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Appearances matter... Why has our culture gone away from this? Where just throwing on a tee shirt and jeans is acceptable for a Dom or sub? One of the things this sub enjoyed most about going on a cruise. Was wearing different outfits and dressing for dinner! It was a wonderful experience. Styling your hair, refreshing your makeup, putting on a beautiful dress with stockings and heels, and posing for professional pictures. Then enjoying a wonderful dining experience. Unless this is common for you? It's pretty special for the majority of us... In warmer climates shorts and flip flops seem t o rule. pac is guilty of it herself. But don't think for a second, she ever looks frumpy golfing or going out. Her preference for everything matching shows up in full force. You never have a chance to make a first impression again! Seriously though... This picture just showing half of a alpha's male suit, plus part of his chin is deeply arousing t o pac. Everything about his posture, and even how he holds his glass exudes confidence. Appearances do matter Dom's! And if you don't think so. Your living in your own fantasy world!  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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Mmmm  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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2/15/2022 7:53 am |
pac, He looks he has it all, charm, wit, confidence, totally dominant and I hope he has a good tool to match.
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pac, we grew up in an age where men and woman dressed up. Everything is so casual now.
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I'm guilty of laounging around the house in T shirt and sweats, but I don't have a submissive/slave at this time. Meeting a prospective partner dress like that, I owuld never do. When I made my profile, I had no pics recent of me to post but casual pics or sout doors. But I added something "dressier' later. How I will dress when I actually find a partner, I'm still debating. What I wear may just reflect what I'm doing. With limited finacial flexability, I'm not going to buy suits to lounge around the home.
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agree
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It depends on where you are and if you are there to meet a new partner. On the cruises I went on they require long pants for dinner so I wore long pants and a collard shirt. On special nights where jackets and ties were required I wore a tux. In college I once went to class in a tux because I got off a Sunday night wedding job at 2AM and had to be at work in the college computer center at 6AM so I went to the college and took a nap on a couch there, worked 6-10AM, and went to class in my tuxedo. The dungeon parties I went to only required you wear black. so I wore black pants, black dress shirt, and black underwear. I wore pressed Bermuda shorts and collard top and was refused entry to a restaurant, yet my friend in jeans with holes in them and a t-shirt would have been allowed in.
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Yes, living in a warmer climate does bring on its share of tanks and flip flops. I know a Mistress that likes her sub to exhibit a much more refined appearance.
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Yes, the sweatpans is almost a common look, in some places. I love to dress up, shave my legs an extra time, smooth, baby! smooth.... make a nice outfit together, I enjoy that tremendously. Most of the time, i look like a construction worker, heavy boots, easy, comfortable clothes, a cap, very old coat.  BUT, when i go out, or meet a friend, visit family, i will dress up. Just to enjoy it myself. You dont need thousends of dollars/euros, to dress smart. You can even do it, on a budget. In warmer weather, i wont wear shorts, i will wear a (long) dress, skirt.
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When you look at photos or films of our cities from, say, the 50s or earlier, you notice two things: (1) There were a lot fewer of us; and (2) Almost everyone was better-dressed. A gentleman would always wear a hat, even to a baseball game, while a working man would wear a cap.
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This picture makes me melt a little and gives me a nice warm feeling inside. I love a man who looks like a man and acts like a man.
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Question pac. Does a Dom have to wear a suit? What if he wears a leather vest with a lone eagle on his back? His t-shirt from a event 10 or 12 years ago still looking new, jeans tight but long haul comfortable tucked into 17inch stovepipe engineer boots polished but showing the same miles as his ride?
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Appliances matter, too, you must admit........
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when did DOMs wear suits?! a suit has nothing to do w being DOMinate it’s bout your attitude actions & personality not wtf you wear! I look good in a suit & tie too but l hate iT! I fail to see how a suit makes you DOM?!
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when did DOMs wear suits?! a suit has nothing to do w being DOMinate it’s bout your attitude actions & personality not wtf you wear! I look good in a suit & tie too but l hate iT! I fail to see how a suit makes you DOM?!
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Well, you like what you like and if a well dressed man turns you on then. 
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