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Some things have become clear, some sorted out, and some still unfolding, but the main thing that took place is me becoming more and more comfortable in protecting my peace of mind. Not feel bad when saying no, when not responding to things that serve no good to me, when standing up for what I believe is the truth. So I feel well enough to be back among people who I consider my close, even though virtual, but without doubt - friends.
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12/25/2023 1:31 pm |
Très beau texte je te félicite bonne soirée
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👍👍👍👍👍
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It makes sense.. wish I was near and we could chat.. but it all sounds quite logical
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I just wish I could get my sock drawer sorted. We all are different. Some sort while talking it out to supportive folks. Others may need some special folks to do that with. Then there are those that have to do it all by themselves. Which in the end is the most valuable way to sort stuff. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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12/25/2023 3:23 pm |
The older I've become, the more alone I am, sometimes lonely, most times NOT. But, as you said above, that sometimes causes a 'noisy mind', which, if you don't realize it, can be as problematic, with the stormy emotions, overthinking and over reacting to things you're going through. I'm not sure I'm good at sorting out someone else's problems, guess it would depend on the problem and whether I'd faced it myself, at some point in my life. But, I've always been a good listener, especially to folks I sense are hurting, emotionally, and sometimes, having someone to listen is all anyone needs. 'DancingDom' said "We are all different", and that's very TRUE, but we're also all the same in SO many ways. I think Ryder posted a saying the other day, "All human beings are also 'DREAM beings'. Dreaming ties all mankind together!" Jack Kerouac. There's a bond that forms here within these BLOGS, the longer you're here and read them the more you see it develop, and I think it's a GOOD thing, a useful thing that each of us can lean on when we have needs, desires to unload, to DREAM. The bonds of friendship are just as important as our desires to dream, and as the saying goes, "No (hu)man is an island...". Welcome back, Ex...
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Our lives can take such horrible turns yet we know we need to fight the good fight. That good fight is what works for each of us as individuals. Physical rest is important, yet mental rest can mean so much more. 
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Well I'm glad you're back from your hiatus. We all go through what we go through and we all have our own unique ways of dealing with the cards we're dealt. Nobody knows you as well as you do ... so you play your cards the way you determine is in your best interest. I do hope you're seeing or have seen the light at the end of the tunnel and have decided to once again join the peanut gallery here. You know you miss it and I can assure you that you were missed. Make Women Female Again
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sending a bunch of hugs
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Sounds like a grand plan Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Ex OI am glad you are feeling a bit better and hope, things are much better very soon,,,, A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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whenever you do choose to talk, we're listening. Wishing you the best !
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, ME, Myself, and I. Through thick and thin, they are there. Everyone's lifetime companions! It is good to take the time to better learn the 3 amigos who never leave you. I have learned to enjoy their company. Remember to go forward in life, one needs not live in the past. We all have little time but so much more life to live. So go out there and live it.... with Me, Myself, and I. Others may drop by, but those 3 will always be there.
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My Dear Ex💋....as a loner myself I totally agree with your sentiments. Being a loner is not for everyone but it sure works for ME and apparently it also works for YOU❤️❤️❤️
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Ex I hear you I feel you I understand you it’s ok to say no it’s ok to distance yourself it’s ok to be silent I too will withdraw I’m alone & Holidays are miserable time for me you’re not alone you are well & safe everything will be ok now gentle caress big squeeze & firm spank to you gorgeous
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Ex, I say Merry Christmas and Christmas day is slowly becoming the loneliest day of the year. 
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, ME, Myself, and I. Through thick and thin, they are there. Everyone's lifetime companions! It is good to take the time to better learn the 3 amigos who never leave you. I have learned to enjoy their company. Remember to go forward in life, one needs not live in the past. We all have little time but so much more life to live. So go out there and live it.... with Me, Myself, and I. Others may drop by, but those 3 will always be there.
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whenever you do choose to talk, we're listening. Wishing you the best ! you're stronger than you know... it's ok to take care of your self and you needs, and you've got support here. best - boh
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Hi Ex, Sorry to hear you are going through a tough time. As has been said, "you are stronger than you know". Although it's often not comfortable finding out how strong you are. My understanding is that women traditionally talk out their feeling with other people. Men usually withdraw into themselves & think things through. But we are all different & what ever works for you. I know how difficult it can be cutting people out of your life. I no longer have anything to do with with my sister. It makes me sad & I know our father would be unhappy how things have turn out. I just can't deal with her anymore. I am fortunate that her children want to keep in touch with me. The last of my close family, they think she's out of order too, lol. Anyway, I hope things get better for you soon.
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Ex, I apologize for missing the opportunity to express my sympathy towards you. I am sorry that you are going through this by yourself. Please know that your feelings are valid and, you have my support. I also want to remind you that saying "No" is enough and, you do not owe anyone an explanation. Narcissists are the ones who refuse to accept "No" as an answer. Do not let them manipulate you into doing something you do not want to do. Stand your ground and prioritize your well-being. I sincerely hope that the current difficulties you are facing soon subside and that the tides of fortune turn in your favor. May you experience some positive changes in your life that bring you joy and fulfillment. Remember that tough times don't last, but tough people do. Keep your chin up and stay hopeful for a brighter tomorrow. Sending you Hope, Light & Love ~M xx "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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