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6/9/2023 10:08 am

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4163 posts
6/9/2023 10:29 am

I’m mostly good but there are days l lash out...l am human l have emotions & feelings l am not a machine nor am l perfect thou I’m perfectly flawed!
hope your day is good? I’m back home after few days doing some work for friend watching Djokovic advance to french open final!

ExNameForUse replies on 6/9/2023 4:50 pm:
It was a good day, thank you BDD, also watched Djokovic and look forward to watching him again on Sunday... we are all only humans, imperfect creatures, and we all make mistakes... not all wrongdoings are intentional...

uncommon1 66M

1438 posts
6/9/2023 11:03 am

The opposite of good
is not bad . . It is indifference.
When they ask why you are
the way you are, they're deciding
how indifferent to be toward you.

ExNameForUse replies on 6/9/2023 4:54 pm:
Then let them be indifferent, Uncommon, it is their right to choose their attitude and I shall remain for some good, for someone else silly or stupid or naive... we should all make choices and decisions we can sleep peacefully with.

brandygirasol 55T

9433 posts
6/9/2023 11:24 am

Ooooooooo My Dear Ex💋.....Love your sentiment❤️.... But I'm just so good at being BAD😏

ExNameForUse replies on 6/9/2023 4:55 pm:
There is then no dilemma about what you should keep doing, my dear Brandy...

Artschoolgrad 47M

8719 posts
6/9/2023 1:14 pm

love the concept of "pointless good"

ExNameForUse replies on 6/9/2023 4:57 pm:
Maybe the purest of all good deeds, just pure good with no expectation or purpose...

drmgirl622 68F

26111 posts
6/9/2023 1:53 pm

The universe does challenge that notion of doing good. I believe that at least trying is an effort in a positive direction.

ExNameForUse replies on 6/9/2023 4:58 pm:
It can be challenging when the universe keeps throwing at you all but not much good... makes you wonder...

BounD2capitulate 76M

118 posts
6/9/2023 5:23 pm

Perhaps, in many cases, we should only do good , anonymously, for no other reason than to avoid the indictment --whether self-directed or directed toward us by others--that, ever stubbornly, serves to accuse us of only doing good because it redounds to our own credit or benefit (ie., that we are only doing good because it makes us, the doer, feel good (or helps erase or offset/redeem some less-than-good quality in ourselves), irrespective, to a large extent, of the objective good we apparently--even conspicuously, sometimes--intend for (direct towards) others.. Too many do-gooders are little else than glory hounds or praise hunters, which is never a selfless or empathetic good. I'm not suggesting that we stop being kind and civil to others in a social context, or loving and caring in a romantic context. There is no way, obviously , to maintain (or even want to maintain) anonymity in those situations or under those circumstances. . The above suggestion is only a general or notional one, at best; moreover, it will, I'm afraid, always, (due to its speculative or theoretical quality) be easier said than done....human nature being what it is. I mention it only as food for thought.

ExNameForUse replies on 6/10/2023 2:11 am:
You have covered all aspects of doing good, for whatever reason we do it. Modern theories suggest we do good for our selfish reasons, for creating a (false) image of ourselves in our own eyes and in the eyes of others. While that may be true for some, we can't deny there is still some pure goodness left in some who are willing to share it selflessly just because they can, just because they see it as a way of treating other human beings.
I tend to believe that those who doubt "pointless good", are those who never experienced it, hence can't grasp it can actually exist.

DancingDom 74M

22590 posts
6/9/2023 5:30 pm

All I can say is, I agree.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"

ExNameForUse replies on 6/10/2023 2:14 am:
Thank you, DD. Good will always prevail, maybe it takes a little longer, and not many will grasp it, but then let's call it a natural selection...

likeithot19 62M

6061 posts
6/10/2023 5:16 am

Remember that it is true that no good deed goes unpunished...
i think it is to see if one is willing to keep it up

Also, humans are the only species that pay to be here
In the game

ExNameForUse replies on 6/10/2023 10:02 am:
There will always be some undeserved punishments in life, there will always be haters. But I refuse, if that is the right way to say, to become cynical or suspend my nature to at least do no harm if I can't do any good.
I believe that those who deliver "punishment" for your good are actually deeply sad and unhappy, hungry for love and they need it most.

BounD2capitulate 76M

118 posts
6/10/2023 11:49 am

I have opened myself up to, at least, tentatively, accept the premise of your rejoinder, Ex.. Perhaps there is truth in it, though I still can't help but hold a modicum of doubt that anything is ever really pointless, including the good we do, even anonymously. Though your reference be specifically to the good we do-- and excuse me for diverging a bit from your topic--I can't help but liken your heartfelt sentiments to something akin to agapic love, which I suppose I could be made to accept as a truthful reality. To get at what I am trying to say by way of this comparison, please feel free to click on (or copy and paste) the following short, but succinct, site to refresh your memory. In any event , I thank you for the wonderful parry to my errant thrust. It was, no doubt, "a hit, .a very palpable hit."
https://www.rituals.com/en-us/mag-spirituality-different-types-of-love.html

ExNameForUse replies on 6/10/2023 2:05 pm:
Thank you, I have read the article you provided the link for. Interesting and something I haven't read before, so it is new as such. Many other interesting articles and topics are covered there and I will certainly have a look when I have time.
My apologies if my rejoinder above seemed harsh, there was no intention at all. I simply refuse to think that we can't be good toward others for no other reason but for the reason of doing good. You have made a nice polite, good comment to my blog post. You didn't have to. I didn't have to respond. You shared a link for something interesting for me to read. You didn't have to. I had a look. I didn't have to. I gave you feedback. I didn't have to, but that is a nice and polite thing to do.
We were "good" to each other. Was there a purpose, will anyone of us benefit from being nice, kind, good tonight? No. It was a simple act of goodness on both sides.
As it is with the majority of dear people I interact here

Thank you again for sharing your thoughts and your time with me and others who will read...

subdude2Bsubdued 76M

342 posts
6/10/2023 12:07 pm

likeithot19 62M

6061 posts
6/10/2023 2:18 pm

ExNameForUse replies on 6/10/2023 1:02 pm:
There will always be some undeserved punishments in life, there will always be haters. But I refuse, if that is the right way to say, to become cynical or suspend my nature to at least do no harm if I can't do any good.
I believe that those who deliver "punishment" for your good are actually deeply sad and unhappy, hungry for love and they need it most.
I am no way a hater. I believe life is to be lived to be enjoyed
I try my best to live that way and help others do the same

ExNameForUse replies on 6/10/2023 2:23 pm:
I wasn't aiming at you, likeithot, in no way it was about you. It was a general observation that there will always be someone to object, to dispute, to question motives, etc... not you, in the slightest

I am sorry if it has sounded in any other way, likeithot.

jenny14 75T

90348 posts
6/10/2023 11:11 pm

Ex

This is a wonderful philosophy and goal but, in reality, very difficult to
achieve!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny

ExNameForUse replies on 6/11/2023 4:30 am:
Every time we put in some effort, we won, dear Jenny.


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