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Real sub.... Are you one?? ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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I hear over and over on Dom's profiles... "Looking for a real sub" Is that you? I doubt it's me. What is it? And there's the problem.. Dom's want a real sub.. But don't explain what they think a real sub is... I guess we are all mind readers who should just know this... If you want a specific type of sub shouldn't you ask for it? It just seems logical to me... But most of these descriptions have limited or no info as to what they seek.. And I for one am tired of hearing about a real sub! We are all unique and should be treated that way... Take the time to know us... And then.. Why don't you convince us that you are a real DOM?? ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Such a great thought - I see this all the time - people really need to know just because a person is a Dom or Sub does not mean they are the right one for you
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2/4/2021 9:01 pm |
Pac, you seemed to hit the nail with the hammer on this one. I think you make a good point on that we are all unique and should not be treated like each other. You surely made me think about the topic Thanks for sharing your thoughts
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You will not find that on my profile but honestly most never bother. Who is to say what a real sub is? Sounds subjective to me and if I were a sub I would counter with the whole only a real Dom would understand me. But I love to stir up shit. I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth
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2/4/2021 9:44 pm |
And here I thought I was the only one bothered by this. Thanks for posting. Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller IMC1958
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2/5/2021 2:31 am |
I think that is very true. No one takes the time to explain who they ar or what they are looking for . Thank you for the post.
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it's nearly impossible for a real submissive(like me) to find a real dominant on this site when 99 percent are fakes and scammers. its a sad fact that i learned too late.
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1 post 2/5/2021 3:06 am |
That's really bad. It's the same looking for a sub. It usually takes only a few chats before ask of money comes up.
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i know i am a real sub to a real Dom/Domme. Not that there are fakes on here but misguided perceptions of reality. Also we are not out of the fashion magazine, we are the regular looking people. It all takes time
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I have no doubt you are real, as am I, follow your inner voice and pay no attention to those that offend you
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Can't we be part time submissive? In bed only, behind closed doors, for instance?
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I believe I am the sub I was meant to be.....no pretense, no excuses. It's important that the Domme with whom I interact can "allow" my inner sub to flourish.
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