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There is never too much love. It is a mighty beautiful power when unleashed and set free.
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I, personally, do not have children. I was the oldest in my family, so I look at my younger siblings as my children especially since my Mother has passed. With that said, I try so hard to be an example for them and let them know how important they are to me. As for my legacy......let it be that I was a kind soul.
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LIFE Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is a sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. life is luck, make it. Life is too precious, do not destroy it. Life is life, fight for it. Mother Theresa
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2/27/2022 9:10 am |
You have said it perfectly. I raised my son with love, hugs, kisses, and support (along with discipline when needed). His childhood was chaotic as his mother is mentally ill and an alcoholic. His choice was to have 2 parents under one roof, and I honored that, until I couldn't anymore. But by then he was an adult and away at college. I always made sure he understood that her issues were not his fault and the demons that haunted her were not his responsibility. I tried to shield him from the worst of it, but I never lied to him either. I answered his questions truthfully and at a level he was able to understand. He is now 28 years old, married, and a loving, compassionate, patient, and empathetic adult. We have talked a number of times about his childhood and the impact it has had on him. He admitted it was difficult at times, but he always knew that he was loved deeply by both his mother and me. I couldn't be prouder of him. So, love may not conquer all, but it surely gives someone a fighting chance.
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There is no guide book or specific way to care for your loved ones. You just do and love them as best as you can. You can't ask for more. You will make mistakes, but you are human, no one is perfect.Neither you or your son, Just love him as you have. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Ex I totally agree with you! e must give our Loved Ones as much warmth as we can and constantly review our lives! A great post  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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3/1/2022 9:48 am |
I like everything you said and feel. Life is so slow when you are young. One day you turn and look back and see all you have done and experienced. And then when you turn back around life has caught up with you. It has gone by in a flash. But we were told that all along as we were growing up. I remember an incident with a friend when we were very young. He got in some sort of trouble and his father sent him to bed without any supper. The next morning his father apologized to him. My friend's mom asked his dad, "What if you never saw him again and that was your last act?" Well, I never forgot that. I also worked with my uncle for a while. After work I said "goodby" and started to get in my car. He shouted "Never say goodbye, always say goodnight."
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"Made me think if I loved my son enough, kissed and hugged him enough, had enough understanding and tolerance, patience when needed. I know I am doing my utmost, but is that enough? Made me think about what will I leave to him as my legacy. Not in material things, but what he will be keeping inside of him when thinking of me. Did I manage to plant the seed of compassion, of warmth and care, empathy, acceptance of differences, and knowing the real value of things and people, to be fearless, and never stop working on his dreams"… I missed this post when it was originally posted. It blew me away when I read it. I have two grown sons. I raised them both on my own. I always wondered about those same things. They are absolute gentlemen. I couldn't be prouder. Your words resonated so much with me. Thank you for sharing this wonderful piece. I came across this piece. I wanted to share it with you. Sons Teach your sons to say sorry. To admit they need to stop and ask for directions or that they have no idea how to fix an engine. Allow them to cry. Let them love whoever steals their heart; the tall, dark and bearded barista or the brown-eyed bohemian artist who punctuates every laugh by biting her lip. They may have your sense of humor or dimples, but they are not you. Let them be them. And, emotional constipation is not hereditary, it's taught. All the Best, ~M "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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