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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
11/1/2021 9:05 am

Last Read:
11/2/2021 8:47 am

BDSM Science...

Do you buy into what this poster is saying?
pac does, and she suspects there are many more benefits that could be added...
But do enjoy the 5 benefits that are highlighted...
Do you??



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
11/1/2021 9:06 am

I think it's a great start!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1548 posts
11/1/2021 9:27 am

I agree completely and it also feels oh so very good.


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 9:31 am:
Thanks Iso!

Of course it's offensive to the gremlins... So I have to monitor to keep my pic posted..

grywolf2 73M
3112 posts
11/1/2021 9:40 am

Isn't science wonderful!


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 10:01 am:
Yes gry...

I think science is wonderful!!

slaveforyou365 63M  
4512 posts
11/1/2021 9:49 am



Slave rick


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 10:01 am:

roper2003 63M
511 posts
11/1/2021 10:04 am

THat's spot on!


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 10:06 am:
I thought so to roper!!

Gowron 69M
3112 posts
11/1/2021 10:12 am

    Quoting pac369:
    I think it's a great start!
There's a lot of vanilla people out there, but, when we find someone who shares our kinks, we should do our best to keep the rare gem. I'd say knowing this encourages fidelity.

Also, it's good to have someone to whom we can open our hearts without fearing to be seen as a pervert or weirdo. Shared secrets help strengthen a relationship.


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 12:01 pm:
Excellent points Gowron!

Just because it is so hard to find one who does share our kinks... So many times distance, age, circumstances, prevent us from getting together...

When it does work though, I just love those shared secrets...

Plzrmeister 67M  
10455 posts
11/1/2021 10:44 am

Follow the science ....

Isn't that the current trendy mantra?

Make Women Female Again


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 12:02 pm:
I suppose it is Plz...

But this science; turns me on and I just love it!

drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
11/1/2021 1:42 pm

All very good points and I think that level of intimacy goes even higher as the trust develops.


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 6:59 pm:
I think so to drmgirl...

Which is why it's so hard to find the one, or especially separate from them..

rosaenaluin 65F
11010 posts
11/1/2021 1:44 pm

Great poster and great text, too!
I do believe that is absolutely true!

All that and some more....


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 7:01 pm:
Thanks rosa!

I thought it made excellent points in a positive light..
Glad you liked it!

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
11/1/2021 3:30 pm

Sorry, but I calling Dr. Phil on this one. Besides, I have read so many blogs on Alt about subs and doms separating due to lack of communication.


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 7:04 pm:
I have read many myself tkb...

But communication has to be open, honest, and sincere at a minimum... And more often than not it isn't...
Just my 2 cents!

Steven19632 105M
214 posts
11/1/2021 4:51 pm

It is all true!


pac369 replies on 11/1/2021 7:04 pm:
Thanks Steven!

davinacambs 61T  
847 posts
11/2/2021 1:57 am

I think it depends primarily on trust more than anything else, and also whether your partner is as enthusiastic as you are.

The reduction of psychological stress is questionable, when you've spent an hour chained up with blind-fold and gag, and you can't hear if she is still there just ready to tease or has gone away to watch TV ........ I would say it would increase massively while waiting for something to start happening.

Just my thoughts.

D-J xx


pac369 replies on 11/2/2021 8:14 am:
Of course davina...

Trust is essential... And I do appreciate stress associated with sensory depravation... For me though, my mind will finally quiet... As I accept my total lack of control in that situation... Each of us will respond differently though..

And thanks for sharing your thoughts...

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
11/2/2021 2:58 am

pac

I think they are all possible but a proper scientific study would need to be done to confirm this! Meanwhile, I will just enjoy the Life-Style


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 11/2/2021 8:20 am:
Good points Jenny...

Personally I would enjoy seeing a proper scientific study!

Otherwise like you, I will just enjoy the lifestyle.

Tckg12 69M
2502 posts
11/2/2021 5:51 am

agree with Jenny. but if everything they describe is in the relationship as you'd like it to be I would agree with it


pac369 replies on 11/2/2021 8:38 am:
Yes Tckg...

In the context of a relationship this would be wonderful..
Just doesn't seem the same for a Dom or sub alone...

Thanks for your comments..


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