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Now, coffee time for me here... I am on vacation, so enjoying slow mornings and easygoing days... Hope you will enjoy yours as well and do something good for yourself or someone you care for 
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Poignant but insightful - it is to each of us know when to move forward. Best of luck.
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I had the same problem when my ex and I split almost four years ago. We had a suitcase full of " gear" left at my place. After much consideration, I finally decided to throw most of it away. I'm not "that woman" anymore. The meek woman that would chase him around looking for his consideration. She is long gone. I feel much braver. I have more courage and much more intelligence. Sometimes we are "too close to see things clearly" All we need is some perspective. I wish you the same courage and perspective I found, Ex. Good luck, with whatever you decide to do. xx~M "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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it happens to us all at some point. i to had a hard time with things. what i ended up doing to sending some on to others throw some away a very few i did keep to remember how much i miss them. don't have them out where i can see them so i can move on with seeing them all the time. good luck by the way you have one very nice body
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A hard and brave step to take I congratulate you for the courage and commend you well done!
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Ooooooo my dear Ex💋... All I can contribute today is... ❤️HUGS❤️
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I think finally one chapter can be forever closed. For your sake, I certainly hope so. This 'chapter' has gnawed at your guts and saddened you for far too long. Along with the extra space in your closet, I'm hoping for extra space in your heart too for another to fill.  Make Women Female Again
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I can remember looking at each item with a half-smile as I filled the trash bag. The trash bag was closed and next thing I know it was picked up and gone. I remember the sigh of relief and the feelings of freedom I felt that day. Keep moving forward, my friend 
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I understnd how this must feel. I have had to do this, too.... You just have to be in the right (head?) space .. for this. Very brave of you! Let go.... is some times very hard.... While the other person might as well have moved along, long time ago..
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good for you Ex I’m proud of you I understand it was emotional purge but needed to end the chapter start anew fresh w o reminders you’re happy w somebody deserving will come maybe it has & you don’t realize it yet or see them enjoy your vacation tight embrace gentle kiss on forehead gorgeous (l get to finally eat tomorrow 6 weeks!)
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" It is good to have a tiny reminder out of sight but still there not to make a fool of myself again." There is no harm in that, it helps you to recognize any potential traps to avoid in the future. Although I usually prefer to proceed with a clean slate, I can relate to the importance of this reminder.
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Very brave and certainly a positive step forward in getting on with LIFE, whatever direction it takes you, Ex. I often wonder if the 'former' other half deliberately delays or puts off coming back and collecting their 'things' as a means of further punishing their former 'loved ones'... I've generally had very little patience with such dilemmas, usually quickly gathering such items up and extricating them from my life and personal space, posthaste, especially when the other party was the party that decided to move on. I'd give them the opportunity to come and get them, when I was home, but it certainly never took years, and wouldn't put up with any 'gamesmanship' of scheduling a day to come and not showing up, etc. You OBVIOUSLY have much more patience (and perhaps sentimentality?) than I, which is too be commended, taking the time to see things more clearly over time. Interestingly, the 'MOTTO' on one of my ancestral 'Family Crest' states, 'Neither rashly, nor timidly', kind of IRONIC when I think about it and how I react in this circumstances when I've faced them. Enjoy your well EARNED vacation, Ex, time away alone can be a GREAT time for letting all the problems in life go, and enjoying the moment, like a robust cup of coffee!
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Maybe they leave stuff behind as poison . . Don't take the bait. The thing about leaving something behind for the last time is that when the time is right you rarely realize you're doing it.
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Ex Well done and I am glad you are in a better mental place! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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In the end it is just stuff. In time it is meaningless. But again, that all depends on you.
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.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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