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pac369 64F  
10491 posts
6/10/2021 7:55 pm

Last Read:
10/16/2021 10:32 am

It's a matter of respect....

Enjoy more UP of Michigan pics...




~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
6/10/2021 8:07 pm

Yesterday my Father and step Mother celebrated their 48th wedding anniversary! That's 40 more years than my Father was married to my Mother....

And even as my step Mother has become a caregiver now, the love she shows my Father is just amazing! I am so grateful she takes care of him with love and compassion...

There are no snide comments, innuendo's, or pettiness that many long time couples share... I have so enjoyed spending time with them..

Just a vanilla couple with a deep love and respect for each other...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


OldJeakel 73M
377 posts
6/10/2021 8:29 pm

My parents were married 60 years, raised 4 kids through the depression and WW2, I was very late to the party and grew up with my nieces and nephews. Looking around today, there seems to have been something lost between when they grew up and now. Its sad to see what has been lost


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 2:42 am:
Yes OJ.. Your thoughts do compare the different mind sets for sure… You don’t get married to see if it will work out, because you can always get divorced.. Thanks for sharing your perspective..

jenny14 75T  
90481 posts
6/10/2021 11:04 pm

pac

The pictures are beautiful but nothing compared to the story / relationship of your father and stepmother!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 2:43 am:
It is beyond special Jenny… Thanks so much for your wonderful thoughts!

aliljaded 53F
8974 posts
6/10/2021 11:46 pm

There is much we can learn from our parents /elders about love, compassion, empathy, and life. Congratulations to your parents for hitting a wonderful milestone. You are very lucky to still have them both.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 2:47 am:
Oh I could not agree with you more alil… The appreciation I have for my family is so special… And I am happy I have spent the last couple days with them… Thanks for your kind thoughts!

orfunman4unow 58M
41 posts
6/11/2021 1:01 am

Congratulations to your Father and step Mother.

My parents were married for 55 years. We had a big bash for their 50th.

Gave a great day!


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 2:48 am:
I was so surprised when I heard how many years they were married! Thanks so much for the comments..

DancingDom 74M
22623 posts
6/11/2021 4:39 am

Most of the grandparents and my parents generations and a significant number of those from my generation have been married, until a spouse passed away. My Dad passed when I was in 2nd grade. Mom should have married a guy she liked, shared many interests and treated my sister and I very well.But he wanted to get married, but was not Catholic and like many n my Mom's generations you just did not marry out of your faith. Mom later married a man who she knew when she was a teenager. He hid his vices until the day after they were married. He was after money, which he thought my Mom had. She was not rich by any means. She usually worked two jobs to raise us. That marriage was annulled by the Church becasue he was too drunk most of the time to consummate the marriage. Tragic! It surely is a different time.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 4:46 pm:
Wow… What a story DD.. So hard in this day and age to understand not being able to marry out of our faith… Thank you so much for sharing your perspective and story!!

DirtyGardenMan 42M
36 posts
6/11/2021 9:24 am

Beautiful shots, lovely story. Thanks for sharing


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 4:47 pm:
You are very welcome… So glad you enjoyed it. Thank you!

drmgirl622 68F  
26200 posts
6/11/2021 3:56 pm

The story of your parents is so heartwarming.....we all need to aspire to such love.


pac369 replies on 6/11/2021 4:50 pm:
It set such a example for me… Something to strive for.. It really was beautiful watching them together… Thank you for the comments drmgirl!

ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
6/12/2021 10:34 am

What a lovely story to read.. made me smile, bringing hope back that this kind of connection, respect, and love is possible to have...


pac369 replies on 6/12/2021 11:40 am:
Thank you very much.. So glad you enjoyed the story.. And yes... It does give me hope for that kind of connection in my life! Thanks for your kind words...


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