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pac369 64F  
10494 posts
10/11/2021 8:50 am

Last Read:
10/12/2021 8:45 am

Last but not least today...

pac is not "bi-sexual"!!

She is never going too be bi...
And it's not because she hasn't tried it...
She has... For a vanilla boyfriend who so wanted her licking a pussy...
But attraction is essential and she doesn't feel it with woman...

So... another Dom disappears when this comes out. Has never been hidden on her end that she's straight, or in her Questions and Answers section...

If... that's "what you like" and "what you need" state it early in conversations.... Because this bullshit disappearing act is for ... Grow the fuck up!


~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
10/11/2021 8:58 am

Just saying..

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


drmgirl622 68F  
26198 posts
10/11/2021 10:01 am

People are always trying to change you and when they can't.....poof.


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:24 pm:
No kidding drmgirl...

DancingDom 74M
22623 posts
10/11/2021 10:35 am

Be who you are, Respect yourself and expect your boundaries to be honored.

Me i like women be they bi, lesbian or straight. I will not insisted or try to coerce one to be anything but what they are. I have lesbian friends, I have been involved with both straight and bi women. And I was also involved with a woman, who discovered she was lesbian. That came about after I noticed she became aroused by women in films as we watched them (not porn movies). We were no longer involved romantically after she came to grips with being lesbian. Lost track of her after I moved out of California.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:27 pm:
Yeah I hear you DD...
What happened to just being accepted for who you are? Because I cannot change who I am..

Thanks for the supportive comments!

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1550 posts
10/11/2021 10:59 am

Yes, it is stupid to ignore what a woman tell you, but even worse to disappear if you don't like the response to a question. My submissive wife is not bi either, but, luckily for me, she enjoys watching me use another woman and participate as I instruct. Participating is just her hold a vibe on the other as I flog her ass or other somewhat painful activities. She does not go down on others, and I am OK with that.


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:32 pm:
It sounds good to me that you accept your sub wife for who she is. Instead of criticizing her likes and dislikes...

Through time you have found out what makes you both happy! That's great Iso..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts...

ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
10/11/2021 11:49 am

Darling Pac, it seems to me you have been done a favor no matter how disrespectful and unpleasant disappearing might be.. at least one less to waste your time with. But it will never stop to amaze me how setting boundaries and saying no to some things will make some people show you how little respect they have for who you are....


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:35 pm:
I don't doubt what you are saying one bit Ex.. But it is depressing that I wasn't even worth a "sorry pac it's a deal breaker for me", or something similar...

Thanks for the kind thoughts!

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
10/11/2021 12:17 pm

Just an other one, who was only interested in HIS sexual fantasie.
Trying to find someone compatible....

With disregarding to the human being, behind the sexual fantasie....


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:40 pm:
Absolutely rosa..

As we both know fantasy and real life are two completely different things! But men/Doms still push that envelope... Like I did by asking that difficult question, and not just accepting his response.

Thanks for the nice comments..

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
10/11/2021 12:45 pm

Men will be men, sadly sometimes. Nice photo and greens.


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:41 pm:
Yes tkb...

Men will be men in so many negative ways!
Glad you like the pic..

Thank you!

likesmatures 55M
4874 posts
10/11/2021 1:23 pm

Er just saying...why would he need for you to be bi...i'd think he'd want you all for himself


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:45 pm:
Well.. In this case not so..

He specifically said he wanted his woman "to like woman"...
My responses were what he didn't like! Hence the disappearing act..

Thanks for the nice comments likes!

Greybrow 64M
625 posts
10/11/2021 1:39 pm

Sad how the web causes people to forget decency and civility. I hope venting helps


pac369 replies on 10/11/2021 4:46 pm:
It is sad Grey..

Venting does help though!
Thanks for the support...

Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
10/12/2021 1:20 am

Some of us may be struggling a bit to find out who we are, but when you know yourself and your desires, it's not up for negotiation. I can understand trying to convince a Coke fan to taste a Pepsi, but wow, this is on a whole other level.

And leaving without at least a "OK, just thought I'd ask" is just wrong. Even I know "Dom" should never equal "rude" like that. Sorry that this happened to you.


pac369 replies on 10/12/2021 8:43 am:
I appreciate your comments Suzy..

And I could not agree more.
Thank you very much!

davinacambs 61T  
866 posts
10/12/2021 3:27 am

I'm just a cross dresser - for some that means being willing to suck cock and take it up the ass like a good girl , but that side of it isn't what I want ......... I just want to dress differently to the norm, and that's it - and I have no problem with people seeing that, as long as they know my sexual preferences.

As for the rudeness of people , that is their problem to deal with and I'm happy for the door to slam on their ass on the way out, sooner rather than later into the discussion ....... perhaps they'll manage to swim back to the gene pool and perhaps they won't.

D-J xx


pac369 replies on 10/12/2021 8:45 am:
Your definition of what you want and believe is wonderful davina...

Thanks so much for the support and sharing of your thoughts!


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