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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
8/11/2021 6:59 am

Last Read:
8/12/2021 8:01 am

A submission definition....

Of course definitions flow like wine about anything....

pac does see much truth in this definition....

The additional comments about the strong man are bonus in this subs mind...

Just additional thoughts in pac's mind right now...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
8/11/2021 7:00 am

What's your thoughts on this definition??

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


curioss1970 52M
262 posts
8/11/2021 7:03 am

very nice.
Do you think is the same for men?
Do you think that D women and D men have same needs?


pac369 replies on 8/11/2021 7:07 am:
That is a great question curioss...

I imagine there would be similar needs by any Dom/me sub? But in all honestly I just don't know...

Maybe some other comments will shed light on this...

Thanks for your comments...

sletje1999 24F
134 posts
8/11/2021 7:25 am

My reason for submission has a lot to do about being able to please. And yes it is not unconditionally. I can't deal well with guys who think this is a one way street.


pac369 replies on 8/11/2021 8:07 am:
I certainly appreciate your thoughts sletje… It is not a one way street for sure… Both need each other for the D/s dynamic to flourish..

Thanks for your thoughts…

DancingDom 74M
22590 posts
8/11/2021 7:53 am

It may apply to the person who wrote it. I still feel each person's submission and dominance is unique to the relationship any two people have and as it evolves.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 8/11/2021 8:10 am:
Good points DD., What works well between one sub/Dom doesn’t necessarily mean it will work well with others.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
8/11/2021 8:56 am

Pac, I really appreciate the way you clearly state things like this. I know that I'm a little confused right now, and It's very comforting to have someone start to make sense of the thoughts swimming around in my head.


pac369 replies on 8/11/2021 3:15 pm:
I appreciate that you are a bit confused Suzy.. Because I have been there and I am there again…

I have no doubts you will figure out what’s best for you… Because the thoughts in your head will guide you…

I am happy that I can help you in anyway…

Thanks so much for your comments…

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
8/11/2021 9:04 am

I, myself, follow the basic craving of submission but as stated by DD I think it is all dependent on the relationship.


pac369 replies on 8/11/2021 3:21 pm:
So well put drmgirl … Eventually one comes along who offers you their version of D/s.
While many dynamics will be present.. It’s quite unique between the two of you..

I totally agree with you and DD!

Thanks for your thoughts…

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
8/11/2021 10:54 pm

pac

I thin k it is the definition of an egotist who has NO regard for nor, interest in, the other person!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 8/12/2021 8:00 am:
Wow jenny... Your thoughts surprise me...

But I can certainly see your points...

Thank you for sharing them..


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