10504 posts 3/5/2022 7:31 am
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For the Dom's...
Just a PSA!
~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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12700 posts 3/5/2022 7:32 am |
For all the sincere Dom's out there... 
~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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11178 posts 3/5/2022 7:39 am |
Thank you pac
That sums it up nicely
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 7:44 am:
Your welcome Ron!
Glad you agree...  |
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26107 posts 3/5/2022 9:09 am |
Each side have their own set of responsibilities.
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 11:02 am:
So true drmgirl!  |
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2145 posts 3/5/2022 12:42 pm |
Nice.
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 3:18 pm:
Thanks RB! |
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1538 posts 3/5/2022 12:54 pm |
Pac, I don't necessarily see what I or other true dominants offer as a gift. I see it more as being an honest situation that a sub can settle into if they so desire. I am not there to judge them, but to give them a safe and secure place in which they can be themselves with someone who is willing to support, guide and nurture. If a sub offers up their gift to me, it is my responsibility to give them a place they can grow and experience the joys of this life, and to not breach the trust that they have placed in me. It is my role to show them that they are far stronger than they believe.
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 3:25 pm:
OK NN...
I see what you mean about a "gift"... I think it was the
writers' comparison about the Dom's who are often neglected as we always talk about the subs...
It does seem like everything you said agreed with the poster though...
And I do appreciate you sharing your point of view... |
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1245 posts 3/5/2022 1:20 pm |
We're still not explicitly calling Steve my Dominant, but I know that I can totally let go when I'm with him. The big breakthrough came during our spanking session when I completely lost control and fell apart into a sobbing mess. He tore down the walls I had built that kept my raw emotions hidden, and now I know that he won't judge me. He feels free to tell me exactly what he needs, and I feel free to be completely open to him, both physically and emotionally. 
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 3:29 pm:
That's wonderful to hear Suzy!
And when the times right for you two you will
know it... You two have come so far already...
And I love to hear about your breakthroughs!
Thanks for sharing them with me... |
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1234 posts 3/5/2022 1:22 pm |
Good post , Pac. Sometimes giving a sub what they crave could land you in serious trouble. It is a fine line.
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 3:31 pm:
Don't I know it jd!
Because it works the same way for us subs...
That serious "fine line" is a scary place!  |
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1538 posts 3/5/2022 4:56 pm |
It seems that Pac is not the writer or responder to the comments. Can you explain please.
pac369 replies on 3/5/2022 6:23 pm:
I did not write the post NN.
But I do believe those words…
And the responses are all mine!
Hope that clarifies it for you… |
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90348 posts 3/5/2022 7:07 pm |
pac
That is so beautifully expressed and true! Every relationship is two sided! 
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw
Jenny
pac369 replies on 3/6/2022 6:50 am:
I could not agree more Jenny!
While I am always a sub...
My full potential cannot be felt
and seen without a Dom! |
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3/5/2022 10:41 pm
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It is all in the reciprocal nature of the realm for those who are true.
pac369 replies on 3/6/2022 6:51 am:
Yes rider!  |
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4160 posts 3/6/2022 6:12 am |
both sub & DOM are lost w o the other the real gift to me is both sub & DOM finding the right counterpart to partner up w & become one mind soul body moving together connected as one w an unbreakable bond love!
pac369 replies on 3/6/2022 6:52 am:
Very well said bdsm...
The hardest part is getting the
right partner!
But when it's good... Nothing compares to it! |
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8008 posts 3/6/2022 5:43 pm |
Seems most reasonable and how it should be. This guy looks all business. 
pac369 replies on 3/6/2022 10:04 pm:
I think so tkb!
And yeah he is all business…  |
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8707 posts 3/8/2022 6:58 am |
a vision of "what you could be" is so much a part of it. bravo!
pac369 replies on 3/8/2022 7:55 am:
Absolutely Art!
Great comment... |
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