Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > pac369 > Pulling your own strings... |
|
I do have limit's, thank you very much... Where does this fantasy about "no limits" come from?? I have read a excessive amount of BDSM books in the last couple of ... So I know some of it is portrayed in these books... But in real life... Where you actually come out and say you have "no limits", wow! You really must be amazing... What if your Dom decides you are the star of the next gangbang? Are you ok with that? Or the camera starts rolling while you are getting fucked by 5 guys.. What then? Your Dom humiliating you, obscenely in public is all systems go, right? Or now your Dom decides someone, other than a human, will fuck you, is that ok? Or he decides a brand on that ass of yours with his initials, that's good right? Impact is fine, right? Where you bleed for your Dom... What about putting you in a cage for hours at a time? Or making you eat or drink from animal bowls... Being restrained for endless hours, till you are begging be released... I know these scenarios are drastic. But don't yourself about someone being out there, waiting for a opportunity, 2 experiment on you. Or much worse.. These pseudo Dom's are everywhere. Or should I say predators? I do believe limits can be pushed and expanded with a Dom over time. This natural progression is what works best for me.. But think long and hard before you say you have "no limits".. Make sure you understand every possible scenario that could happen to you? No matter how far fetched it seems... As it's been said so many times before... When your restrained and vulnerable is not the time to be talking about limits! ~Blog repeats in comments.. Because you know we can't trust alt.. ~ ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
||||
|
Where does this fantasy about "no limits" come from? I have read a excessive amount of BDSM books in the last couple of years. So I know some is portrayed in these books.. But in real life... To actually come out and say you have "no limits", wow! You really must be amazing.. What if your Dom decides you are the star of the next gangbang? Are you ok with that? Or the camera starts rolling while you are getting fucked by 5 guys.. What then? Your Dom humiliating you obscenely in public is all systems go, right? Or now your Dom decides to have a dog fuck you, is that ok? Or he decides to brand that ass of yours with his initials, that's good right? Knife play is fine, right? Where you bleed for your Dom.. What about putting you in a cage for hours at a time? Or making you eat and drink from animal bowls? Being restrained for hours, till you are begging to be released.. I know these scenarios are drastic. But don't kid yourself about someone being out there, waiting for a opportunity, to experiment on you. Or much worse... These pseudo Dom's are everywhere. Or should I say predators? I do believe limits can be pushed and expanded with a Dom over time. This natural progression is what works best for me... But think long and hard before you say you have "no limits". Make sure you understand every possible scenario that could happen to you? No matter how far fetched it seems... As it's been said so many times before... When your restrained and vulnerable is not the time to be talking about limits! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
| |||
|
You're right - the pseudo Doms are probably more predatory than anything. Gives a bad name to real practicioners of BDSM.
| |||
|
Yes I have limits, but I am interested in pushing them, but then some of the ones you mention are no go. You are right, they are out there and male or female sub needs to care about them. Have a good day though eh
| |||
|
your so right!! if someone has no limits they are worthless and should be not used at all. being a sub/slave doesn't mean your worthless or weak. be proud of you who are and take care of yourself in mind and body
| |||
|
Where does this fantasy about "no limits" come from?? I think it comes from a galaxy far far away... One where fantasy is the order of the day! Hey ... We rhymed! Yeah, anybody who states they have 'no limits' only thinks they have no limits. You pointed out several scenarios that many would balk at, although some submissives/slaves would be happy to do some of them. Here's a couple we could run up the flagpole .... How about we cut off your ears? Gouge out your eyes? Pull all your teeth? Amputate a limb? Still think you don't have any limits? When I see someone state they have 'no limits' in a profile, I conclude they have no idea what they're talking about and live in a fantasy world. I conclude the same of anyone who reads it and believes it. I additionally conclude there's a 99.9% chance it's a fake profile. No sane person makes such a representation. Make Women Female Again
| |||
|
I honestly believe that someone saying no limits is more about attention than true understanding of what those two words mean.
| |||
|
I will not ever get involved with any person claiming to have no limits. They either believe the erotic stores, (which are just stories and no reflection of real life) or they are dumb or foolish; Possibly both. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
| |||
|
The old no limits l love this one usually when l start probing for that limit mention blood and bingo tgere it is the first limit, we all have limits and tolerances to say you dont is pure bull come into the fairy tale world of need your head read for saying that. Enjoy the day
| |||
|
pac This has been said before by others BUT ALWAYS is worth repeating and hoping some-one reads it and takes it to heart! I know that I have been approached with some wild but very stupid fantasies! I have tried to point out the dangers but, sadly, I fear , their testosterone was more powerful and their IQ too low to understand what they wanted... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
| |||
|
No limits on a BDSM site is basically the dumbest thing you can say about yourself. Here are not only responsible people (and my own experiences show that every day!), but here are real sadists. Slavers. People who would give you drugs so you don't realize what they do to you, and are too weak to fight back. Murderers. People who really want to see the fear in your eyes before they feed you to the sharks or whatever pet they might have available. Sorry, this is SUCH a stupid claim I cannot fathom how anyone could even think of putting it out there. once again, took it up a notch from what Plzrmeister said. Sorry to scare anyone, but that is how things are. twisted perverts are everywhere, and on alt more than anywhere, I would say. Please be true to yourself. Please everybody, think about what you write. I mean, I know it is hard for some, but, please! Just think! When you come to a fork in the road, take it. __Yogi Berra
|
 |
 |
 |
| Become a member to comment on this blog | ||
 |
×
×