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ExNameForUse 53F
4245 posts
9/15/2023 11:54 pm
Dreams

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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
9/15/2023 11:56 pm

Maybe a good strong coffee will help to shake off this strange feeling...


DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
9/16/2023 3:27 am

It is a dream. But for peace of mind, have a health check up.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 5:01 am:
We have an annual medical check-up where I work, mine is scheduled for November... hopefully, it was just a dream. Thanks, DD.

BillywildMartin 73M

9/16/2023 3:39 am

GOOD MORNING, Ex! WOW! Two very distinctively different posts from you this morning! I got a chuckle out of the first one, with "Rose" and the mermaid with Jack. I think Jack had a pretty good grip on his "reasons to live" based on his personality and the way he lived his life (in the movie), and when he met Rose, he was "SMITTEN", and his whole world changed, he found someone he TRULY cared about and would do ANYTHING for, including die so that she might continue to live (my opinion, of course...).
Dreams are a whole other matter, and can be very really in the moment, and some can even be a premonition of things to come, I suppose. The ones that shake us and make us think can be fantastic and somewhat incongruous, for certain, especially when there's no real segue from reality in one's life to the dream that you've experienced. Deja vu, on the other hand, can just straight up FREAK you right out, experiencing a sense of having already seen something you're currently seeing or experiencing—coupled with knowing you haven't actually seen it, which is why it catches many people so off guard. It is explained to be the equivalent of a small brain "glitch," with two streams of thought colliding. Either can do a number on oneself, pondering the meaning or struggling to interpret the reason for such an experience!
Here's something I hope will help you through the weekend as you try and interpolate your dream...
"Spare a little candle
Save some light for me
Figures up ahead
Moving in the trees
White skin in linen
Perfume on my wrist
And the full moon that hangs over
These dreams in the mist

Darkness on the edge
Shadows where I stand (Shadows where I stand)
I search for the time
On a watch with no hands
I want to see you clearly
Come closer than this
(All that I remember) But all I remember
Are the dreams in the mist

These dreams go on when I close my eyes
Every second of the night, I live another life
These dreams that sleep when it's cold outside
Every moment I'm awake, the further I'm away (Further I'm away)

Is it Cloak and Dagger?
Could it be Spring or Fall?
I walk without a cut
Through a stained glass wall
(Weaker in my eyesight) Weaker in my eyesight
The candle in my grip
(And words that have no form) And words that have no form
Are falling from my lips

These dreams go on when I close my eyes
Every second of the night, I live another life
These dreams that sleep when it's cold outside
Every moment I'm awake, the further I'm away (Further I'm away)

There's something out there I can't resist
I need to hide away from the pain
There's something out there I can't resist

The sweetest song is silence
That I've ever heard (Never touch the earth)
Funny how your feet in dreams
Never touch the earth
In a wood full of princes
Freedom is a kiss
(But the prince hides his face) But the prince hides his face
From dreams in the mist

These dreams go on when I close my eyes
Every second of the night, I live another life
These dreams that sleep when it's cold outside
Every moment I'm awake, the further I'm away

These dreams go on when I close my eyes (Every single second)
Every second of the night, I live another life
These dreams that sleep when it's cold outside
Every moment I'm awake, the further I'm away..." "These Dreams" by Heart from the 1995 Album, "The Road Home"
Have an ENJOYABLE weekend, Ex!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 4:59 am:
Thank you for your thoughts and the very nice lyrics that you shared.

Kruture 49M

9/16/2023 3:46 am

www.dreammoods.com has a great number of insights into dream interpretation...


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 4:58 am:
Thank you for the link you shared.

BounD2capitulate 76M
118 posts
9/16/2023 4:04 am

I have to think, Ex, that dreams and their interpretations are driven by moods and levels of stress, which we experience, for the most part, at roughly the same point in our wakeful lives, particularly if those feelings suggest a lack, a vacancy, an emptiness, or a sense of incompleteness–unfinished business– in our finite journey through time. We must do our best to discount what seem to be cryptic and numinous harbingers of bad tidings, arbitrarily culled and hazily remembered from our dreams, whether these omens come through articulate beings or in a form more inscrutably symbolic, polysemous, and ambiguous.We must not allow these seeming harbingers to derail us or to take the wind out of our sails in our daily conscious endeavors and enterprises. A mirage will never slake our thirst for water. Do not over-complicate your life, Ex, with these kinds of dream divinations. I think the yoking in your dream of the haircut with the Doctor’s somber and depressive advice, which follows, seems a bit too forced and speculative, amounting to what might be called a dream state non sequitur. Let’s face it, in our dreams we are rapidly bombarded by a teeming welter of unrelated, heterogeneous, and incongruous images and often surreal, thoughts and imaginings, most of which will not submit to being later recalled. Trying to divine logic and meaning from this seeming kaleidoscope or avalanche of mental pictographs, strangely familiar scenes and characters, many of whom speak to us and/or are composites or hybrids of more than one person, seems like a fool’s errand, which can only add to the stress levels, and mood dispiritedness that already beset us in our wakeful lives. We must be careful not to impute design to things that, arguably, are fortuitous, stochastic, accidental, and/or coincidental. I can only hope you will not actually allow yourself to take sick based on your putative or hypothetical dream divinations or prognostications. Stay well, instead, and enjoy your much-deserved planned travels away from the homefront.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 4:58 am:
Thank you for your comment and thoughts, BounD2capitulate.

brandygirasol 55T
9434 posts
9/16/2023 5:32 am

My Dear Ex💋... Dreams give you a good night's sleep...💤😌💤


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:24 pm:
Well. tonight I'm gonna have it as feeling a bit tired all-day

Plzrmeister 67M  
10464 posts
9/16/2023 5:45 am

Hey!!!! It's a dream - not a premonition, so relax and be that happy go lucky CAF Ex that we all know and love.

Here's a little tune I wager you've never heard that you ( once again ) reminded me of. All I Have To Do Is Dream by the Everly Brothers. It was released in 1958.

Ooooo ..... Great selection.

Yep .... From back in the day when you could actually hear the lyrics. I'll wager Ex will have this on her play list the next time she's cleaning house.

Hey .... Those lyrics could be us dreaming about Ex!

They could indeed .....

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:30 pm:
Dream, dream, dream, dream
Dream, dream, dream, dream
When I want you in my arms
When I want you and all your charms
Whenever I want you, all I have to do is
Dream, dream, dream, dream
When I feel blue in the night
And I need you to hold me tight
Whenever I want you, all I have to do is
Dream
I can make you mine, taste your lips of wine
Anytime, night or day
Only trouble is, gee whiz
I'm dreamin' my life away
I need you so that I could die
I love you so and that is why
Whenever I want you, all I have to do is
Dream, dream, dream, dream
Dream
I can make you mine, taste your lips of wine
Anytime, night or day
Only trouble is, gee whiz
I'm dreamin' my life away
I need you so that I could die
I love you so and that is why
Whenever I want you, all I have to do is
Dream, dream, dream, dream
Dream, dream, dream, dream
Dream, dream, dream, dream
Dream

Thank you for the reminder, this is one of my favourite oldies but goldie tunes, dear Plz... happy go lucky CAF Ex sends a your way

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4172 posts
9/16/2023 6:16 am

Oh my Ex dreams can foresee things or give answers to problems but reality is not necessarily how the dream played out cuz you saw a dr said to start chemo earlier doesn’t mean you have cancer but there is a cancer (problem) in your life affecting your happiness...do not despair you are ok all is good tight squeeze girl!


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:32 pm:
"but there is a cancer (problem) in your life affecting your happiness"... thank you for this perspective darling BDD... tight hug heading to you, my dear friend

drmgirl622 68F  
26118 posts
9/16/2023 7:15 am

I love Plzr's choice of music! Most of my dreams are so vivid I can remember them for hours after I awake. Most of mine are of being lost or losing something.....I suppose it means something but I'm not going to let them ruin my day.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:40 pm:
I love the music too... just listening as we "speak", so to speak

Rarely do I dream, but this morning it was just out of the blue and so vivid that I felt as if it was real... later today I realized that yesterday a new bed was delivered to me, and a week ago a new chest of the drawer too... when they assembled the bed yesterday and left I sat there and thought okay this is it, the last big bit is here, after over two years I managed to set this place finally and completely... and there was that thought - and what now when all is done... maybe it was my fear that now when I could relax a bit, something could go wrong... I don't know... hopefully I will have plenty of time to enjoy a bit of my life now, pamper myself, and maybe travel here and there ... been a while since I did something just for myself...

boh99 68M
3154 posts
9/16/2023 8:34 am

wow - what a startling dream - hope everything's OK.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:42 pm:
I think at the end of this day that it may well be my subconscious was working overtime
It wasn't a pleasant start to the day, but I have beaten the bed feeling

grywolf2 73M
3114 posts
9/16/2023 8:53 am

Ex,

I've had dreams like that at times. I usually sit up on the edge of the bed, rub my hands through my hair, and say to myself, "Whew, glad that was a dream", then get up and start my day.

Too many things affect your dreams, like what you eat or drink before you sleep. To me, dream interpretation is like astrology. Not a very reliable map for future directions.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:49 pm:
grywolf2, now after a whole day, I can only relate my dreams to my thoughts from yesterday... explained in my response above to Dreamy... it happens sometimes that just when the time when you can relax a bit in life, some other sh** take over the happiness (excuse my language, please) ... hopefully that won't happen, as I plan to do some things for myself in the near future... nothing spectacular, just to take care of myself a little more

likeithot19 62M
6064 posts
9/16/2023 12:40 pm

We spend roughly 1/3rd of or time under the influence of our subconscious mind.
I concur with bdsmDOMdaddy, that dreams are messages from that time. Something to pay attention to. When I dream of old friends, I will see them in the next few days. When I am searching for an answer, I sleep on it and usually have it the next day, sometimes have to sleep on it a couple of nights, but I do get my answer. Sounds like something that might be festering in your life, needs more attenttion than what you are giviing it. Something you currently see as no big deal
You might try thinking what is the problem, tonight, when drifting off to sleep...


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 12:59 pm:
Just as every time you do, likeithot, you have offered another good perspective, leaning to what BDD suggested... and I agree with both of you... I have neglected myself completely over the last few years... I won't repeat over and over again what it was, but it wasn't really the easiest time of my life... now when other things are set and done, maybe I should focus only on myself, no matter how selfish that may sound, but I really do need to start to take care about me, and not about everyone else... none of them is here with me nor were with me in my toughest times... maybe that was the message... if not, then I believe I will figure it out in due time... thank you for your constructive and sensible approach, likeithot...

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
9/16/2023 4:39 pm

Ex

I believe some dreams reflect our sub-conscious thoughts!

I hope the chemotherapy was part of the nightmare and you do not need it?


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 11:42 pm:
Jenny. I also agree with you that it is the reflection of subconscious thoughts and concerns... and that "taking chemotherapy instead of the treatment I am already using" could be a message to more radically cut cancer, which can be a metaphor for a person, or situation... that is toxic and poisoning me in real life... with a day and night distance, I can actually relate and it has a root in some of my "silent thoughts" recently...

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9672 posts
9/16/2023 7:27 pm

I'm certain that some dreams mean something and other dreams mean nothing. I think it's open to interpretation. I have had remarkable dreams. I'm not going to get into the psychobabble because my training is in engineering and hard Sciences. I hope that your dreams are Pleasant.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/16/2023 11:46 pm:
I rarely dream at all JohhnyL, even if it happens most of the time I can't recall what was it about, so I just forget about it... last morning it was actually so vivid and "real"... but I think I am slowly figuring out what was it about, though BDD and Likeithot helped with their suggestion and offered a "direction" where to search for a possible meaning...

rosaenaluin 65F
11021 posts
9/17/2023 11:50 am

Sometimes,dreams can be so real!
They scare you/ me!

In my case, most of the time, they have some other/deeper meaning, in relation to things happening in my life...
Most of the time, i just have to take the time to think things over, and not take it all too literal..
Sometimes i have recuring dreams... i know the metaphysical meaning behind it...
I dont make it too big a thing.

I hope you feel better, now, and can give it a place in your day to day living....
in connecting with things happening in your life.
Take care.


ExNameForUse replies on 9/18/2023 8:21 am:
Thank you Rosa for the kind words... I am feeling much better than on that particular day... we shall see in the future if it actually meant something though I guess it was a warning sign for me to make some changes in my own approach towards certain people and situations... to take care of myself first and foremost


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