It sounded like you handled yourself with dignity and grace, I can appreciate that.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 1/31/2022 12:22 pm:
Thank you, Ali.. they have proven to be a good choice, and I have really enjoyed the sensation for quite a while... the biggest impression to me is that feeling that remains... floating through my body long after they have been taken off... I wrote at first ripped off, but in truth that is not the feeling that I like, as removing them can be painful even if done very gently...
Dignity and grace are very well-chosen words, I sometimes lack the right wording, but you have done it this time for me. It is a good feeling when you see yourself outgrowing yourself.. not sure if this makes sense, but I hope you know what I mean..


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