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pac369 64F  
10498 posts
4/19/2021 5:22 am

Last Read:
4/20/2021 7:02 am

Desire....

See below...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
4/19/2021 5:39 am

My desire levels are like a roller coaster.. Up and down for sure.. I think it's one of the most frustrating things about spending so much time without a Dom... Without a connection my desire level is almost nonexistent...

This has become evident because even my toys aren't working... And I find myself going longer and longer without using them... Which is really beyond depressing...

And creates other problems... As a sub I yearn to be in touch with my sexuality... Which isn't happening and I am struggling to cope with it... And no... I am not interested in casual online encounters, which do absolutely nothing for me. Though I do appreciate all the IM offers..

There is much truth to " the more sex you have, the more sex you want".. I know this, and have experienced it... Without desire though, it's almost impossible for me as a woman and sub to go there!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


softrayne 56F
3088 posts
4/19/2021 6:37 am

I know what you mean. I'm pretty sure my hymen has grown back it's been so long.


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:26 am:
Oh no rayne! I am not even sure how to respond to that? We just have to keep the faith.. Thanks for your comment.

lwbtmboy 59M
660 posts
4/19/2021 6:44 am

I totally agree covid sure hasn't helped either


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:26 am:
Absolutely... Covid has only made a bad situation worse.. Thanks..

Plzrmeister 67M  
10533 posts
4/19/2021 6:48 am

Even my toys aren't working.

Yikes ..... This is a bad state of affairs!

You did replace the batteries - Right?

You can't put batteries in desire.

True enough.

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:28 am:
Only one uses batteries and I did replace them... Just feel desensitized to them right now.. Thanks Plz. Always enjoy your sarcasm..

slaveforyou365 63M  
4528 posts
4/19/2021 7:14 am



Slave rick


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:29 am:
Yeah slave rick..

rumprover 57M
43 posts
4/19/2021 7:21 am

    Quoting softrayne:
    I know what you mean. I'm pretty sure my hymen has grown back it's been so long.
Lol.


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:30 am:
That is funny for sure...

Daddy72948 75M

4/19/2021 7:44 am

It seems that the older i get the hornier....


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:31 am:
Interesting thoughts no doubt...

drmgirl622 68F  
26164 posts
4/19/2021 7:50 am

You know, I've had that experience and even resorted to HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) pellets being implanted. I am positive that they improve my mood and speed up my metabolism but only the "right" Domme can work on that libido.


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:32 am:
That's great info... Thanks so much drmgirl..

WanderingMan71 53M
35 posts
4/19/2021 10:35 am

The last year or so has made it tough for everyone


pac369 replies on 4/19/2021 11:49 am:
I could not agree more... Will be glad when we can return to some kind of normal.. Thanks for sharing..

jenny14 75T  
90433 posts
4/20/2021 12:58 am

pac

I am not sure as a male if I should be commenting? BUT, I think your post again illustrates that the brain is the most powerful sex organ!

I know if I am sad , my libido drops for example...

I am sorry but I cannot offer any advice but I found drm's comment very interesting..


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 4/20/2021 7:00 am:
Ahhh jenny.. You are always welcome to respond regardless what the topic is.. Yes, love the brain comment.. I agree totally! And drmgirls comments were very interesting.. Thanks for your thoughts..


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