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pac369 64F  
10485 posts
2/19/2022 10:39 am

Last Read:
2/22/2022 6:37 am

Your intelligence...

Will not intimidate her...
Or make her treat you differently...
You know more from books...
She knows more from life...
She can respond in a heartbeat...
Where you will "mull" it over in your mind...
Even in failures she will continue looking
for what she seeks...
While you will probably stay lost in the past...
Where no one can ever compare...
This sub will take street smarts over book
smarts everyday...
Because every time a asshole with education
disillusion's her once again...
She learns new strategies t o protect herself from the next one...
Your education or intelligence does not make you
better than pac!
Perhaps you should read that last line again...



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12701 posts
2/19/2022 10:40 am

Should be easy to decipher the picture....

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


Will35 61M
396 posts
2/19/2022 10:45 am

I agree with a lot of this but it seems to me that some of it confuses intelligence with book learning - they are distinct in my mind.
For one thing, without intelligence, you can't be street smart - learning from mistakes requires intelligence, whether those mistakes are made on the street or in school.
And yes, education or intelligence does not make anyone better than anyone else.


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:29 pm:
I can see what your saying Will...
I just think book learning and street learning
are different. At least for me they are. As I have always been a hands on learner.
Thanks for your thoughts though...

Artschoolgrad 47M
8870 posts
2/19/2022 11:19 am

i'm all for street smarts!


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 12:50 pm:
Thanks Art!

wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
2/19/2022 11:20 am

Intelligence and education are nowhere near the same. I have met more than one college professor that seemed less intelligent than some I worked with that never made it to high school. If must intimidate shows lack of self. Myself will state this is what I know, or believe, or opinion is usually a sentence or paragraph, occasionally very rarely a chapter. I can't even do a book on what I spent 30+ years earning a living at.


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 12:54 pm:
While I do agree regrets...
Many with education have that
condescending attitude that really
turns me off.

But they wait to bring it out. When you already
have time invested at a minimum...
Thanks for your comments...

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4225 posts
2/19/2022 11:47 am

in many ways street smart is wiser then book smart
a life lived is full of experience
experience = knowledge & wisdom
to smell out & expose all the BS
for the Truth eventually comes to light sooner or later people’s true colors intentions shine bright
for the truth shall either set you free or imprison you!


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 12:55 pm:
In many ways I agree bdsm...

And like you say true colors do come
out. But there is usually a price to
pay to see them...

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1550 posts
2/19/2022 12:26 pm

I don't think education has anything to do with it. Education does not turn someone into an arrogant ass. They were assholes before school. I think their moral character has more to do with how they treat people than their education. Real educated people know that they don't know it all. If they don't, then they did not get the education they need.


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 12:59 pm:
I see your point Iso...

This behavior is just what I have ran into numerous
times.
I certainly don't think I know it all...
Far from it. As I learn new shit everyday...

Fun1861 63M

2/19/2022 12:48 pm

👍


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 12:59 pm:
Thanks F!

drmgirl622 68F  
26184 posts
2/19/2022 1:03 pm

street smarts is an invaluable asset


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:30 pm:
I totally agree drmgirl!

FLR2Marriage 60M

2/19/2022 1:08 pm

The most important thing a person learns in school is how to learn. The same thing goes with 'street' smarts. I agree no one is 'better' simply because they have degree. For many their confidence stands behind that sheet of paper. From the time of birth, life is an education in adapting to situations around us. Learn or fail. You might need to use power tools for the first time. Only a fool would begin using them right away without learning how to properly use them. Or they would learn to live with the disability their arrogance provided them with.


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:32 pm:
Great comments F!

Thanks for sharing them...

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
2/19/2022 1:39 pm

Due to my background, i am always accutely aware of my lack of education.
That makes me feel vulnerable, in company of people who did take/ get a good education.
BUT, i do know my worth, so when such 'educated' person is trying to talk down to me...
I disregard such person, the minute they try to pull that trick on me.
I know, he/she is far less 'educated' then i am.
It is on him, not me.

I have a tons worth of street smart, in general i can see right through people within the first 5 minutes i met them.
That is why some people are afraid of me, because they see, of feel(?) that...i knów what they are hidding or pretending...


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:36 pm:
I feel you rosa!
While I have specialized training I
have no degree. And I do really dislike it
when I am talked down to...

Personally, I would love to see you in action!
What a blast that would be...

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
2/19/2022 1:39 pm

Great writing, pac!


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:36 pm:
Thank you so much rosa!

likeithot19 62M
6112 posts
2/19/2022 3:20 pm

I am a student of the school of hard knocks... I have earned my BS degree,( we all know what BS stands for, that thing with the Bull), then my MS, ( More of the Same), But still working on my PHD, ( Piled Higher, and Deeper) !


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:41 pm:
Ok like...
I love those degrees!

RobertBishop 66M  
2157 posts
2/19/2022 3:31 pm

Of those who are, IMHO. the top two "public intellectuals" in the Western world vould not be more different in terms of background. One hails from a family of agrarians with an affinity for the land, but with the knowledge of a historian and classicist.
The other never went to college, but read voraciously and developed an encyclopedic knowledge of the arts, literature, music and the performing arts beyond any other I have ever encountered.
There is always room to grow and to learn. Think of "intelligence" as a ladder - it doesn't matter what rung you start on.
What matters is what direction you are heading!


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:46 pm:
The example of the ladder is wonderful RB!
I love it and think it's a great example...
Thanks...

Dave54321 62M
2721 posts
2/19/2022 6:52 pm

You are quite right education or intelligence doesn't make someone
better than anyone else. But neither should it make you arrogant.
Arrogance is a character flaw regardless of education or intelligence.


pac369 replies on 2/19/2022 7:48 pm:
Totally agree Dave!
Arrogance is never a positive trait...

jenny14 75T  
90467 posts
2/19/2022 10:05 pm

pac

I am feeling VERY dumb! I cannot interpret the picture

I agree that "street smarts" are very important and some highly intelligent people are seriously lacking in them


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 2/20/2022 7:41 am:
Sorry about that Jenny!
In case you didn't see rosa response...
"Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change"...

I thought it was such a profound statement!

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
2/20/2022 1:36 am

no_unicorn,
Great reaction, thanks!

Arrogance is a longing to be important...
But, is actually a sign of insecurity and the desire to bé superior....
Desire to overcompensate their lack of self confidence.
In the psychology this is linked with narcism.

Arrogant people have a low self image...
Better leave them alone...


pac369 replies on 2/20/2022 7:43 am:
Wonderful response rosa!
Thank you...

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
2/20/2022 1:38 am

pac.

It is a pitty, you life soo far away!
I would have loved to go out with you, and show you my gifts/talent.....


pac369 replies on 2/20/2022 7:43 am:
I agree rosa!
That would be just too funny...

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
2/20/2022 1:42 am

jenny,

intelligence is the ability to adapt to change.


pac369 replies on 2/20/2022 7:45 am:
Honestly Jenny...
I think my dyslexia makes that
pic easier to decipher...

aliljaded 53F
8966 posts
2/20/2022 2:57 am

I get where you're coming from, Pac. Arrogance is a nasty trait. Whether you're educated or not, you can hold that trait. I have always been grateful for my formal education and the one I also acquired from the "street." I feel as though there is also still so much to learn. So, I now consider myself a "Student of Life." That being said, I don't have time to play games with men that are cruel intentioned. I feel that's what arrogance breeds.
Best to you, Pac.
~M

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


pac369 replies on 2/20/2022 7:49 am:
Well said alil...
And I could not agree more
about the "student of life" comment!
I love that...

I know I learn something new everyday. And would never presume to know all the answers...

RobertBishop 66M  
2157 posts
2/20/2022 4:54 am

My pleasure, as always.


pac369 replies on 2/20/2022 7:50 am:
Thank you RB!

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
2/22/2022 6:26 am

pac,
it is all very sublte, you know..
with one look... i can make a man feel, he would wish he never opened his mouth to me...

Hopes the earth opens and takes him with her... kind of thing... grins evil!!

No shouting, no cursing, not throwing with chairs, tables, glasses or things like that, at all.


pac369 replies on 2/22/2022 6:36 am:
Nice rosa!
Maybe you should shoot a video.
And show us all how it's done...
That would be great...


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