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1/20/2023 10:03 am

That's All I Got

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ExNameForUse 53F

5764 posts
1/20/2023 10:07 am

Have a lovely weekend, dear people

likeithot19 62M

6064 posts
1/20/2023 10:44 am

So very true

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:04 am:
Unfortunately.

jenny14 75T

90348 posts
1/20/2023 11:09 am

Ex

I hope your weekend is good too

I hope you can deal with the difficulties and emerge well!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:07 am:
Jenny, decision has been made - this is going to be one lazy weekend, only movies, warm tea or coffee, some nice food, and a nap in between...

I am dealing with all life is serving me, Jenny, just lose my breath sometimes seeing what's on the table

rondiri 65M

11182 posts
1/20/2023 11:11 am

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:07 am:

Heatseeker696 74M

128 posts
1/20/2023 11:25 am

Wise words !! Trouble is, thats the type of person i keep meeting.

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:08 am:
I believe we all have that misfortune in life once in a while.

rydermantel 69M

25401 posts
1/20/2023 11:39 am

That is true for some. .

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:08 am:
Of course.

annasslutnikki 71M

1/20/2023 12:15 pm

The GOOD OLD 90% rule. Learned in the last RETAIL environment I was working with/in their "MANTRA" was "We want to make 90% of our customers 100% HAPPY!". And they put that in the form of a sign on an eisel just inside the front entrance to their showroom. It ALWAYS brought a ton of questions, and the simple explanation is very similar to what you've said, "There's ALWAYS about 10% of the population that will NEVER BE SATISFIED, no matter what you do! You can GIVE the product away and cover the install costs completely and they'll STILL find something to bitch about with your effort. So, we don't care about "TRYING" to make them happy, we want to focus on the other 90%, those are OUR KINFD OF PEOPLE!!!"
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ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:10 am:
I like this thinking and approach. I should print and frame that mantra and keep it somewhere where I can see it as a reminder.

drmgirl622 68F

26118 posts
1/20/2023 3:43 pm

I can tend to be a little cynical. The life lessons have taught me to protect myself at all costs. It does take a special person to break through all that.

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:19 am:
You are a wise lady, Dreamy.
I am still learning and lessons keep coming.
The problem is when I set boundaries I feel enormous guilt, as though I haven't been giving enough chances, and some people are hard to keep outside of my world, in hope they will learn their lessons, like my son, for example, who I miss every single second, and cant stop asking myself if I am doing the right thing, will he understand one day certain things, and so on, and so on...
As for the others, my ex partners, ex husband, current partner, some friends... what can I say... I haven't been cynical enough. It is all my fault.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M

4172 posts
1/20/2023 5:38 pm

Ugh all you can only be is you nobody else
always be true to yourself nobody else
we all encounter & kiss frogs that deceive us to be harmless lil bunny’s
your going thru normal grief pattern day by day girl it all gets better lil by lil in time when you’re ready the sun will shine again...big hug for you are worthy stay strong you goT this & something good will come from it
as when 1 door closes another opens up!

ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2023 3:19 am:
It is not that much grief, BDD, as it is disbelief.


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