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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
7/16/2021 5:36 am

Last Read:
7/23/2021 5:21 am

Should I stay? Or should I go?

See below..


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
7/16/2021 5:50 am

That is my dilemma!

I love blogging on Alt!

But all the other shit on the site is questionable... The scammers that patrol the site remind me of Shark Week!

I see myself slowly transitioning to another site... A site that is aggressively trying to keep scammers out. Where your identity is verified through pictures taken in certain ways, and other ways I am not certain of... It's time consuming, it's a hassle to sign up, but so be it...

From my research so far the blogs are not happening, which is a disappointment. And will keep me from leaving Alt totally at this time.. Plus, at first glance, the profiles seem a bit subdued, don't quite have the edge as Alt... But as in all things, sometimes you have to compromise for the greater good..

I am just excited about a site that doesn't want the scammers and bots... And is trying to prevent it from happening. Surely, I will post more as I find out about the site...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


davstep1000 63M/58F

7/16/2021 6:36 am

i left the site for all the reasons you have said . all the scammers and fake profiles , came back to leave my personal email for a sekllected few friends . but will soon be leaving . i cant imagine a reason why any one would want to hassle a qualty and level headed girl like you . peace and love


pac369 replies on 7/16/2021 6:39 am:
Thanks so much! I really appreciate your supportive comments, and totally relate to why you left.. Take care...

Plzrmeister 67M  
10451 posts
7/16/2021 6:48 am

A site that doesn't want the scammers and bots.

Are we talking some sort of Shangri-La site where life is one big bowl of cherries?

Must be. But without the scammers and bots, we have one less subject to blog and comment about.

There goes 1/2 of the blogs from new, unsuspecting members.

Maybe so, but ya gotta do what ya gotta do.

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 7/16/2021 3:07 pm:
Always put that comedic spin on things Plz! In all honesty I do really like it.. Whatever I do will be in steps. I have no plans to stop blogging right now.. Thanks for your comments..

drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
7/16/2021 7:23 am

This site may not be perfect but rarely can you find that anymore. But, you have to decide what works best for you whatever that may be.


pac369 replies on 7/16/2021 3:12 pm:
I do agree drmgirl.. It's just so hard dealing with all the players and wanna be Dom's who just want a hookup here. If they would just leave me alone I know things would be easier for me...

But my curiosity cannot just let their messages or IM's go. I try to be courteous and the next thing you know I am in a stupid conversation arguing my point! Not cool...

FL_Firmhand 64M

7/16/2021 7:24 am

I think that there are several of us checking out that same site. I need to convert the cost to dollars


pac369 replies on 7/16/2021 3:16 pm:
I think so to FL.. I like the fact they give good points for picture verification. And you can try a premium service for 2 weeks that way. I haven't tried it yet, I'm working on it...

But in browsing not sure how many are actually in the states? And it could be a problem if most are in Europe? If you find different info please let me know..

ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
7/16/2021 1:44 pm

There is no perfect place or space, it's about the connection you establish with certain people or not, the connection you have made... that's what keeps you somewhere, wherever it may be.. there will always be some downsides.. anywhere you go, yet we chose where we feel most comfortable... take care wherever you may go, dear pac


pac369 replies on 7/16/2021 3:19 pm:
You are right on point about that Ex! Which makes the decision harder... My blog and followers are a big deal to me. And I am not willing to just stop it right now...

But hopefully alt will be come aware of these new sights. And will try to clean it's shit up? Probably fantasy, but one can hope..

Thanks so much for your thoughts!

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
7/16/2021 2:43 pm

As has already been said I think there's a few of us checking that other site.
After all, the alure of a site that you might actually be able to contact & meet
people seeking the same things is strong. Whether it actually works out like
that, well we'll see.

In the meantime I hope you'll keep blogging here, at least for now.


pac369 replies on 7/16/2021 3:22 pm:
I am sure it is strong for you to Dave... And it seems like there might be many from your part of the world who are members...

My blogging will continue.. As I am not ready to stop that no matter what I decide..

Good luck to you to.. I appreciate your thoughts..

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
7/16/2021 11:25 pm

pac

I know this site has its problems but it is the best I have found for blogging

I REALLY hope you stay


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 7/17/2021 8:41 am:
Ahhh thank you Jenny! I am not going any where as far as blogging is concerned. I enjoy that to much to stop..

But looking for that connection here is not on my mind anymore...

Thank you Jenny!!

Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
7/18/2021 7:02 am

    Quoting pac369:
    That is my dilemma!

    I love blogging on Alt!

    But all the other shit on the site is questionable... The scammers that patrol the site remind me of Shark Week!

    I see myself slowly transitioning to another site... A site that is aggressively trying to keep scammers out. Where your identity is verified through pictures taken in certain ways, and other ways I am not certain of... It's time consuming, it's a hassle to sign up, but so be it...

    From my research so far the blogs are not happening, which is a disappointment. And will keep me from leaving Alt totally at this time.. Plus, at first glance, the profiles seem a bit subdued, don't quite have the edge as Alt... But as in all things, sometimes you have to compromise for the greater good..

    I am just excited about a site that doesn't want the scammers and bots... And is trying to prevent it from happening. Surely, I will post more as I find out about the site...
I for one would be sad top see you leave Pac, and I would surely spend some time investigating this new site you mention.

But if you do bite the bullet and leave for good, I do hope you will write to the AltMonkeys and tell them just why you are leaving... (not that I would expect them to do a damn thing about it!)


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
7/18/2021 7:05 am

...And you will be joining an ever-lengthening list of women who have left this site over the past couple of years!


pac369 replies on 7/18/2021 11:30 am:
Yes WT.. The blogs hold me here now... Because I am not ready to stop that..


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