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Are you a "ghoster"? Of course, no one is going t o admit this on my blog. But take a good look in the mirror. Is this what you do? Your standard MO if things get t o real? Or you can't handle where the conversation is going? Because if so... why don't you let me share how the person being ghosted feels! It's not a good feeling. T o end a conversation with someone telling you they will email, text or call you later. Then nothing just silence... Naturally the person being ghosted waits around for a while before realizing, there's no more conversation, or even an explanation coming. Can you embarrass yourself and ask why? There's no point in it. As you are probably blocked as soon as they ghosted you. WTF is wrong with you for wanting a reason anyway. Yet, you are the one feeling like you did something wrong. Over and over again. Others will tell you "it's just the way it is". "Don't take it personally". Huh? That's exactly what this sub does. Because it's like an attack on her and her character. This throwaway society we live in can really suck. We are supposed to be a "lifestyle" of honesty and integrity. Lack of honesty is more like it. What a joke this has become. And how can anyone, Dom, Domme, even sub think it's ok t o fuck with someone's psyche like this? A sub without a Dom already feels like a piece of them is missing. Yet, they keep putting themselves out there. In hopes of finding that right puzzle piece. You ghosters though do real harm t o a subs confidence in themselves and especially mine. As in her next conversations she has t o formulate her words and thoughts so carefully. Because OMG she might say the wrong fucking thing. And get ghosted again. Yet the ghosters keep on ghosting. Because there is no consequences t o their behavior. They don't think they are doing anything wrong. Surely, you must understand they just don't want t o talk anymore. And no... none of that is understood. As you don't have the decency to tell someone " I don't want t o talk anymore". Karma is a bitch! And one day it will come for all you ghosters. Until then... how about fucking off! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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How about staying away from me!  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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2/9/2022 5:33 am |
Must admit to be ghosted on countless occasions, bloody hate it, just say you are not interested, end of!!!!
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karma always gets you
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I have been " ghosted " twice in the last week & no it isn't nice & makes you feel that you have done something wrong ! I always reply to anything I get even if it is " Thank you for your interest but I am not interested ! " !!!!
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It does not really matter if you are a sub, dom, slave or master. We all are exposing ourselves to a deeper and more intense relationship than regular vanilla relationships, hence it stings even more if you suddenly end up in complete silence. There is nothing wrong with saying ''I am sorry but I have reconsidered", or "I feel I am not ready for this" and grant the other deserved respect. But then again, those searching for something real already do that. The ones who are just here to fool around could not care less. I wish you the very best.
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The ghosting has always made me question what I've done or said wrong. It does eat at me but the only answer has to be "it wasn't my fault".
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What you need is a Ghoster-Buster.....or a Buster Poindexter. Either will do in a pinch...and a pinch would be nice too, now and then.
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Karma works both good & bad 4 easy steps to mental harmony...block delete ignore forget! online jokers are not worth your time don’t let them get to you recognize the signs traits ways of these idiots & turn the tables around on them! anybody truly interested you’ll know actions speak louder then words words & actions that jive = truth words w o corresponding actions = empty meaningless lies like the wind I know your venting but I’m just sayin! Ehh
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Pac quite right. But as someone who considers himself a top as not hard core enough to be a 24/7/365 Dom. Just can't seem to enjoy abusing an ass to the point can't sit 24 hrs later or titties that next day loose silk no bra even though maybe sanctioned over dress code has got me ghosted multiple times also. Would be nice to read or hear I don't believe we can, but they can't and worse yet we both may miss out on a perfectly beneficial pervy friend. Are there any of us that have too many kinky friends, someone who hugs us, then laughs and says I don't understand but please don't change. Then says that last story left me horny and have questions.
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pac, I am soo sorry, this happened again, to you. Those stupid bastards! Dont forget, most of them, really dont know what it takes to bé a dominant. Most of them, with that magnificent "d" in their profile, really are vanilla men, on the hunt, as vanillas. Have no cleu. I know, i know, it still hurts! I had a few this week, too. As soon as i get serious and ask qeustions... they are gone! A sign of how immature they really are. Or? They just want the kinky fuckery, and NO responsibility at all! Please! It is all about having "fun"! "adult fun" bleagh.....  amp;The most just want to play the game, to boost their own feeble ego... You know, when a dominant starts to talk with you, show genuine interst in who you are, i believe you will feel the difference.... Take care, big warm hug, 
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pac I can;t add anything except "Well said!: A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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2/13/2022 10:35 am |
I am honestly and truly sorry this has happened to you, on the other side it happens way to much as well. Just be honest with each other, go balls out with what you want. If they are not interested most with just go away before you invest time, and build a connection that gets crushed. Keep looking pac, trust me you have a lot of options here. S.
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