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A good apology that comes from a genuine place should acknowledge why you were hurt, take ownership of their actions, accept the blame instead of placing it on you, doesn’t take an accusatory stance, isn’t conditional, and won’t make you feel worse about yourself. Just in case someone needs to read this...
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Interesting stuff.
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Interesting read. Thank you for sharing tasina "like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission”
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A true partner will meaningfully apologize. Others, not so much...
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Hm didn’t we just cover this topic before...it’s like a personality test asking same ?s in 20 different ways! lol I stick w my original reply on your other post bout this topic!
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The words "I'm sorry" are enough.......no need to add anything else.
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A good apology that comes from a genuine place should acknowledge why you were hurt, take ownership of their actions, accept the blame instead of placing it on you, doesn’t take an accusatory stance, isn’t conditional, and won’t make you feel worse about yourself. Just in case someone needs to read this...   Never take responsibility today for what most will forget by tomorrow.
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Narcistic people are only sorry, that they have been caugth Not, ever about what they have done. This was on the radio somedays ago a ballet teacher, did ^r^a^p^e a 14 year old student of his, murdered her too did cover up, all his actions. hid the body, got rid of her clothes., too. ( he was known by the police agentcy as a pedo. And, for sure, he was crying his eyes out, on court, because he was sorry he was CAUGHT! No feelings, no responsibilities, about what had happen. blamed it on that girl, that the "cuddling" went deadly wrong.....  amp; 
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a good apology requires empathy with the hurt the other experienced. If that's not there, the apology is rarely more than a formality.
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Great writing! There are soo many of those folks, put the blame on 'you', not ever take on any responsibility. reverse it back to the 'victim'
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Ex This is an excellent reminder! I sometimes have to say (and mean it ) "I am sorry if I have offended you! I did not mean to and am glad you have pointed it out" A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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ExName, Grown up in a family met other mental problems, and me, wanting to understand what was going on, read a lot about mental sicknesses, i recognise them, from afare... And, strangely, or not?, there are A LOT of them, on sites like this, too. It sometimes looks like some epedimic, to me, every since the Corona shit the fan.. They are crawling everywhere, out of the woodworks, or so it seems. Decent people are becoming a minority, or so it seems...
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ExName, Oh, i recognise not being able to really, totally relax, that is almost imposible... When people ask me why, i just look at them and smile a bit.... How can i explain..? Also, i am always 'on', for those signals. The same way, i am always "on", for that special 'master' energy..... It is something that is not an consciously action. Only in the surroundings of the 'energy' of a Master, i am somewhat able to relax a bit..... sighs... 
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ExName, Sorry, for the late response, i thought i answered already..... Yes, i do know, understand what you are talking about, about this. I understand you, i am the same, in that way.  It is part of "our" past, it did not define us, at least not for me. it is not WHO or WHAT i am, it is just a part of how you/ i look at the world.
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