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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
7/24/2021 4:32 am

Last Read:
9/4/2021 9:52 am

Well...nothing surprises me!

See below...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
7/24/2021 4:44 am

Especially what you might see in our day to day life...

I am at the local laundromat yesterday drying a king size comforter...

I hear footsteps....
Distinct clicking of high heels... I look up from my phone...

I see a guy walking towards me carrying his basket, wearing a pair of sweat pants pulled up his leg, a golf type shirt, and a pair of high heels...

This is not what I would expect at any laundromat. Especially in blue collar, Milwaukee, Wisconsin...

I see no point in being subtle here, he's not... So I asked "what's the deal with the heels"? He goes "I just think I should be able to wear them".. I go "right on"... Can I take a pic? He hesitated for a second then said ok...

I wish you could have seen his full outfit and face... But I wasn't going to violate his privacy like that...

He told me most people don't even notice he walks around in heels. I said, I don't know about that? But most people are not going to ask like I did...

I have no idea what his message was? Or if he even had one?

But I applaud his not giving a fuck attitude!

Life is short... Live it on your terms!!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


EcuriousNNJ 67M
575 posts
7/24/2021 5:12 am

That does take a set ...!


pac369 replies on 7/24/2021 6:10 am:
It really does, doesn't it! Thanks..

Plzrmeister 67M  
10449 posts
7/24/2021 5:19 am

"I just think I should be able to wear them"..

Of course he should be able to wear them. The question is why the fuck would you want to? Personally, I go for comfort and a pair of high heels doesn't seem like they'd be comfortable for long.

Exactly. Give me a pair of flip flops or a pair of sneakers any day. There is not only the comfort factor, but also stability considerations.

Yeah, but we don't wear heels, so what do we know.....

I suppose there's some truth to that.

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 7/24/2021 6:12 am:
Of course it doesn't surprise me you go for comfort Plz.. But his heels looked quite broken in and he actually seemed comfortable in them..

Thanks for your comments..

robj1956 68M
1679 posts
7/24/2021 5:23 am

So you're in Milwaukee and not Tucson?
Hell, we're virtually neighbors.
Cudos to heels man, good for him, wish I could be a little more assertive


pac369 replies on 7/24/2021 6:14 am:
I head back to Tucson on Monday rob.. Yes... I agree on how assertive he is...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts..

LizNaughty 47F

7/24/2021 6:22 am

What really, really, ... REALLY...annoys me is when a pulls them off better than I do! I mean I'm expected by society, and some men, to wear them, so naturally I think I should look good. Now when these inventions of the Marquise de Sade are optional for men and they really look great in them....ARRRRRGH...😂😂😂😂😜


pac369 replies on 7/24/2021 8:01 am:
I know it's crazy isn't it Liz?? It was a sight I never thought I would see doing laundry..

Thanks for the comments..

drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
7/24/2021 8:33 am

I might need to start going to the laundromat. It appears more interesting than the one I have at home.


pac369 replies on 7/24/2021 9:47 am:
Ahhh that's funny!

Thanks drmgirl..

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
7/24/2021 9:17 am

Different, but maybe the dog hid all his shoes.

Did you give him the thumbs up?


pac369 replies on 7/24/2021 9:45 am:
I did! I said I did not care what he wore if he was comfortable with it.. And I do mean it..

Thanks tky...

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
7/25/2021 12:07 am

pac

HOORAY for him!

It takes courage , no matter what he says!

Thank you for sharing!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 7/25/2021 3:49 am:
I could not agree more Jenny! He was quite a unique individual for sure…

Thanks for your thoughts and glad you enjoyed the post!

Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
7/25/2021 1:27 am

He's a fucking hero... The one time I wore heels (for a fancy dress party!) I almost broke my bloody ankle.

Heels are the reason that women are the true superior gender!


pac369 replies on 7/25/2021 3:52 am:
Ahhh that’s funny WT! But yeah.. it takes some talent and experience to walk in high heels..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts..

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
7/25/2021 11:52 am

I thought Jenny would be impressed.

As for WTs comment about the true superior gender. What was it they
said about Ginger Rodgers? Did all the same dances as Fred Astair, but
backwards in heels!

I was in my local supermarket a couple of years ago. There was this guy,
I think he'd had a few drinks & was having trouble getting his stuff through
the self service till. His stuff being 6 or 8 packs of pantyhose, about 4 tops
& a couple of skirts & nothing else. He was telling the young female
supermarket worker, that his wife, (he wasn't wearing a wedding ring), had
asked him to pick up a few things for her when he was in the supermarket.

But he hadn't bought anything other than ladies clothing, & I can see a woman
asking her man to pick up some pantyhose for her. But would she really ask
him to buy tops & skirts? Surely she would want to chose style, colours, sizes.
I think he was doing some personel shopping.


pac369 replies on 7/25/2021 7:17 pm:
Funny story Dave.. And I do think Jenny was impressed.. She just might have been in shock thus happened doing laundry, I was..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts...

submale1955 68M
460 posts
7/26/2021 10:48 am

Reminds me of the question: Who was the better dancer - Fred Astaire or Ginger Rogers?
Answer: Ginger. She did the same steps as Fred only she did them walking backwards and in high heels.


pac369 replies on 7/26/2021 7:06 pm:
Yes… The response from Dave also brought that up.. Can you only imagine how hard it was to dance backwards…. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.


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