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pac369 64F  
10485 posts
3/22/2021 3:33 pm

Last Read:
3/25/2021 5:38 am

What a shitty day...


See blog in comments...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
3/22/2021 3:43 pm

Just a quick PSA... If you share a cell phone account with someone who dies, even if your name is on the account. You have to prove the person died to keep the account. This is per the FCC... So it is mandatory.. Nothing like having to deal with a death certificate to start your day off bad..

Then people come into my life and continually leave... The reason never known to me.. And I question what is wrong with me? And why does this happen? These are not just a occasional or casual conversations. But hours and days of calls and messages.. And the frustrating thing is... there is nothing you can do about it.. You can't blow up someone's email or call... Well you can... But I won't! You just have to suck it up and take it... Of course everything is magnified today because I have been dealing with death....

What a shitty day!!!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


DancingDom 74M
22604 posts
3/22/2021 3:58 pm

Sending you some conforming good vibrations.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 3/22/2021 6:08 pm:
Thank you DD!

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
3/22/2021 4:15 pm

Sorry to hear you are having a bad day.
Yes when someone dies there are various things to deal with,
which we really don't want to deal with.


pac369 replies on 3/22/2021 6:09 pm:
It just sucks! Thanks Dave..

Peter8xxx 65M
612 posts
3/22/2021 4:36 pm

It's awkward and sad ... would a new account and device help?


pac369 replies on 3/22/2021 6:10 pm:
It's better if I stay with the same plan.. Thanks for the suggestion..

Tami_Lost 62T  
87 posts
3/22/2021 4:36 pm

My heart hurts for you. I have been there. Hoping sunnier days for you!


pac369 replies on 3/22/2021 6:11 pm:
Thank you Tami..

drmgirl622 68F  
26146 posts
3/22/2021 4:45 pm

No words can really make it better but know I'm sending warm thoughts.


pac369 replies on 3/22/2021 6:11 pm:
All thoughts are appreciated drmgirl.. Thanks!

pac369 64F  
12701 posts
3/22/2021 7:46 pm

You are beyond sweet subtle.. Thank you so much for the wonderful response! Your points are thoughtful and insightful to me. And yes, we do have many similarities... It means a lot that you can relate to my painful day today.. And hopefully tomorrow will be a better day? Thanks again!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


jenny14 75T  
90400 posts
3/22/2021 8:43 pm

pac

May I send a warm hug!

Grieving is hard enough without bureaucracy making it much worse!!!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 3/22/2021 9:37 pm:
I know jenny... Thanks so much for the warm wishes and hugs!

burner301 66M
80 posts
3/22/2021 10:37 pm

Sorry to hear about your day PAC........thats got to be difficult. they do make it harder to deal with shit.......when they should be making it easier......hang in there young lady! Hope tomorrows a better day for ya!


pac369 replies on 3/23/2021 6:43 am:
Thank you burner.. Of course my day is better today.. The Boulder story puts shit into perspective.. Thank you!

Incognitomaster 52M
722 posts
3/24/2021 7:15 pm

First of all, sorry for your loss of a person you have been clise enough to share a phone! Itis always difficult to deal with the end of the lufe of someone. Also, it tends to remind me of my own mortality and helplessness about it. In a way, having things to do bureaucratically at least occupies the mind. If that is helpful, i can only guess.
I hope you find enough strength to go through the next days and find the happiness that you have been blessed to spend time with the person, which is bigger than the grief that the person is gone.

We are with you.

When you come to a fork in the road, take it.

__Yogi Berra


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 7:37 pm:
Thank you Incognito! I appreciate your kind words...


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