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Blogs > ExNameForUse > Thoughts of an Introvert

ExNameForUse 53F
4243 posts
11/21/2022 9:59 am
Apologize
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BDSMbedroomslave 46T
107 posts
11/21/2022 10:19 am

 Sorry, I don't apologize for anything...... oh, wait... nvm


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 11:24 am:

jenny14 75T  
90364 posts
11/21/2022 10:30 am

 Ex

I completely agree with your list

Being submissive, I tend to over apologise

Apologies are necessary when they are deserved of-course!
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 12:58 pm:
I used to over-apologize, Jenny. I realized it had to do with my self-esteem... or lack of it... and changed as I matured and learned more about myself.

boh99 68M
3154 posts
11/21/2022 10:50 am

 pretty good list, sometimes #5 could be tempered by the situation


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 11:34 am:
I could relate to most of it... apart from asking for help, which I never do as not my way... in the end, I got tired of apologizing for what it was and it was not my fault.

rydermantel 69M
25527 posts
11/21/2022 11:19 am
    Quoting BDSMbedroomslave:
    Sorry, I don't apologize for anything...... oh, wait... nvm
I LIKE YOUR STYLE.


drmgirl622 68F  
26134 posts
11/21/2022 11:42 am

 I apologize when it is truly an issue. That over apologizing can be very self-deprecating.


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 12:55 pm:
It can, and in a long run, not really doing any good to anyone.

rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
11/21/2022 11:56 am

 To family members and sincere friends, i apologize easily.
I dont like to make feel people upset, although i am very good in that, unintentionally.
Sometimes i mis that i make them feel ackward... about the things i say...
(never learned that)

.To totall strangers?
I use it as a way to disarm them.
Even if i dont mean one word about it!
If it makes them happy, i am happy, kind of way...
( i see that as a ego game, from their point of view)
Most of the time, this is in contact with men, sorry to say)
Way too big egos!

Not much value.
I am strange, like that!


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 12:09 pm:
When it comes to ego games, I noticed it works best in my work environment... all my bosses ever loved to hear me, or anyone, apologizing, for just anything... anything at all... and if used wisely, it could help in establishing a mutually satisfying relationship... the same may apply to colleagues, especially if you are new... Your humble attitude can help them fear less of your presence or see you as a threat to their positions...

meltwill2 72M  
3815 posts
11/21/2022 1:30 pm

 "Sorry, I don't apologize for anything...... oh, wait... nvm"
I don't apologize for anything.....if I do I don't really mean it!


DancingDom 74M
22598 posts
11/21/2022 2:01 pm

 I apologize when I have done something wrong and I probably should have known better.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 11:24 pm:
The way it should be, DD.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4187 posts
11/21/2022 4:46 pm

 I have no problem apologizing on my own or if they ask for one & it always comes from a sincere contrite heart!


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 11:26 pm:
I guess honest and really mature person would do it your way, BD. Thanks for sharing.

rondiri 65M
11185 posts
11/21/2022 8:09 pm

 Taking ownership of your mistakes and apologizing should be taught to all. Unfortunately, it probably still wouldn't take hold.


ExNameForUse replies on 11/21/2022 11:28 pm:
It should, Rondiri. Though many use it as a tool for manipulation.

aliljaded 53F
8947 posts
11/22/2022 12:24 am

 I always apologize AND make amends. Making amends is more important in my opinion. Because apologies are hollow without the part where you actually learn from your mistake and try not to repeat it. We grow when we make amends. That's so important. Thanks for a great topic.
"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ExNameForUse replies on 11/22/2022 8:24 am:
Thank you, M, for your contribution to the topic. I find that apologizing without amends is worthless. Just words not followed with the right actions. Manipulation, so to speak.


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