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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
9/6/2021 8:05 am

Last Read:
9/8/2021 3:24 pm

Now I am a adolescent!

See below...


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
9/6/2021 8:11 am

I can never remember calling a Dom out by name before.... Today that changes!

You be the judge to see who is out of line by reading the messages...

And what you can't see... Is after he insulted me, he made sure I could not respond to his comment...

This behavior by Dom's is ignorant. When a sub doesn't chop, chop, to his requests.

Today was not the day to fuck with me!

Who has the last word now DaddyAdoresYou??

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


Darkstar6469 71M
129 posts
9/6/2021 8:18 am

His kind of behavior seems way too common on here and other sites.
Too many so called doms don't have a clue
Hope your Labor day goes better


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 8:21 am:
Thank you Darkstar
I appreciate the supportive comments...

And hope beyond hope, if these assholes are called out they will stop some of this behavior? If nothing else.. Other subs see how they treated me..

drmgirl622 68F  
26117 posts
9/6/2021 8:24 am

You know, it has nothing to do with this site or any other adult site. So many people are part of the "me too" movement and all that entitlement makes me insane.


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 9:20 am:
It makes me insane to drmgilr!

Thanks for sharing...

fastmover1000 61M  
227 posts
9/6/2021 8:48 am

That being said, I am a terrible texter/ message person myself.


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 9:21 am:
I appreciate that fast...

But surely you have to communicate for more that 3 messages? At least I hope so..

Thanks for the comments..

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1548 posts
9/6/2021 8:56 am

Absurd really. I have had women want to talk shortly after we started chatting. I am not going to hand out my phone number to someone I have only known for a hour or a day or even a week. Sheesh, people are idiots.


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 9:26 am:
Thanks Iso!

I really dislike giving out my number immediately. When I made that mistake in the past it was always a mistake..

Thanks for your thoughts..

Greybrow 64M
625 posts
9/6/2021 8:57 am

Sad that so many turn to name calling. Stay above it.


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 9:27 am:
Trying to..

But sometimes you just have had enough!
Thanks for your comments..

likesmatures 55M
4843 posts
9/6/2021 9:05 am

Hate to say it but the dude is more preditor than Dom.

This is why i've always suggested taking sex out of the equation.

Try it sometime and see if said Dom continues his advances. Chances are he will tuck his tail and move on to his next prey.

I'm not saying bdsm has to be sans sex. Rather sex shouldnt be the main focal point of bdsm.

Bdsm should be
1. Mental
2.physical
Last. Sexual..

Dont think of a Dom as mr grey...
Rather approach this as a student trying to learn from a Master.

I think that is a better way to look at a Dominant / submissive relationship.


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 9:30 am:
Love your comments likes!

When sex is taken out of a IM conversation they always go away... So sad when the mental connection cannot even be discussed...

Thanks for your comments..

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
9/6/2021 2:14 pm

I think his stopping you reponding to his last message shows very well
who the adolescent is!

When people are not on the same wave length, or looking for different
things, why not sign off gracefully & pursue their search elsewhere?

I keep getting messages from French Dommes, they want me to email
them or contact them through Hangouts! - No thanks.
In a different country & offering me things I don't want!
Just off to reply & delete 2 more of them!


pac369 replies on 9/6/2021 2:43 pm:
Sign off gracefully Dave?
What a concept that is...
Not happening on alt though...
Much easier to insult and bolt...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.. I appreciated them..

rosaenaluin 65F
11015 posts
9/8/2021 1:16 pm

Há, i had a guy from Austraile contact me, and talk about me getting overthere on a holliday visa or something like that....

That was his first and only concern, who i am, what i am like, etc?
Who cares>....
As if I am going on a plane to the other side of the word to get fucked by someone i dont now even his first name?!
Totall mental,
when i told him, this are redflags to me, he got rude...
Lozers at least to mé, they dont have the character traits of a Dominant, at all

Sometimes those are just too much!
Dont let it get to you, too much, please, they are not worth it!
they are allreay f*cking someone else, in their dreams!

Have nóo clue about SM and the fine art of conversation, getting to know each other, first.


pac369 replies on 9/8/2021 3:23 pm:
Yeah I agree with all you said rose...

Just so tired of it! Maybe if I call them out they will stop some of their bs.. As I know other subs do the same thing... No more protection of identity though.. If they are stupid enough to send obnoxious emails, I will take pics and post them...

Thanks for your nice comments..


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