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5766 posts 5/18/2023 12:48 pm |
As a friend of mine once said, stop being so forgiving, they know exactly what they are doing...
They sure do.
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90457 posts 5/18/2023 1:19 pm |
Ex
Thank you for posting this VERY important series!
Abuse must be recognised in all forms and stopped!!
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw
Jenny
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 12:11 pm:
You are welcome, Jenny. Though some may find it upsetting, I find it eye-opening and a must-do, for me, and anyone else who may need to read this. |
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3827 posts 5/18/2023 1:21 pm |
Yep, they always do......and most do it over and over and over..... 
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 12:11 pm:
There is a saying here where I live - you can do whatever you want, but not as long as you want. |
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1680 posts 5/18/2023 1:27 pm |
Here are more
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6112 posts 5/18/2023 1:51 pm |
Are you okay?
I too have had run ins with narcissists
turn the page...
What one does to get away from one.
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 12:16 pm:
I am okay, thank you for your concern. How are you?
You know, if I hadn't turned the page, I wouldn't be sharing anything on this topic. When you are stuck in this pattern, you can't even think clearly, let alone read and/or understand what you are reading about... |
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11088 posts 5/18/2023 1:55 pm |
lighthouse,
Oh My, this 'shoppinglists' of character traits is soo very accurate!
Yes! They do know, what they are doing, it is also about having power, or wanting to have power over who ever is in her/ his vicinity....
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11088 posts 5/18/2023 2:02 pm |
ExName,
If i may ask, what do you think, you win, with being so very understanding?
You dont need to answer on here, but i just thought, there must be something, you might win, or think, you win, when being so understanding....?
I dont mean to attack you, or your behaviour at all,
Just wonder if there is something you win, or gain, with that behaviour?
Because it seems so contra productive/ positive.... ? In the end, for you?
Please, dont feel attacked, that is absolutely not my intention.
I just wonder about that being understanding thing of you...
Otherwise, just forget i wrote this. 
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 12:37 pm:
Dear Rosa, I have set my account on Fet to be deleted in a few days, so here is where I will answer, and please don't worry, I don't feel offended or attacked by your question. I know you have nothing but good intentions about me and for me
I don't know why I am so understanding when it comes to people I have feelings for. I think there is something good in everyone, I think my love and understanding will make them realize there is no need for their wrongdoings, I think no one is perfect, and when we love and care for someone we accept them and understand even if their not so good sides appear occasionally, I think that not being understanding could cause them feeling abandoned and misunderstood, I think it was never about winning but trying to show I am there, I am loyal, I am accountable, I am there, no matter what... maybe I just wanted to be loved and accepted and tried to "earn" that love with my detrimental and self-destructing understanding... so maybe it was all the time about me, and what I need deep down... obviously, I didn't win loyalty and respect. I guess, you can't expect respect if you don't respect yourself first  |
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1680 posts 5/19/2023 9:26 am |
Hi My friend, Yes it is about power. And once you take that power away. Your life is what YOU make of it. Take your Power back and never give it away to begin with.xox L
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 12:17 pm:
Work is in progress  |
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11088 posts 5/19/2023 12:43 pm |
Yesterday, i could not read the whole list, it was just a bit too much.
Today, i read it, and all of the sudden, i recognise my fathers second wife in almost all the character traits!
shudders.....
I never liked that cold-blooded bitch! 
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 12:57 pm:
I know I posted a bit too much yesterday, but as it was all related to abuse, I thought I should split it in 3 and post... thank you for taking the time Rosa to read it... |
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6112 posts 5/19/2023 2:32 pm |
Your posts lately are stuck on this sending a message that you are too.
ExNameForUse replies on 5/19/2023 2:47 pm:
Thank you for the interpretation and for sharing your understanding of my posts, likeithot.
I can't be responsible for how you perceive my posts, but you surely don't have to be stuck reading. Just keep scrolling... |
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