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pac369 64F  
10485 posts
3/24/2021 5:44 am

Last Read:
3/25/2021 11:08 am

I am not interested....


See blog in comments....

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


NastynLvnDom 56M

3/24/2021 5:55 am

not interested in what ?


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 6:07 am:
The blog is visible now.Computer issues

pac369 64F  
12701 posts
3/24/2021 6:05 am

Why isn't that enough if you IM me and I tell you that? I don't know you... Why do you feel entitled to any kind of explanation at that point? You do know I am being respectful by telling you this,right?

Are you sure you really want to know why I am not interested? Why that beer belly doesn't turn me on,or the one line profile with the cock pic,or the assumptions I want to talk nasty to you so you can get off.

Just say ok,no problem, instead of on no,why's that? Just accept we are not going to talk. Because we aren't....

I am not here for your juvenile IM conversations or even flirts for that matter. I am accessible through my blogs and private box.

But I am not a hookup for your amusement... When will you players and wanna be poser and pretender Doms go the fuck away? Go back to Match.com,or sit in front of the computer jacking off to your porn...

Just because you say you are a Dom, doesn't mean you are one to me.. Try to remember that...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


drmgirl622 68F  
26146 posts
3/24/2021 6:47 am

I recently had an email that I can only describe as vile. Even if someone can't read profiles I'm sure they can at least see my sexual orientation. I've been fortunate that once I ignore an email they usually go away.


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 7:36 am:
Yes drmgirl a continuing problem when Dom’s don’t read.. I also get vile comments when I don’t fall in line and respond properly. To the point I have to block them.. You are lucky.. My messages keep coming from the same ones over, and over.. As always thanks for sharing..

Alteregojoe 66M
30 posts
3/24/2021 7:04 am

So tell us what you want then. It will make us all understand wtf you are doing on this site.


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 7:41 am:
I am on the site because I seek a LTR. To be approached respectfully is not asking to much. I have never spoke with you or really owe you anything.. But when I am approached on a IM and asked “ Do you like anal”, “ Do you do taboo”, how should I respond to that? It’s beyond frustrating.. And if you want to know what I or other subs want? Read our fucking blogs!

Missfintress 48F

3/24/2021 7:36 am

    Quoting Alteregojoe:
    So tell us what you want then. It will make us all understand wtf you are doing on this site.
Spoken like a beta bitch


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
3/24/2021 7:45 am

I love it!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


1uncommondom 77M

3/24/2021 7:47 am

Interrupting the perception.
When you explain yourself
to someone that you perceive
as self absorbed in their own
importance realize that they
only perceive you at that level.


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 1:53 pm:
Good points 1uncommon... The problem is I do expect more, and I should know better.. Thanks for your thoughts..

jenny14 75T  
90400 posts
3/24/2021 10:27 am

pac

Sadly, some people can only think with their testicles!

I just ban them!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 1:54 pm:
So true jenny.. Which is why I try so hard to avoid them.. But they seek me out like a missile! Thanks though as always..

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
3/24/2021 3:47 pm

Well pac, why you are on this site is your bussiness & if they want to find out, they
may have to work harder than opening with, "do you like anal?"
I dispair, who thinks thats a suitable opening line.

I just checked out your profile, I can't remember how much a standard member
can see. If they can see your second paragraph, then it's quite clear that you are looking for a realationship, not just some quick kinky sex.


pac369 replies on 3/24/2021 5:12 pm:
I do appreciate that Dave.. And yes I have received that line on more than one occasion. And who would think that’s appropriate? Not someone I want to know.. Thank you for the wonderful words!

aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
3/25/2021 3:14 am

I think it's so common for "men" to just throw out a hook, in fact, they even use a standard worded opening piece to be disgusting. I have had guys ask me the vilest things in my messages. and then a few days, weeks later send me the exact same message! Go figure? They're not even creative enough to come up with something new.

Take Care

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


pac369 replies on 3/25/2021 5:21 am:
I so hear you ali.. That's a great point about throwing a hook out there.. I had not really thought of it that way. But like you, days or weeks later, I will get the same message.. Thank you so much for sharing..


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