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IncongruentDom 61M
24 posts
1/17/2021 6:39 am
Why Women Crave Submission

For last 75 plus years social scientists and psychologists have advanced idea that men and women are . Despite evidence contrary they are not letting . more society pushes women towards equality more they yearn for Dominance.

At the height of this social engineering Fifty Shades of Grey exploded in popularity. Whatever you think of the medium the correlation can not be missed.

Embrace who you are whatever it is


IncongruentDom 61M

1/17/2021 6:40 am

BDSM is an avenue a confused society has led many too


IncongruentDom 61M

1/17/2021 6:58 am

Many pursue BDSM when all they really want is a real man


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
1/17/2021 7:41 am

In my opinion any Dom worth such a title understands that equailty for women means equal respect, the same pay as a man for doing the same job, to not be told she can't do x,y, or z because she is a woman etc etc.
Women not having a great sex life is something that hasn't changed in 75+ years so i don't think you can blame it on women pushing for Equality for enjoying something like 50 Shades.
Maybe men need to step up their game instead of blaming female equality !
But you are right about women wanting a real man, one that will treat her like a Queen, accept her just as she is and show her all the respect she deserves, no matter your flavour. That, in my opinion , is a real man.

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


IncongruentDom 61M

1/17/2021 9:39 am

    Quoting  :

Nothing posted implies either implicitly or explicitly that norms cannot be deviated from


Dominatrixemily 32F

1/17/2021 11:09 am

most of us crave domination


1uncommondom 77M

1/17/2021 4:05 pm

Nothing posted implies either implicitly or explicitly that norms cannot be deviated from

There are no norms, just opinions and conjecture.


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
1/18/2021 2:41 am

Craving to be a submissive in bed doesn't imply one wants to be dominated in everything.

There's a time to be a boss and a time to relax and relinquish control.
Being a boss all the time can be tiring.
For a while, behind closed doors, let someone take care of you and tell you what to do.


aliljaded 53F
8928 posts
1/18/2021 3:16 am

    Quoting MissLadywood:
    In my opinion any Dom worth such a title understands that equailty for women means equal respect, the same pay as a man for doing the same job, to not be told she can't do x,y, or z because she is a woman etc etc.
    Women not having a great sex life is something that hasn't changed in 75+ years so i don't think you can blame it on women pushing for Equality for enjoying something like 50 Shades.
    Maybe men need to step up their game instead of blaming female equality !
    But you are right about women wanting a real man, one that will treat her like a Queen, accept her just as she is and show her all the respect she deserves, no matter your flavour. That, in my opinion , is a real man.
"High Fives" Woody on my way out. I absolutely agree.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


ADOMISs_Colleen 46F  
169 posts
1/18/2021 9:30 am

MissLadywood, thank you kindly for your wonderful words. I agree with every word. I was ready to reply but seems I have nothing else to add. So nice to have women speaking up so very well and for us all.

happily collared, branded la kajira of MASTER ADOMIS4U2


IncongruentDom 61M

1/18/2021 10:38 am

    Quoting 1uncommondom:
    Nothing posted implies either implicitly or explicitly that norms cannot be deviated from

    There are no norms, just opinions and conjecture.
Just like this comment


IncongruentDom 61M

1/18/2021 10:40 am

    Quoting Gowron:
    Craving to be a submissive in bed doesn't imply one wants to be dominated in everything.

    There's a time to be a boss and a time to relax and relinquish control.
    Being a boss all the time can be tiring.
    For a while, behind closed doors, let someone take care of you and tell you what to do.
You are quite right that is the difference between acting submissive for kink sake and being submissive


IncongruentDom 61M

1/18/2021 10:43 am

    Quoting MissLadywood:
    In my opinion any Dom worth such a title understands that equailty for women means equal respect, the same pay as a man for doing the same job, to not be told she can't do x,y, or z because she is a woman etc etc.
    Women not having a great sex life is something that hasn't changed in 75+ years so i don't think you can blame it on women pushing for Equality for enjoying something like 50 Shades.
    Maybe men need to step up their game instead of blaming female equality !
    But you are right about women wanting a real man, one that will treat her like a Queen, accept her just as she is and show her all the respect she deserves, no matter your flavour. That, in my opinion , is a real man.
Of course men and women are equal in their personhood and all humans are entitled to respect. I have no idea where you come up with the idea that "Women" have not had a good sex in over 75 years, can you point me to the research on that?


IncongruentDom 61M

1/18/2021 10:46 am

    Quoting MissLadywood:
    In my opinion any Dom worth such a title understands that equailty for women means equal respect, the same pay as a man for doing the same job, to not be told she can't do x,y, or z because she is a woman etc etc.
    Women not having a great sex life is something that hasn't changed in 75+ years so i don't think you can blame it on women pushing for Equality for enjoying something like 50 Shades.
    Maybe men need to step up their game instead of blaming female equality !
    But you are right about women wanting a real man, one that will treat her like a Queen, accept her just as she is and show her all the respect she deserves, no matter your flavour. That, in my opinion , is a real man.
"Women want to be treated like a Queen and accepted just as they are"
Good luck with that


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
1/23/2021 6:53 am

Women have had religion tell them that it is their 'duty' to have sex with their husbands. God forbid there might be some mutual pleasure !
Also religion and society has made women feel less than if we dare explore our sexual side. Men, in recent decades have had to have the clitoris explained to them and how to pleasure women. Look at porn of the last 100 years, it's all based on the man's pleasure. These are just a few pointers for you.
As for research haha that's a joke. You seriously think men cared enough about womens pleasure to conduct research on it say 100 years ago !
Everything you need to know about that statement is in the library of the school
No Shit Sherlock

As for your second response, well colour me lucky because i am treated exactly as i deserve to be. As every one deserves to be

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn



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