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The fuck off approach... Blog follow in comments... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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I was talking to a Dom one time about the age of his last subs... He said they were usually 20 or 30 years younger than him. And how refreshing it was to talk with someone around his age, as in me.. He stated the only problem being; as we get older it's easier to say " fuck off "... After many contentious conversations and his absolute refusal to compromise about his sub being nude at all times in the house, we had a clear difference in philosophies.. No... I did not tell him to "fuck off".... But I did say I now knew why his subs were so young... We then agreed to disagree and stopped talking... But his "fuck off" thoughts stayed in my mind, even today... And there is much truth about them... Yesterday for instance, I went to the gym wearing short shorts... I normally don't do this.. Because I am worried about how my legs look with my big thighs... Why should I care though?? I am working on my thighs and my whole body... a work in progress so to speak... So... Yeah, if you don't like it.. You know what to do... In my mind one of the advantages to getting older is experience, seeing some of the bs easier, and just being able to finally say "fuck off".... While the majority of my "fuck off" approach is in my vanilla life.... It has trickled in to some of my D/s conversations. I am a unique woman and sub. Who strives to be treated that way. So... When a Dom with a cookie cutter approach appears on my horizon, you have to know what I will say?? ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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2/10/2021 8:20 am |
Good for you. A long time ago I was told the sub is the one in power in the relationship because they get to say stop. That stuck with me. Talk and fantasy are fun but reality has consequences
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I was talking to a Dom one time about the age of his last subs... He said they were usually 20 or 30 years younger than him. And how refreshing it was to talk with someone around his age, as in me.. He stated the only problem being; as we get older it's easier to say " fuck off "... After many contentious conversations and his absolute refusal to compromise about his sub being nude at all times in the house, we had a clear difference in philosophies.. No... I did not tell him to "fuck off".... But I did say I now knew why his subs were so young... We then agreed to disagree and stopped talking... But his "fuck off" thoughts stayed in my mind, even today... And there is much truth about them... Yesterday for instance, I went to the gym wearing short shorts... I normally don't do this.. Because I am worried about how my legs look with my big thighs... Why should I care though?? I am working on my thighs and my whole body... a work in progress so to speak... So... Yeah, if you don't like it.. You know what to do... In my mind one of the advantages to getting older is experience, seeing some of the bs easier, and just being able to finally say "fuck off".... While the majority of my "fuck off" approach is in my vanilla life.... It has trickled in to some of my D/s conversations. I am a unique woman and sub. Who strives to be treated that way. So... When a Dom with a cookie cutter approach appears on my horizon, you have to know what I will say??
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The right way of thinking !!! go girl !!!
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2/10/2021 10:25 am |
BY 40, OUR MIDDLE FINGER IS AT HALF-MAST… By 50, it’s full on UP. By 60, both of those fingers are hoisted in a V…and not a single care is given any more. I mean, we care about our family, our friends and our passions. We care about the environment. We care about equality and living in peace. But we don’t care about ‘fitting in’ and we don’t care about what people think of us. Not anymore. Too many years were wasted on that. We certainly don’t care to stay quiet, or bite our tongues – we haven’t wasted all these lessons to play dumb when the situation calls for our wisdom… Hell no. Neither do we care if our waistline is the acceptable size or if our thighs are toned and unblemished. We have wrinkles, we have stretch marks, we have war wounds, warts and all. And we are rocking each and every one of them in all their glory. You see, there comes a time in every woman’s life where you realise that this is it. This is the time to be alive. To live without restriction or oppression anymore. To break free of the chains society binds us with and tear loose. This is our time to be completely and totally who we were supposed to be along. The sooner you get there, the better. Life waits for no woman. Donna Ashworth Into the woods I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.
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Just be you and ignore the bozos. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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2/10/2021 12:24 pm |
I enjoy reading your thoughts. Thank you
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People have to appreciate me for who i am.....period.
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I see you sent me a alt mail. I can't read or respond to them. I see you deleted the private blog space too. If you would, please send me the message you via alt mail to my private blog space. It will not be visible. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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2/10/2021 6:17 pm |
View my blog 294 posts View my blog 2/10/2021 7:13 pm Add a comment Quote | Respond I was told by someone, that at my age and with my looks, my chances in the BDSM dating pool continue to decrease. Because most men in general and Doms in particular, like young women, you know, without wrinkles on their bodies or souls. He also said, I had to be grateful, that he even pays attention to me. For quite a while I was torn between accepting his ridiculous and dangerous demands and resisting them. But after I got a really sweet message here on this site, from a young Dom and how he adored mature women, I was able to pull myself back from the influence of that monster. I should have gotten to that point by myself, but I guess, a little piece inside of me agreed with his words. For a while at least. And of course, this "you are not a real submissive woman" came up as well. And I finally searched myself really thoroughly and found, what was left of MY Fuck-you attitude. Sometimes we act against our instinct, because we want something or someone so bad. Even if we know better. I am very grateful for my friends here, who helped me to pull myself together again. And for this sweet message from this young Dom, who I was not a match with at all, but he felt the need to tell me something nice. We should all do that more often. To one another and to those we don't know. There is not much we can do about these abusive types. I guess they are here to stay. But just a few friendly words, although not always appreciated, can help some, to not fall victim to the abusers. Strive for calm, but through balance, not through standing still...Friedrich Schiller IMC1958
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Very good for you, for learning this. I firmly believe in this both in play and life. It works and I do not need to learn past lessons. As a sub, we give up enough being tied, naked,, etc as the other is usually dressed and paddling our butt. I believe we are entitled to as much respect as out Master/Mistress. There is a lot of drama in these games, but keeping it real helps. I for one end up naked while in the house, except an apron when cooking hahaha. Enjoy and plat rough safely keith
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Thanks for the support.
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