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Blogs > ExNameForUse > Thoughts of an Introvert

ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
11/20/2022 7:05 am
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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
11/20/2022 7:08 am

 Those are basic tools to manage conflict, I would say, in any relationship. Take what resonates, and leave if it's not... life's too short to be spent in conflicts...


drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
11/20/2022 7:59 am

 I think this is great info for any type of relationship!


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:43 am:
Exactly, Dreamy!

0410blossom 52F
708 posts
11/20/2022 8:41 am

 Thank you Ex, both of your blogs were a great read and touched on an excellent topic that occurs in every relationship or dynamic. For me I think what it boils down to; is being aware of how I am managing those moments as they come and knowing the difference between when I am being taken advantage of and when to walk alway.


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:46 am:
Yes, Blossom. In a nutshell, you have summed it up perfectly.

jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
11/20/2022 10:12 am

 Ex

Thank you

This is GREAT advice and as you say, Life is too short...
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:44 am:
Thank you, dear Jenny. It takes just a little awareness and efforts and many things could be better.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4184 posts
11/20/2022 10:17 am

 good info


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:44 am:
Thank you, BD.

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
11/20/2022 10:17 am

 Mmmmm I did a screen capture of these charts I thank you Dear Ex💋💋💋


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:47 am:
I am happy you find it that important and useful to save it this way, dear Brandy

rosaenaluin 65F
11039 posts
11/20/2022 1:54 pm

 Thank you, for this insight in human behaviour, and how to manage ourselfs. and our emotional outbreaks.


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:48 am:
You are most welcome, Rosa. I find it is a really useful insight into what we do, and what we could do.

boh99 68M
3154 posts
11/20/2022 7:55 pm

 good stuff ! thanks


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 9:48 am:
My pleasure

rosaenaluin 65F
11039 posts
11/22/2022 10:08 am

 I have learned to make a difference between the person and his or her behaviour.

and direct to what is bothering you, and research why -you-i- do feel that way...
it might have nothing to do, with the person, but with Mé instead....

You get what i mean?


ExNameForUse replies on 11/22/2022 11:11 am:
I tend to believe it is always up to me, not to another person. I offer to explain, listen, apologize, talk, and clarify, and sincerely desire to make things work. With my mother, late brother, ex-husband, a few friends, my son, and now my Scribe. Those are people who have been and are important to me.
I tried to see things and situations from their perspectives. I took responsibility for so many things in my past, and now present. But it was not and it is not always up to me, Rosa.


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