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ExNameForUse 54F
4227 posts
5/18/2023 11:03 am
Narcissistic Abuse

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ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
5/18/2023 11:04 am

Narcissists don’t really love themselves. Actually, they’re driven by shame. It’s the idealized image of themselves, which they convince themselves they embody, that they admire. But deep down, narcissists feel the gap between the façade they show the world and their shame-based self. They work hard to avoid feeling that shame. To fill this gap narcissists use destructive defense mechanisms that destroy relationships and cause pain and damage to their loved ones.
Many of the narcissist’s coping mechanisms are abusive–hence the term, “narcissistic abuse.”

So, extremely important to bear in mind once you start doubting yourself, and you will - abuse is never your fault!


drmgirl622 68F  
26178 posts
5/18/2023 11:16 am

It takes ones survival instinct to recognize and escape these types of people.


ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 1:00 pm:
It is extremely exhausting to live in survival mode.

rydermantel 69M
25883 posts
5/18/2023 11:44 am

Reminds me of a Star Trek episode.


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
5/18/2023 1:34 pm

Played and taken advantaged of .


ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 1:01 pm:
Been through so many painful moments, can't decide which was more painful, but many were devastating...

MTIF 66M
45 posts
5/18/2023 1:58 pm

great blog indeed


ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 1:01 pm:
Thank you.


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