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Sadly I must report my Sirs best friend lost his wife on the fourth of January. A celebration of life was held a few days later it like most I guess was filled with laughter and many tears . She wanted laughter which she got but all of us could not help but shed tears along the way. I kept my promise to her and did as she requested it was welcomed by those involved. Sir and I as well as other friends are giving his friend the best support we can . He seems to be coping as best he can but losing the love of your life is never easy no matter the cause. I do think however that having the time to spend together and getting the chance to say goodbye to each other has helped him some people never get that chance. For myself I find the little things in life have helped eased the pain of which I feel along with everyone else involved. I have found kneeling for Sir before he enters so very rewarding to me. His smile as he enters soothes my aching heart and mine his I think. His kiss his touch seems to mean more then it did, though I cant really explain how. His calling me darling still melts me. I am thankful for his rules, the one about making someone smile each and everyday I find that to be the most meaningful to me. Doing so allows me to still feel the sense of loss deep within me but it also allows me to feel the sense of life as well. For life does go on no matter the loss and in the end that is what My Sirs friends wife wanted for life to go on and be happy . Mourn, yes we all have too but celebrate life well you can . Make the most of each day tell each other you care, show it through your actions as well not just say so. Doing so is what makes life worth it. Death is the end of our life here on earth but it is not the end of life for the survivors let all who are celebrate and love life to its fullest its the only we get here. wantonone
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I lost my brother from cancer before Christmas. He wanted no phone calls, no visitors. He left this world in as much control as possible. That helps with the emotional toll on the survivors. Yes we were sad, but proud He had some amount of control. Sorry for your loss
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very sorry it happen
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I dont know what to say... I think you had some real beautiful ceremonies for that man and his late wife and for you all too. That builds a bond, beyond everything.
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So, so sorry for your loss.....
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You preserve her memory and your friendship in what you are doing for your Sir and in effect for yourself. Sorry for yours and her family & friends loss. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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1/11/2023 3:07 pm |
There are NO WORDS, there never are, to assuage the anguish of bereavment we feel for some close to us that passes. Still, our memories of those we loose along the way of our own lives carry that part of them that is a part of us... 1241775
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Wanton, loss is always hard and as rightly pointed out in your post, it makes no difference the why the loss or how, just as you were right to mention the saying of goodbye. That is the hardest thing for someone who loses a loved one from heart attack / stroke or accident of some sort. Still your sir's friend is being given support so he should gradually make his way out of the fog and back to some sort of semblance of normality.
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