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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
8/14/2022 12:19 pm
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ridermantel 68M

8/14/2022 12:26 pm

Be a bird and fly. Sleep later. For now, just flay as far as you can see.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/14/2022 12:37 pm:
Dinner, shower, sleep... that's for the end of this weekend

ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
8/14/2022 12:28 pm

Case Closed.


tradecode666 62M
98 posts
8/14/2022 12:43 pm

i think that my comments might be shadowbanned.

that sucks.

i am an outcast in a bdsm forum, ffs.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/14/2022 12:55 pm:
It takes time for everything. Write for yourself, not for others, and their comments, or to be noticed. Have your own way. The like-minded will recognize.

ridermantel 68M

8/14/2022 12:49 pm

You are not for sale. Your words. Don"t forget that.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/14/2022 12:56 pm:
I needed this reminder. Lesson learned

ridermantel 68M

8/14/2022 12:51 pm

    Quoting tradecode666:
    i think that my comments might be shadowbanned.

    that sucks.

    i am an outcast in a bdsm forum, ffs.
Man, They got you all wrong. I know that. You are a thinker. Most people in power despise thinkers. Hang in there.


likeithot19 62M
6061 posts
8/14/2022 12:52 pm

Embrace the strength you produced to see this through! Know that, you are powerful. Enjoy the knowledge gleaned... and fly like the free spirited bird you just proved to yourself, again... that you are


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 8:55 am:
Thank you, those are lovely, kind words...

rondiri 65M
11180 posts
8/14/2022 12:58 pm

Good for you. Relax and put it behind you. We all learn lessens throughout life.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 8:56 am:
It is a never-ending process of learning, Rondiri... thank you

Plzrmeister 67M  
10455 posts
8/14/2022 1:29 pm

I am done with this friend.

May the fleas of a thousand camels infest their armpits .....

Perhaps their nether region too.

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 8:59 am:
Haven't heard this phrase for ages, made me laugh now

I wish her nothing but happiness in her life, Plz. It must be hard enough to live a life with a constant calculation of what someone could do for you if you do something for them...

DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
8/14/2022 2:02 pm

Free Free Set Them Free

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:00 am:
I have set myself free

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
8/14/2022 2:31 pm

good for you girl stand your ground...charity comes from the heart!


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:05 am:
I truly believe that some things do come from the heart only and you do not charge anyone for them, as they should be for free

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
8/14/2022 3:07 pm

Now that's a good bar code to display!


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:07 am:
Ha! I loved it when I saw it, too... fits well this unfortunate situation

alwaysassertive 64M

8/14/2022 6:19 pm

I'm glad to see you take this position. When someone burns a bridge don't look back. She was never your friend, just a lier and user. I've known that type before. Once they burn that bridge my back is turned to them. That's not to say I'm unforgiving because I am forgiving, but sometimes people say or do things that can't be taken back, and the die is cast. For some people their whole purpose is to be fuel for the fire. You should feel sorry for her, because you know what being a friend is all about she doesn't.


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:11 am:
I do feel sorry for her, as she used to be a good girl, and it is sad to see she has changed this much... I guess I will never know what her true face was over the last 20+ years... there were some signs... but I was so foolish to take them seriously... my mistake.

aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
8/14/2022 10:54 pm

Congrats! I know how you feel. People can sometimes suck the life out of us. We need to set healthy boundaries I once heard:
"There are two kinds of people in the world: givers and takers. The takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better".
I really believe that.
I hope you are well
~M

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:15 am:
Thank you, M.
This situation has literally sucked the life, the faith, the strength out of me... I feel mentally and emotionally exhausted, and at the same time relieved... one friend less, yes... but is that really my loss?

Life goes on. And I love having a good sleep

Formature121 35M
22 posts
8/14/2022 11:06 pm

Makes it very clear


ExNameForUse replies on 8/15/2022 9:15 am:
Good. That is what I wanted.

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
8/15/2022 2:00 pm

Ex

That "Free Feeling" is the best!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 8/16/2022 10:06 am:
Yes, it is, Jenny. It has a high price, but people take liberties and take advantage of your kindness, or weakness... so sometimes it is better this way.


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