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Wow, that's such a predicament. I think it depends on the persons involved. I know I would want to know so I would be honest with my friend.
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6/16/2022 10:01 am |
From personal experience, never get involved in someone else's relationship. It's their life to live and their responsibility to deal with the consequences of their own decisions. Just my two cents.
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It can be a difficult position to be in. Circumstances differ. I told a friend once, with good reason.
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6/16/2022 10:13 am |
It's not my business to place myself into someone else's relationship. I have my own life to live and they can figure out their ups ands downs on their own. It's not my place to decide what is right or wrong for two people in a relationship unless they specifically ask for my input. What someone really needs to ask is what do they hope to gain by dropping a bomb on their marriage and being the cause of a meltdown. Do you really think those two women are going to continue to be friends? I guess she's thinking I'm going to bring you some information that's going to destroy your marriage but it's for your own good. How many times did a messenger bring bad news to an emperor and was put to death on the spot? In Rome many became lion food for being the bearer of bad news. If you're in a situation where you don't know what to do. The best thing to do is stay out of it and do nothing, but who am I that you should listen to? It's none of my business and I won't make it my business.
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6/16/2022 10:14 am |
Sorry I didn't know you only wanted our two cents. I put in a dollar's worth.
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The husband already involved her by asking her for "fun". If the guy is running around on his wife already, she should know sooner than later. The guy is a moron, hitting on his wife's best friend and either not caring if she will tell or not expecting her to tell. I'd tell the wife, in person and gently. Whether she believes it or not is up to her. I'd risk my friendship to help and protect her.
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Was the knowledge passed on important enough to lose her friendship ?
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6/16/2022 12:18 pm |
Walk softly.
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I intensely dislike cheaters. I would probably say something to him and if he persisted , say something to her.
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I believe in honesty is the best policy at all times &/or cost...the truth shall always set you free as well sooner or later the light shines on the truth!
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Ex It is an awful dilemma but this guy will continue to cheat and so, painful as it will be for all, I think she should tell her friend! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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6/16/2022 4:29 pm |
I vote for "tell him off and leave the rest alone." Many years ago, when I still lived as a woman, my best friend's husband made a serious pass at me on their wedding night. I told him off but said nothing to her that night. After agonizing over that for a day or two, I decided to tell my friend. Well, he beat me to it, completely switched it all around, and told her I made a pass at him! She blamed me and that was the end of a 10-year friendship. To compound the problem, we all worked together, so of course work became very difficult for a long time.
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AAh, Being "the other woman", is always a wasp nest. If you tell, you can become The enemy in a heart beat. Being "the other man", is a totall different pancake SOmehow, It are always the women who are to blame! Never the man! strangely enough.... If, i would mention something, i would with the both of them, in the room, adressing HIM..... and his behaviour, or asking her, if she knows.... jadajada... see what happens... I bet i will be burned at a stake by both of them! LOL Honesty? 
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I'm going to Antigua next month! See you for cocktails by the pool!
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