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ExNameForUse 53F
4244 posts
9/9/2023 3:49 am
Don't Let Your Hearts Drift Apart

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/9/2023 3:50 am

Have a lovely weekend my lovely friends... I hope you will spend it with those close to your hearts


uncommon1 66M  
1438 posts
9/9/2023 4:28 am

The smallest action,
can create the greatest
distance.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:06 pm:
Very true, indeed.

likeithot19 62M
6061 posts
9/9/2023 4:38 am

I wish for you the same!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:07 pm:
Thank you very much, likeithot!

brandygirasol 55T
9433 posts
9/9/2023 5:26 am

Thank You Dear Ex💋.... Excellent advice words to live by...❤️❤️❤️


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:09 pm:
Thank you my dear Brandy for being part of my close friends circle

Plzrmeister 67M  
10455 posts
9/9/2023 5:32 am

Don't say words that could drive you further apart....[/COLOR

This reminds me of the short poem 'Proud Words' by Carl Sandberg .... An American poet, biographer, journalist and editor.

“Look out how you use proud words.
When you let proud words go, it is not easy to call them back.
They wear long boots, hard boots; they walk off proud; they can’t hear you calling Look out how you use proud words.”


Once words are out of your mouth, they're gone forever. The same applies to words that eneter your ears .... They remain forever.

Wonderful post ms 'cognito as fuck' .....

Perhaps the written words remain also!

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:13 pm:
So many meaningful, heartwarming, genuine words written on here by you, my dear Plz... how could that be possibly forgotten...
You hit the point by saying "The same applies to words that enter your ears"... and what a lovely analogy with Sandberg's words...
Ms. "cognito as fuck", for what I thank you kindly , sends her warmest regards your way

BldBvrsareGr8 67M
258 posts
9/9/2023 5:41 am

Wonderful words that more folks need to take to heart.. If there was less yelling and my whispers the world would be a better place!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:14 pm:
We forgot... so often we simply forgot that the loudest words are sometimes those not spoken at all.

All4TheMistress 55M  
1558 posts
9/9/2023 6:14 am

Well said!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:19 pm:
Those are the words of the late patriarch of the Serbian Orthodox Church, Pavle. He was a wise and good-hearted person.

boh99 68M
3154 posts
9/9/2023 6:26 am

her presence still whispers to me in the comfortable silence only time can offer...

I think the teacher was wise. We rarely think through our emotions. It makes sense to consider their impact.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:19 pm:
He was a very wise man indeed, boh, I agree with you.

DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
9/9/2023 6:30 am

My whispers won't be heard from such a long distance for some.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:20 pm:
Who wants to hear, will hear us wherever we may be, whether whispering or even by listening our silence.

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
9/9/2023 6:41 am

I've allowed that shouting to put a distance between a partner and me. I'm so grateful we were able to work it out and remain friends.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:24 pm:
The most important trait of an adult person is being able to communicate anything even when disagreeing or solving problems... that is what makes that person and that relationship so special. No wonder when it comes to you, dear Dreamy.

grywolf2 73M
3112 posts
9/9/2023 9:01 am

Something to always keep in mind. Closeness, once obtained is too precious to lose.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:26 pm:
Many times that closeness is taken for granted and not cherished and nurtured as it should... the gap that can be created is sometimes difficult to overcome... harder than creating that closeness in the first place.

BillywildMartin 73M

9/9/2023 9:54 am

"The words had all been spoken
BUT somehow the feeling still wasn't right
And still we continued on through the night
Tracing our steps from the beginning
Until they vanished into the air
Trying to understand how our lives had led us there
Looking hard into your eyes
TheRE was nobody I'd ever known
Such an empty surprise to feel so alone

Now for me some words come easILY
But I know that they don't mean that much
Compared with the things that are said when lovers touch
You never knew what I loved in you
I don't know what you loved in me
Maybe the picture of somebody you were hoping I might be
Awake again, I can't pretend, and I know I'm alone
And close to the end of the feelingS we've known
How long have I been sleeping
How long have I been drifting alone through the night
How long have I been dreaming I could make it right
If I closed my eyes and tried with all my might
To be the one you need
Awake again, I can't pretend, and I know I'm alone
And close to the end of the feeling we've known
How long have I been sleeping
How long have I been driftinG alone through the night
How long have I been running for that morning flight
Through the whispered promises and the changing light
Of the bed where we both lie
Late for the sky..." Jackson Browne, 1974 "Late for the Sky" Album


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:27 pm:
Thank you for the lovely lyrics

isarainer 55M
69 posts
9/9/2023 10:05 am

Wise words


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:28 pm:
I think so too... we all seem to agree

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
9/9/2023 11:57 am

great perspective here’s looking into your eyes Ex
have a great weekend gorgeous big squeeze & firm spank for you girl!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 12:28 pm:
Thank you, BDD...

BounD2capitulate 76M
118 posts
9/9/2023 12:40 pm

Sage advice, Ex--. I'm sure we've ALL suffered, at some time or other, from not heeding it. Enjoyed the "Alpha" blog post, as well. Since it had no other formal attribution, I have to believe they were your words. It was their heartfelt, self -referential quality (or subtext) that most appealed to me. I think you succeeded in capturing some essential and deep-seated inherent qualities in your own person or self. I can't help but admire the often soul-baring & deeply confessional nature and tone of most of the better blog posts on this site, the writing and online posting of which, I have to believe, must, at times, be somewhat healthily reanimating and unburdening/disencumbering--perhaps, in some sense, even healing & restorative, to the very bloggers, themselves. Anyway, nice work, Ex.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/9/2023 1:23 pm:
There was no formal attribution I could find anywhere, but the words were found elsewhere and resonated immensely with the perception of my own self in my own mind...
Either way, thank you for stopping by and sharing your perception of mine and the writings of other dear bloggers... I tend to believe, whether expressing in our own words or borrowing from someone else, that each blog represents a little piece of the blog owner's being.

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
9/10/2023 1:38 am

Ex

I hope you are enoying your weekend

That is a beautiful story


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 9/10/2023 11:34 am:
Thank you, dear Jenny... it has been a very productive weekend, so I feel a little tired this Sunday evening, but pleased with what I have done... hope you are doing well, Jenny

lurker76 63M
36 posts
9/10/2023 9:04 am

A great story, a great teacher, lucky students.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/10/2023 11:34 am:
My thoughts as well


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