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Wantonone77 47F
377 posts
7/6/2021 2:36 pm
commitment


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Wantonone77 47F
433 posts
7/6/2021 2:36 pm

I was asked recently by one of my blog readers why I felt added intensity when I was obeying my sir after we became married. It took me awhile to think how to answer that as I didn’t really know myself why I felt this way I just did.
It was well thinking of the why of the matter that the answer finally came to me in the manner of one word, commitment. We are as a couple committed to each other not half or two thirds but fully. What Sirs asking for my hand in marriage showed me was his full commitment to me and my accepting it mine to him. He did not have to do so I was his before he asked and would be his now if he hadn’t. But he did and with that came a feeling of love , a love that runs deeply inside both of us so much so we commit to not only each other but to being the best persons we can be.
Sir in the very beginning of our relationship taught me a very important lesson in life that was to learn to enjoy each day smile and make another smile as well. Our day can be bad anyones can but we don’t have to make anothers bad as well. We can make another smile even if we aren’t it actually does do wonders for both parties especially for me as I see what an impact a smile can bring to another. I am committed to doing that each and everyday since I started and have done so .
When I kneel now waiting for Sir to come home my head up so he can see my eyes and most of all the smile on my face when I see him, it very much intensifies my kneeling for him. When I obey him in any way the same feelings occur. Those feelings are only matched by the commitment he has toward me. He loves me and shows that to me each and everyday, sometimes its just a word or an action most days both. I have found for myself intensity is hard to find if your not committed to someone or something or both. Commitment puts value into what you do whether your kneeling , working or even sex, if you fully commit to it the intensity level increases dramatically.
I have mentioned Sirs past wife a number of occasions in my blog, especially her picture where there is no doubt she was completely devoted to him. The word devotion fits her perfectly. For me the word is commitment I am fully committed to this man and to life itself , awhile back I could not have said that about life . Now with Sir I can and live it committed to making his mine and others better for it.
Commitment.


jstbrte1 53M
80 posts
7/6/2021 3:03 pm

That's all very beautiful and such. So why do you still come here. Post 1205332


Wantonone77 replies on 7/7/2021 11:23 am:
See kitkattshadows comment
I couldn't say it any better.

gor1111 70M

7/6/2021 9:37 pm

Wonderful love reading your blog xxx


Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
7/6/2021 10:30 pm

    Quoting jstbrte1:
    That's all very beautiful and such. So why do you still come here. Post 1205332
If you read the ladies profile, you would see that she states she is owned, and comes here to blog. There is nothing wrong with wanting to share experiences and chat to others in the lifestyle. Being here does NOT always mean one is "looking"


Wantonone77 replies on 7/7/2021 11:25 am:
Thank you I could not have replied to him any better then you already did. Smiles

rosaenaluin 65F
11025 posts
2/2/2022 12:55 pm

Yes!
This!
without commitment, there can not be anything, let alone, a deep felt love and respect for each other, i think.


Wantonone77 replies on 2/3/2022 10:20 am:
Thank you it is through commitment that has led to a very deep love of each other.


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