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How should a submissive woman behave? I know this is a soapbox issue. On a quite regular basis, I am getting comments from Dominants, male and female, trying to 'correct' my approach to fellow Alt members and/or bloggers. My polite answer would be " Please don't try to teach me something you have no clue about". The not so polite answer is "F*** yourself" Here is my opinion, some might like it, some won't. I am not submissive to everyone who calls him/ or herself a Dom/me, Master or whatnot. I am submissive to the person I offer my submission to with the hope of being accepted. And to that One I will be completely submissive. Until then, all others are my fellow Alt members, and have no right to expect me kneeling by their feet. They also have no right calling me slut//cunt and other niceties. Of course that leave the question of who would be crazy enough to accept my submission? For me the question is who is strong enough, and self confident enough. Do you want someone who acts submissive because it is expected from her or do you want someone who IS submissive to you and you alone? So, I will continue to insert myself into conversations on the blog, if I feel that I have something to say. I will criticize you, if I feel the need to do so. Because, if you want REAL, you have to act REAL. And believe it or not, this is how I am - for real.  Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller IMC1958 |
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1/30/2021 8:55 pm |
I know this is a soapbox issue. On a quite regular basis, I am getting comments from Dominants, male and female, trying to 'correct' my approach to fellow Alt members and/or bloggers. My polite answer would be " Please don't try to teach me something you have no clue about". The not so polite answer is "F*** yourself" Here is my opinion, some might like it, some won't. I am not submissive to everyone who calls him/ or herself a Dom/me, Master or whatnot. I am submissive to the person I offer my submission to with the hope of being accepted. And to that One I will be completely submissive. Until then, all others are my fellow Alt members, and have no right to expect me kneeling by their feet. They also have no right calling me slut/whore/cunt and other niceties. Of course that leave the question of who would be crazy enough to accept my submission? For me the question is who is strong enough, and self confident enough. Do you want someone who acts submissive because it is expected from her or do you want someone who IS submissive to you and you alone? So, I will continue to insert myself into conversations on the blog, if I feel that I have something to say. I will criticize you, if I feel the need to do so. Because, if you want REAL, you have to act REAL. And believe it or not, this is how I am - for real. Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller IMC1958
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Absolutely true!
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1/31/2021 6:24 am |
She should behave how she damn well likes. Until she chooses to do otherwise.
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I would not respect or care for a person who is submissive to everyone or submissive in life. I agree with what you say. I will submit to who I feel is deserving, but am not going to submit because you tell me to. Grow up, it's a choice by all. I have met a lot of people, few I would accept as a Dom/Domme to me. There have been a couple of mistakes on my part so now I tread more cautiously. I will find another as soon as covid is over. Stay true to yourself first
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I don't understand that ~ the need to comment on your "approach."  Unless someone specifically asks how to approach a D, or something similar, there is no real utility to that. Really, we are all just individuals here on the site and the others could use to contain their comments, especially since they really don't know you. And yes, it seems both side misses the mark on that particular point... you may be an s, but not their s. What they think is "right" may not be "right" for your One, so their assumptions start out flawed. In answer to your question ~ My boy is submissive to me and only me, unless I allow otherwise. Out there he can be the most alpha he wants to be and he bends to no one else.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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Well said..hopefully you dont mind me adding to your posting. Sometimes people in the lifestyle get caught up in protocol and all that old guard ways.. If you dont think,act,speak like a duck then...your not a real submissive. Fuck ive been told by numerous Dominants that im not " real". Why? Because i didnt bow or curtsy or use redicilous sub stereotypical speak or didnt present myself as a doormat? Like yourself submission is personal to me...putting on a dom hat and assuming a title like lord high on mighty,king,sheriff,master or whatever doesnt mean you hold sway over me..or get to judge me. To me your just carl from accounting. But ive also seen the reverse of this...if the dominant doesnt act like an aggressive jagoff right off the bat then the sub judges them as not being strong or dominant. So alot of dudes come in overtly strong and feel lile they are billy badass.
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There's lots of different Doms & lots of different Subs. Just because you don't fit their template I don't see why they should try to force you to fit with their idea of what a sub should be. You should be yourself - if your not their sub what's it to do with them?
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1/31/2021 5:20 pm |
Finally I have come across a real post. Like any other relationship the interaction between two adults has to be mutual. Most here think they are entitled to do as they please because the say they are a ..... Any interaction has to be earned by trust worthy interaction. It will grow and increase in intensity as the relationship advances. The purpose is to have an escape from the trials of everyday life, together, by doing and being what we enjoy most together.
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