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Blogs > ExNameForUse > Thoughts of an Introvert

ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
2/22/2022 6:00 am
Fooling Time
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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
2/22/2022 6:03 am

 My preference is to call it observing time, rather than fooling


Plzrmeister 67M  
10455 posts
2/22/2022 6:11 am

 I'd say that's a fool proof thought!

Well aren't you the clever one?
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ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 7:55 pm:
Thank you, Plz. It is indeed the truth what you wrote. It all depends on the perspective of the viewer.
The very same thought or action can be considered as pure idiotism or pure wisdom, depending on who the viewer is.
I guess I am both an idiot and a wise one as you suggested

Yern2lic 67M
1345 posts
2/22/2022 6:20 am

 Very well stated


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 7:56 pm:
Just some random thoughts whilst I was on my third coffee, with a headache, and working from home... thank you for stopping by to read, Yern

pac369 64F  
12700 posts
2/22/2022 7:05 am

 Nice Ex!

Sometimes it is best to just observe.
How a situation unfolds.
And that's easier when your not involved.

Just saying...
~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 8:11 pm:
Thank you, pac. Absolutely much easier when you are not involved.
Being involved involves so many other "perspectives", rather than just rational. And those perspectives, emotions, thoughts are often hard to keep quiet.
Speaking for myself though

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
2/22/2022 7:27 am

 Wow, that really makes one stop and think.


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 8:15 pm:
Dear Girl, I wish sometimes I think less, as overthinking most of the time brings me nothing but a headache
Maybe life is much simpler and should be lived in an easy-going way, rather than trying to figure out many of the things, or people that surround us

rondiri 65M
11180 posts
2/22/2022 8:05 am

 Jeez, I do this SOOO friggin often on Alt, letting the scammers expose themselves. They think because I'm old, I'm a foolish old man.


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 8:18 pm:
Ahhh what does it mean to be old? Does that make someone a full, or just a bit wiser and more experienced, hence having a bit more fun when jumping into someone who is trying to fool you while you sit, observe and enjoy your popcorn...

grywolf2 73M
3112 posts
2/22/2022 8:11 am

 Looking at the image I'm reminded of an old story that most will know.

This country boy is resting on a fence post and a man from the city pulls his car alongside him, lowers his window, and asks the young man how to get to someplace he was trying to find. The boy said he didn't know.
The man then asked about two more locations and the boy had the same answer. Visibly irritated the man asked the boy, "Don't you know anything?"
To that, the boy just smiled and said, "I know I'm not lost."


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 8:23 pm:
A perfect analogy for what I was trying to write here.
Many thanks for sharing. I think "I know I'm not lost" sums it up perfectly

Artschoolgrad 47M
8719 posts
2/22/2022 8:57 am

 agree!


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 8:24 pm:
Thank you, Arty

goodguy863 68M

2/22/2022 7:45 pm

 To properly play a fool is let them take the mental lead. Don't argue or debate with them and when they think they have won the game you simply say "NO".. If a next sentence is necessary you simply say .. " No is a complete sentence "... Always remember the second person starts the argument. Few people can keep quiet without answering. The first person is just running off at the mouth and has no power until you play into it. It's the only way to handle a narcissist because they need verbal fuel to survive.


ExNameForUse replies on 2/22/2022 8:32 pm:
Thank you very much for your perspective, goodguy,
I can only agree with what you have said
Handling a narcissist is tough work, requires mental strength and discipline to resist, as they will try in every way to provoke you and engage in their games.
Though it seems on the surface you are letting them that mental lead, in the end, you are the one who wins that mental game.
Not an easy job.
And: "No is a complete sentence" is something to remember

aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
2/23/2022 1:47 am

 I heard this quote once: "You're too close to see things clearly." It happens when I am trying to assess a situation that I'm mentally too close to. I couldn't make a decision about the situation, because the lines were blurred. I needed to step back and take a breather and then take another look. I hope I didn't go too far off track?...

~M
"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 2/23/2022 6:50 am:
No, M.. not far at all, it is what I had in mind in a way. It is good to step back, give yourself and to others more space to breath, to see things clearly and then decide.
Distancong, either physically or emotionally, opens up new perspectives, and often gives answers to more questions than we expected.

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
2/23/2022 10:11 am

 A young Boris Johnson?


ExNameForUse replies on 2/23/2022 11:45 am:
I think each place on Earth has one Boris... or more

ridermantel 68M

2/27/2022 4:11 am

 No one is fooling any one. They are just being themselves. You are who you are.


ExNameForUse replies on 2/27/2022 5:34 am:
True. You can't escape from yourself.


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