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ExNameForUse 54F
4226 posts
4/13/2022 11:50 am
Notes of my Thoughts

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ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
4/13/2022 11:51 am

photo: In Thoughts of You by Jack Vettriano


rondiri 65M
11202 posts
4/13/2022 12:10 pm

Interesting. Not sure what the communication barrier is. Different language?


ExNameForUse replies on 4/13/2022 12:17 pm:
I am not a native English speaker, Rondiri. And we do communicate, actually we do communicate very well, ... it is just me missing words sometimes to express better what I would love to... and I don't like that feeling

Plzrmeister 67M  
10572 posts
4/13/2022 12:11 pm

I'm unable to think so deeply.

There is a God!

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 4/14/2022 12:09 am:
Not sure about God, though...

DancingDom 74M
22623 posts
4/13/2022 1:35 pm

You surely can be a kitty curled up in a lap. IN my case, it probably would make my cat jealous.

Not having a fully versed use of another language is understandable. A partner would not think less of you.

Wear something you think is sexy underneath the exterior apparel. Or nothing, making sure he is aware of that fact. But no matter what, you are sexy.

I could go on hitting all your points. But I don't think there is any need to. Just lead a good life and continue to be who you are.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 4/14/2022 12:12 am:
Thank you, DD. It is always welcome to read your comments and thoughts.
It is what I intend to do, to live a good life, or as good as it can be, and ti be who I am. I wouldn't know any other way, even if I wanted to 🙂

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/13/2022 1:54 pm

Hmm
Iit is as iif you wrote some of my never ending mind../ thoughts.... Pffff....
almost never silent,
always thoughts and thoughts... keeps on going.

About the langauge,
sometimes when i try to tell something, the strangest things fall out of my mouth...
it is not a stutter, it is just nonsense, i have that too, when i am getting a bit nervous......\

My mouth goes faster then my mind can follow, or something like that.

grrr, i sometimes say, sorry, my talking machine is not warm yet, just wait, let me do this again!


ExNameForUse replies on 4/14/2022 12:01 am:
Dear Rosa, thank you.. it is just how I am.. overthinker... just the way my mind works.. 😁

And when I am about to talk, in English, it is like I am going to the stage, to perform something, feeling nervous a bit as I want to be good at it, and it may happan that is what sometimes makes me worse than I would actually be if I was not thinking of it so much...
But we do understand each other, He is generous with His patience, and I can only be thankful 😊

ridermantel 68M

4/13/2022 2:13 pm

Different languages can be a barrier. She said to put it in the boot. Boot? It won't fit. She opens the trunk of my DB5 and tosses it in the trunk. You mean the trunk? No, she says, the boot? She then asks me to check the oil under the bonnet. You mean the hood? No, she says, the bonnet. I give up. I then say I am going to spank her ass. She says, no, my bum. Your bum is going to spank your ass? No, you are going to spank my bum. Is who still on first?


ExNameForUse replies on 4/13/2022 11:51 pm:
Well Rider, now when I have read this, I am confident and sure that I dont have a problem at all, and that there is no language barrier between my Daddy and me 😊
Thank you for sharing this with me and us all... 🙂

drmgirl622 68F  
26198 posts
4/13/2022 3:05 pm

You know, I was never sure I could be that kitty but I always had faith and continued to be me. I can tend to be a little sensitive which leads to some of those same thoughts you have. I've learned to trust my instincts and that has brought much peace.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/13/2022 11:40 pm:
I think you have understood my point, dear Girl.
It is about letting that other side, a bit more sensitive, to the surface, letting her live her life, and being in peace with that new 'setting'.
Something I am not used to, feeling a bit frightened, vulnerable, and at times holding myself back for those reasons... 🙂

alwaysassertive 64M

4/13/2022 6:25 pm

you can be whatever you want to be within reason.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/13/2022 11:31 pm:
I can, and I am, His. Kitty. Babygirl. Doll. Lady.
And so much more 🙂

TheScribe1 63M

4/14/2022 3:40 am

You do yourself an injustice with your grasp of English, babygirl, you speak it brilliantly! As to your overthinking ~grumbles~ we will address that each time it appears and put those thoughts into perspective xx

My Words Are A way Into Your Mind...Be brave And let Me In.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/14/2022 4:00 am:
Thank you, my Scribe, you are too kind and encouraging, as always 🥰😊
As for my thoughts, yours 'oh, shush' works very well 🙂, it is kind of a 'safe word' for easing my ever bubbling thoughts ❤

jenny14 75T  
90481 posts
4/14/2022 12:49 pm

Ex

These thoughts have stimulated my mind

Agree - there is no agree to curling up and being warm and loving

Trust too is vital


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 4/15/2022 3:55 am:
Jenny, thank you. I am glad if my thoughts provoked your mind.

Mine is so busy at times that I wish there is a switch off button I could use and rest a bit occassionally 🙂

Artschoolgrad 47M
8874 posts
4/17/2022 11:30 am

overthinking. that is one of the hardest things to combat.


ExNameForUse replies on 4/17/2022 11:42 am:
It is Arty. A disciplined mind and focus, being aware of the moment where thoughts are about to overflow you, is the way out of that trap. No "off" button unfortunately


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