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Cutting my losses... Seems t o happen much quicker these days. Though pac still screws it up badly sometimes... For instance, starting a IM or alt email chat. pac states vanilla activities that are important t o her. Golfing, sports like football, tennis, and watching golf. Traveling, working out, dining out, watching movies, etc... You as a Dom show little or no interest in what pac likes. Which is totally fine. But as she points that out. You want t o know "why pac is here", or what are her "kinks"? Why should it matter? If we have no potential vanilla interest. And pac sees our differences and distance as so much t o overcome. What makes you think pac should share her personal thoughts on D/s or kinks with you? pac has posted a profile on her blog page. Stating how she feels about casual encounters or just playing. She has said over and over she's not interested in any of it! Yet... Joe Blow thinks sending a pic of his big cock will surely make her change her mind. It doesn't! Talk about rubbing her the wrong way... pac knows the internet and sites like alt bring out the worse behavior in many Dom's and certainly players. No integrity or accountability is needed or expected. If that's the type of Dom you are you better flock t o the young and inexperienced subs! Before they wise up t o your shit... pac will continue holding out for the Dom who is accountable towards himself and his loved ones. Whose "word" actually means "everything" t o him. Who doesn't lie and mislead you. Who doesn't look for a sub just t o manipulate her and fuck with her head, because He can. As he's seeking the new notch on his bedpost. Don't draw a sub in with your philosophy if you don't feel a connection with her. Or drag communication on when there's no chance of getting together. Even if you live a hour away. pac is no backup plan. Or the sub who continually lets you back into her life. She is tired of being mistreated with stupid excuses why Dom's disappear on her. So, no more. As soon as she feels her time is being wasted, or your behaving badly. She's out of there. And will tell you that if you don't block her! pac loves blogging. Showing a glimpse into her perverted mind. It doesn't mean she's hooking up with you! Not sure why that's so hard t o grasp...  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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What a great pic! Seems to say it all...  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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2/27/2022 7:48 am |
I don't know if it's because they're not reading or if they read did they really read it... It's like your words are a chyron
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I think it's also the "I can change you" attitude a lot of folks seem to have.
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Pac I believe very few look past profile pic. I several a week from doms that want me to kneel and they don't even say hello. At least yours get the roles correct and say hello.
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Recognizing losers will always help to cut losses. True in gambling, love, and life. 
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Knowing if your kinks are compatible with his is important but so is knowing the vanilla interests are too. Too many stupid so called doms here.
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well said integrity honesty & accountability is very important take out the garbage flush the toilet clear your house & surroundings of anyone or things in your life that is negative counter active to your well being & peace of mind! fuk them...to thy own self be true!
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I like you pac. Your thoughts are almost like mine. Dave
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P.S. I luv the pic thr girl is SHAF! I luv the caption very true thou life is hard & amuck w complications struggles hardships lessons on its own!
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pac doesn't make it hard to grasp, she just makes it hard (looking down between my thighs). 
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Well put pac. I'm so sick of the profile pics that just show genitals or breasts. Yes, I'm human, I'll look. But that isn't what I want to see or imagine when I'm chatting with someone. if they can't send a pic of their face, I don't chat long.
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pac, a small word of advice, if you will forgive for that, As soon as you get the first inkling of him not being really interested in YOU, and your vanilla interests, you should stop exchanging mails, talk with them... i think... At least, that is what i do. As soon as it is becoming clear, he is only interested in kinky fuckery, NSA. I tell him; Ah, you just want the kinky fuckery! Play the sexy horny games! Great, NOt interested! bye! Just inmediately block them. Safe yourself the hurt and their stupidity. He is most probably already onto an other womans profile.... I believe, for some, it is all about the hunt, not who they hunt.... I also sometimes, just stop answering their messages. I cant handle that amount of stupidity, rudeness and totall lack of decent human behaviour.
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Rose's advice, above, seems pretty sound. You are very clear about your interest in living a Full Life. Those who don't seem to grasp that are just not paying attention. As the song says, So when I panic and feel each day I come to the end of the line Then I say that fear hasn't licked me yet I keep telling myself I'm the bravest individual I have ever met
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2/27/2022 10:08 am |
pac, kudos to you for having enough self respect to know when to say when. Too many do not and try to make it work.
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Absolutly pac, you've made it quite clear you are not looking for just a quick hook up. You are looking for a proper relationship with a Dom who seeks the same. It's not hard to understand. But I also think they want to keep talking, because they still want to wack off! Selfish, & telling you just what kind of lover they would be! A good woman makes your cock hard... not your life. So very true pac, so very true.
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2/27/2022 1:30 pm |
Stand your ground pac... and I absolutely love your sexy perverted mind, 😊 And as the picture states.. “A good woman makes your cock hard... not your life.” And you pac.. are “a good woman.” 👍
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I posted a lengthy reply here, but it seems to have disappeared. If you removed it, my apologies if I have said something wrong. It was however, quite scathing of alt, so maybe...
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I honestly believe the long term destruction of this site has as much to do with this issue as anything else. Once upon a time, there was value in paying for a membership, but that has eroded over time, with the site becoming ineffective. As there is no outlay, every asshat gets on here to try their luck, and they don't belong in this environment. More have been attracted here due to the whole 50 Shades of Shyte. This place is full of the wrong people looking for quick dirty sex, and scammers looking to rip people off. It just means you're going to come across many fools for every good dom/sub. Be aware of this and your expectations won't be dashed with every wrong person you come across. You are correct in ignoring these people, choose your friends wisely, and your lover impeccably. Never settle for second best, you know what you're worth, keep your standards where they belong.
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pac I love the cartoon I agree with everything you say! Your partner / dom nay not be a golfer eg BUT must understand your desire to play and NOT use that as a threat or punishment! Good on you for establishing and keeping to your boundaries! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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