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pac369 64F  
10504 posts
3/19/2022 9:15 am

Last Read:
3/24/2022 4:49 am

Intimidation...

What do you see looking at this picture? For pac it's intimidating. As all of a sudden she can't get her ball over the water, onto the putting green. After she has done it several times before...

This kind of intimidation is ok with pac. She will try different angles, club lengths, or even bypass the water as she figures it out...

The intimidation from the Dom's or those who claim they are Dom's is another thing entirely. A particular one who was relentless for me t o respond on IM always said "Hello cunt". So... after several "she's not your cunt" or she's not interested. pac finally said "you cannot take a hint, not interested" . Instead of him saying OK, no problem, or something similar. He goes "block me". WTF kind of response is that? So the badgering type behavior is ok for him? Because pac or others can just block him. How fucking sad that communication is coming t o this...

Or what about the transportation Captain whose email just asks about sucking his cock and draining his balls. This sub can suck cock with the best of them. But is she supposed t o fall all over herself because this Captain sent her a message? Where he can't even give her the respect or courtesy of a proper hello...

The one from Australia who says on IM without any previous conversation "don't worry cunt, daddy's here t o satisfy all your needs" and how pac should contact him at a particular site. Where she has already blocked him several times. Yet... here he is again...

Words or being called them doesn't intimidate or even upset pac. It's this assumption because she's a sub, whether she knows you or not, she should just accept whatever you call her!

This instant gratification behavior on alt is wearing me down. She knows there are other sites, a local Master in the lifestyle, she has been referred t o contact. Yet she is continually sought out by assholes who try to bully and intimidate her. Why can they just leave her alone? The more explicit her profile becomes as t o what she wants. The more it is ignored. If they are not interested in a long term D/s relationship with respect and trust involved. Why contact her? She is content with blogging and interactions from those who enjoy her mind, perversions, and nasty and humorous pics thrown in...

pac is witness t o how far alt has gone downhill in the last few years. The blatant disregard t o screen members, and letting scammers proliferate their site... Enabling the same predator type of Dom's who create profile after profile... While constantly deleting pictures of restraints or sex acts on a BDSM site. It's almost becoming comical now...

pac is venting yet again. And most likely nothing will change for her. As she's a light the idiotic moth's are attracted t o!



~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
3/19/2022 9:16 am

This hole is fucking with my head!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
3/19/2022 9:18 am

I promise you that this behavior exists on all sites such as Alt.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 9:57 am:
I believe you drmgirl!
Depressing as it is...

Artschoolgrad 47M
8707 posts
3/19/2022 9:18 am

sorry to hear all that. sending love your way.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 9:29 am:
Thanks Art!

RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
3/19/2022 9:48 am

Unfortunately, your willingness to open up about what you find sexy is misinterpreted, either accidentally or deliberately. Life is too short to deal with negativity, so , whether in real life or in a virtual world, keep trying to surround yourself with those who want the best for you.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 9:58 am:
I am working on it RB!
But damn... it's not easy to do...

rondiri 65M
11178 posts
3/19/2022 10:13 am

you have my sympathy, pac. There are assholes everywhere. It certainly shows what morons they are thinking that approach works.
You are also the victim of the so-called subs that basically invite that kind of response with profiles that are so blatant in what they offer, I don't even take them seriously.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 12:21 pm:
Thanks Ron!
I appreciate that...

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1547 posts
3/19/2022 10:25 am

And why would they not be attracted to you, pac? Even imbeciles find you arousing. Even this imbecile I assume that's a par 3 in the pic? How far? I have probs if it is over 200 yds. My boys both outdrive me by about 100 yds all the time so they never have trouble clearing water.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 12:23 pm:
Well thanks Iso!
It's a par 3. Alt shrinking my pics again...
It's only 100 yards for me which really makes
it's depressing...

Heatseeker696 74M  
128 posts
3/19/2022 10:28 am

I think i know some balls you could have eagerly got over the water....


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 12:24 pm:
Ok H...
Thanks!

ridermantel 68M

3/19/2022 11:05 am

There is really no room for bullying and intimidation. That is so sad.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 12:27 pm:
It is depressing for sure rider...
Thanks for acknowledging the problem...

rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
3/19/2022 12:25 pm

A quote my sister used to say to me,
even when she did not know, i am a submissive/ masochist,
who can only give herselve ,in a relation...

And not some random hook-up

You have to kiss a whole lot of Ugly, nasty frogs, before you find your 'prince'
Just to cheer you up a bit.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 12:29 pm:
Your sister is a smart lady rosa...
Thank you!

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4160 posts
3/19/2022 1:41 pm

don’t see the water
don’t think of the water
don’t think negative
know the yardage
the club you need to use for that yardage (account for the wind & uphill etc)
relax clear your mind think positive & make a good swing...your on the green now!
seems like when the flag is raised high on the pole all civility & manners goes out the window & animal instinct kicks in...some women like that approach the large majority thou don’t!
men are visual women are emotional...hence Mars & Venus!
stay true to you fuK all others...your DOM will come in time!


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 3:58 pm:
Ok bdsm...
I appreciate your philosophy about
hitting the green!
And as for the other... Manners or courtesy are no where
in sight for many of these jerks... And while I know it...
Sometimes I just need to vent and bitch about it!

magnanimous59 100M

3/19/2022 2:12 pm

I play a hole like that here. 150 yards, water 10 yards in front of green. Every dang time ya think there's a good shot, it usually comes up short and falls back to the water! Frustrating as all get out.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 4:00 pm:
Well it's like that m!
The ball is high in the air
and just comes up a bit short...
It is quite frustrating...

jdmhab 71M
1234 posts
3/19/2022 2:12 pm

I have only golfed a few times. I never had much trouble with water, but damn, sand traps were another matter. On that shot , I think I'd try to go high and land hard. On the assholes, they are probably looking for someone into verbal abuse as foreplay. Don't be afraid of the block button. Save both your time.


pac369 replies on 3/19/2022 4:06 pm:
I hear you jd!
And that's exactly how I am trying to play the shot...
The block button is my friend for sure. Though it's in
my nature to give Dom's a chance. Even though many of them don't deserve it!

kalbi1231 70M

3/20/2022 9:24 am

I don't think it's Alt or any other site, I tend to think it's the quality of the subjects. It's not like any of them are screened for intelligent life Unfortunately, that means the receiver needs to screen them out.


mstraesop53 70M  
1836 posts
3/23/2022 10:43 am

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pac369 replies on 3/24/2022 4:48 am:
Love it mstraesop!


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