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And although being forgiving sometimes feels as though you are a little bit foolish and sometimes like you are alone wandering in the dark, I still choose to be the one who forgives, and therefore sleeps better without a burden of anger, bitterness or disappointment. I wont do the job for anyone else, they need to live with themselves and their sins, and maybe one day forgive themselves for being assholes... Thank you M. for your post today, I so love this word "asshole"... I think I missed it all all my life 
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I think those who measure help us grow. Perhaps you meant it differently.
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Compassion and understanding are never a weakness, though sometimes, they may be undeserved. Alles gute, as they say around these parts!
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I also believe we meet three different types of people in life; Those that helped you in a difficult time . . Those that left you in a difficult time . . And those that put you in a difficult time. We are not given a life that is to be judged, measured or forgiven by others . . We are simple given life, it's up to us to judge it, give it measure and forgive ourselves when needed. When you compare yourself to others, you insult yourself.
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Ex, I admire that, very much in you.  I dont know if i am able, to do just that. I can see, others have their own ... ? karma to life out.... be it bad or good, that is a judgement, too.... Compassion is not always appreciated or understood.... Just used to get what ever it is "they" think, can get out of it... I wont 'play' that game. shun those.... as much as possible. Does that even make sense? 
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Once upon a time I held so much animosity to one person and then I realized I was missing so much good and was expending all my energies in the wrong place.
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what about those who teach you? those that accept you for you & are their for you? sometimes people can be all the above! to forgive somebody isn’t necessarily for them but for yourself to let go & move on & heal! & forgiving doesn’t necessarily mean forgetting or not being angry! to forgive is to be divine!
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3/7/2023 10:31 pm |
All religious beliefs teach forgiveness as a main point, or are supposed to. One must forgive themselves, before they are truly capable of forgiving another, as is the same for love. Remember, too, that our names have meanings. Mine for example, is Daniel, which comes from the Biblical JUDGE noted for his time in the lions den, and Edward, which means protector of the rich. That, my middle name, doesn't seem to influence me much, as I never have used it. So, it comes down to balancing all three aspects of the self, that you mentioned, to make a whole human of yourself. Then, you have learned.
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Ex That is a beautiful picture!  It is best to forgive but it can be very hard at times, and sometimes, we just have to move on! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Oh, I'm glad you liked that, Ex. I kind of knew it would offend some, but it was true, so I let it ride.xx Forgiving someone is the easy part. Especially if you never have to see the person again. The hard part is forgiving someone when they plan to stick around to do more damage. I'm the type of person that can take a lot of shit. Then I get to a point of no return. There is no coming back for me. Some people use "I'm sorry" as a get-out-of-trouble thing. Then they keep on fucking up. I don't play that game. Once somebody has hurt me, I'm done. XX~M "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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You’re just right !
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