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ExNameForUse 53F
4245 posts
1/21/2024 4:14 am
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ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
1/21/2024 4:16 am

Hopefully, I shall find a solution and spend a few days by the Sea this Summer and not be forced to pay double the price


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
1/21/2024 4:41 am

Hi Ex,
I was always about the profit, it's just that nowadays vendors are more blatant about higher cost vs less hospitality. If you go the AirB&B route, check the reviews. If I thought about by the weirdo aspect everywhere I go, I wouldn't go anywhere. Not that they won't exist, but reviews will give you a better idea of what is and what may not. Ultimately, if you really want the vacation, you will have to decide whether to pay a lot or trust the AirB&B reviews. I mean, the alternative is just not going, but that would be sad. If you go for the AirB&B, I always avoid sharing units, meaning a house or apartment where the rental is by the room, but the residence is shared with people I do not know. Some people are perfectly fine with this and that's fair, but that really creeps me out. I rather rent the unit alone. Hope you can get rental and vacation going sweetie. Good luck!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:21 am:
Hi Manni, I am totally like you - couldn't share the space with someone I don't know so what I am looking for is a small apartment/studio just for myself... reviews are a way to go, and depending on the place I may ask someone for a recommendation... I hope I will find something as not going anywhere would be like 5th or 6th year in a row of spending vacation at home and I just think that is not what this year should look like... thanks for the tips, dear Manni

Plzrmeister 67M  
10464 posts
1/21/2024 4:58 am

Now just where have you been young lady!! I was wondering if something had happened to you or if you'd fallen ill, etc. Glad you're OK and planning some vacation time this coming summer.

I must admit I'm a little naïve about singles having to pay more than couples. Are you talking about for the same amount of space ... a room/villa etc.? I guess I've never had to give it much thought.

The advice on checking the reviews on Airbnb locations is good advice. Please also consider the concept of 'Analysis to paralysis'. Spending a lot of time worrying about all the bad things that can happen will give you ulcers. We don't want that do we?

Where were you planning on going to be by the sea/ocean? How about a cruise - Ever consider one of those?

Make Women Female Again


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:28 am:
Here I am dear Plz
The thing is like there is an apartment that I could rent and the price is like EUR 500 for a week or 10 days... so not per person, but for a whole space for the whole time... BUT if one person is going to stay there, the price is +50 or 70 or at some places +100% on top of the price... and I think that's just ridiculous and makes me sad and... well pissed off more than sad...

Cruises are way too expensive here and I alone could not afford it... and my thoughts were about either Greece or Adriatic coast (Croatia or Slovenia)... a small village, nothing fancy, just to be by the sea in the sun and pick up some good vibes and energy there...

rydermantel 69M
25402 posts
1/21/2024 5:19 am

Travel agents still exist in this day and age?


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:28 am:
Here where I am, yes

likeithot19 62M
6064 posts
1/21/2024 6:22 am

I stopped taking cruises for that reason
built for two and priced that way
If you ever want a travel partner
look me up


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:30 am:
It seems that hotels and private property owners took the recipe and started pricing their accommodation the same way... and I just think that is not fair

drmgirl622 68F  
26118 posts
1/21/2024 6:35 am

I've not experienced that with travel since I travel with my good friend. Where I see it the most is cell service. If there's at least 2 people it cuts your rate in half!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:34 am:
Dear Dreamy... two closest and dearest friends are both partnered if that is the way to say it... one is married, and the other has had a partner for the last decade or so.... I just don't feel comfortable going with them... they have their spare time and vacation to spend together and I don't want to be there in their way...
Will figure out something, I was just unpleasantly surprised with what I found out when I started searching for offers...

DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
1/21/2024 6:43 am

I lived near the ocean in California and I am six block from Lake Michigan (which is large enough to look like ocean (you can't see over the horizon. I like going to the water; but I like going to the desert or mountains too. Each have their plus and minus. Of course how the experience ones is affected by the time of year.

I understand the frustration about traveling alone. One thin you can do, is book a night at a hotel or such for the first and last night of a trip. When you get there, research and ind place you like. Staying the last night near you airport, train station or whatever departure mode gives some peace of mind.

Another consideration, is going to a place where you know someone and use them as a information resource.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:38 am:
I think DD that this last thing you said is what I will go for... I have a friend living in Pula, Croatia, it is a lovely small city on the Adriatic coast, so will see with him if he can recommend somewhere to stay... and sure will be nice to have company for coffee or lunch/dinner while I am there...
But as always, first I want to try to do things without bothering anyone and asking for help...

Artschoolgrad 47M
8730 posts
1/21/2024 8:06 am

or a small hotel?


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:43 am:
During the pandemic, when everything was shut down and it was impossible to travel anywhere, I had an extended weekend on the Adriatic coast in a small hotel in place Neum, very cute small city... it was so cheap back then and I had lovely 4 days there... this year they offer a double room for a single use for a price for two... like I am with someone there... and other hotels in the same city do the same... some are charging "only" 70% extra...

grywolf2 73M
3114 posts
1/21/2024 9:06 am

Ex,

In the spirit of competition, you would think that some outfits would cater to singles and offer lower pricing.
Perhaps staying during what is considered an off-season. The advantages are less crowded, more relaxing and just maybe the luck of meeting a fun, like-minded traveler.

There is always negotiation. Hotels, and motels, make no money on empty rooms. However, safety is never guaranteed.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 10:50 am:
I actually am looking for the off-season offers at... end of May/beginning of June or in September... so this pricing is all about those periods... I like the thought of a more relaxing and less crowded vacation... not that I think of the possibility of meeting anyone, as I am way too complicated for that and yes, I admit, a bit frightened too... it is why safety is always on my mind... maybe more than necessary... and it is the reason for searching rather for a group to travel with so that I am not entirely on my own...

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4172 posts
1/21/2024 10:39 am

happy to see you Ex hope all is well w you gorgeous?!
staying warm here wanting Tuesday & it’s sunny warmth this Artic stuff is for the Artic not TX! lol
being single has advantages along w obstacles be careful girl there’s lotta horror stories w AirBnB wishing you a cozy towel & a drink w umbrella in iT on a beach somewhere (l can join you at! lol) enjoy your weekend Ex big hug girl!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 12:04 pm:
BDD, It would be lovely if we could all gather somewhere and have a few days of fun, dancing, enjoying the sun and sea, and good food and wine

Those stories about AirBnB are what concerns me the most and why I am kinda frightened a bit...

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
1/21/2024 10:44 am

Ex

Sadly, that is my experience too! Everyone assumes people travel in pairs! Or pay an exorbitant amount!

I hope you find something though


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 12:05 pm:
Exactly that, Jenny.. why is everything about couples or families... and if without - then you will pay extra ... for what reason exactly?
It annoys the hell out of me, to be honest

RobertBishop 66M  
2146 posts
1/21/2024 10:56 am

Norwegian Cruise Lines has a program for solo travelers which permits you to book a single-person cabin and not have to pay double.
It has apparently been successful, as they are expanding it. Plus, I believe that their single-cabin area has its own restaurants and lounges, thereby giving you the opportunity to connect with others.
NCL may not be a luxury cruise line, but cruising is still the most cost-effective vacation you can find. Plus, the industry is very competitive, so if you have flexibility, there are bargains to be found.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/21/2024 11:02 am:
Thank you, RB, for the hint... never heard of them, but will have a look for sure... sounds tempting

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9672 posts
1/21/2024 12:17 pm

So many organizations and groups are out to gouge the singles. They do it because people pay. I say F them.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/22/2024 8:38 am:
Ohh... I will find my way with or without them, Johnny... it was a bit of a surprise for me to find all this out since it has been a few years since the last time I made any inquiries about vacations... but there is always a way...

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
1/21/2024 3:09 pm

Ex, I hear you on that one. I have the same problem.

Someone said it's always been about profit & that may well be true.
I wonder however if in the past there were less singles seeking rooms or whatever.
So if the odd single came along they let it go. I guess they would argue if the room
is worth a certain amount to a couple, if the halve the price of the room for a single,
they are losing money.
That's no comfort to you or me though.

Hope you find something.


ExNameForUse replies on 1/22/2024 8:39 am:
I hear you too, dear Dave... I truly hope something will show up and my suitcase will be packed and keep me company on my next trip... since I need it badly this year

hungaroboy 46M

1/21/2024 3:20 pm

Yes, Europe became very expensive nowadays. Croatia, Slovenia too as their living standard increases and joined to the Euro-area. Italy allways was expensive for us, central europeans.
I think you shall see Montenegro which looks cheaper but as beautiful as Slovenia and Croatia as a blog writer described it here in Hungary.

"It seems that hotels and private property owners took the recipe and started pricing their accommodation the same way... and I just think that is not fair"
Yes, true, it is not fair with us, singles.
DRMGIRL, here in Europe a hotel/AIRBNB room's standard price applies if 2 person occupies it. Singles are disadvantaged, they get a higher price occupying the same room.
If someone rents an apartment for longer term like some months, this does not applies, so, it had been better to live on these places for long but most people is bound to their home environment by work, family, etc.

Off-season travel is a good idea, but the prices are very high, see what I wrote above why.

A gentleman mentioned the competition: the competition puts prices up and not down in this case. These are popular destinations, not deserted places.

Exname, are you came to europe from the U.S.? Americans are paranoic despite of Europe is securer than their own country. And worse, U.S. citizens are promoting this paranoia overseas... while Europe is relatively safe... Ofcourse the devil does not sleeps..., I am not insensitive to rightful worries but sensitive to paranoia promotion.

Norvegia as well as all the Scandinavian countries are extremely expensive, prices are horroristic.
So, start to save years before traveling there.

"So many organizations and groups are out to gouge the singles. They do it because people pay."
Where are you writing from? Not here, that's sure!


ExNameForUse replies on 1/22/2024 8:52 am:
Dear boy from my neighboring country Hungary... no, I am not coming to visit Europe from the States. But guess what... I don't feel safe here in Europe, too.
So, it is not about Americans being paranoid or spreading their paranoia about Europe... I am sure they are all aware of how unsafe their country is, just like the countries around Europe right now with millions of emigrants coming from god-knows-where and other shit that is waiting just around any corner to happen...
Thank you for your thoughts and for replying to friendly comments and suggestions my dear fellow Americans, Brits, and Australians... made here in my blog, where we truly enjoy all our diversities but most of all our appreciation of each other.
I would like to politely request not be ironic, sarcastic, or just plain rude when you write about them here in my blogs, or if you can not resist the temptation, please skip this place.
You know, I am very sensitive to disrespect and judgmental attitude.
Thank you.


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