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... and looking forward to finding that out one day…
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That place where it becomes almost too much. Too much of a good thing is a pleasure ...... Yeah - I like that losing count part.  Make Women Female Again
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3/1/2022 7:30 am |
I made a sweeping statement earlier on orgasm denial in another blog and I should have been more specific and qualified it. I was speaking from my own perspective. I just would never do that. But I am sure there exist dynamics between D/s participants where this is part of their understanding. I just feel that to bring someone up to the point and then deny it is wrong. Where is the care and nurturing of the Dominant to their submissive?
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Lord what fools these mortals be. Perhaps you should have fun and that's all that counts. We are moments from WW3.
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I have 'experienced' orgasm denial. Maybe it was more a case of neglet instead of orgasm 'controle'....? It almost drove me mad. It depends if it is for some small amount of time, say halve a hour? Maybe? But for sure not for days on end. It was, also totally NOT negotiated.... talked about... beforehand.... To me, this is, for now, a very hard limit. I dont see the function of it. What is there to learn? From orgasm neglet/denial. How does that make me a better slave for my master? I can controle my sexual urges, feelings, already, i dont sexual harrash men, when i get horny., duh!
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I have experienced the denial and, for me, it is such an ethereal experience. Mistress would have me edge and edge then the command "Stop" would come. I think it is all about her control and being so close to release. It is her way of having me in a constant state of arousal. It pleases her and magnifies the orgasm when it is finally permitted.
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I imagine it depends what your BDSM motivations are. My interest in it would only relate to (mutual) pleasure through the giving and taking of control. For those who go into "the lifestyle", I imagine different dynamics prevail. Whilst "denial" might be used as a tool to boost the eventual release, deciding, at some point, that matters are now at an end strikes me as far from satisfactory - but then I'm a hedonist!
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Ex I agree - we are all different! To me, denial would be very uncomfortable but delaying, very acceptable A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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I could never use this "method" of orgasm withholding as a form of control, long term. However, being of the age where a certain amount of regeneration time is needed to come into heat I find it helps the process to abstain from any form of release for a few days. (As opposed to when I was younger, about about 40 years ago, where an abstention of 3 minutes and 8 seconds would be all that was needed to become interested again.) ( ) However, I have read about a partnership where the male is kept in constant denial, even as his partner has regular orgasms through the use of his tongue, or, the occasional act of being cuckolded (as in tied up and blindfolded in the other room, while wearing a cock cage, and listening to wife getting her brains fucked out.) Later when the bull departs, they both watch the video she has made of her cuckolding encounter, he still being in an aforementioned cage. She then teases denied husband, and sometimes (having been made horny by watching her own videos of her very recent encounter), makes him once again do tongue servicing for yet another orgasm, before placing him in a restrictive body bag, and both going to sleep. The male's orgasm denial can go on for months while being made to wear that cage. His wife happily brags about this in her blog posts, giving us the updated weeks or months that he has not had an orgasm. He has to like this, right? Right? You may know which couple I am referring to. While admittedly, it is an extreme case---That I read about with great interest---usually creating urges in me that need very immediate release, which (in my case) I happily indulge in.) But I digress... As I was saying, it is an extreme case. But it illustrates one important fact about male physiology: Once we receive release, we are usually done. Done, as in not interested. Ready to watch baseball games or read the paper or read a novel or two. (At least for the amount of time regeneration is needed, which can be days.) If we are kept in denial (By 'we', I don't mean me, of course. I mean males with less of a demanding libido or a very long regenerating process,) then we are constantly horny, and thereby very attentive to a partner who is far more sexual than us and demands constant attention and many varied (and frequent) forms of release. Plus, there is a highly erotic atmosphere being created by said denial. The male being subjected to this becomes horny to an extent he would never experience if he was allowed his infrequent releases. It's not for me, but it sure is fun to read about it.
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