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Hotlisted.... If all your going t o do is hotlist me, why bother? Especially on the rare occasion when pac actually hotlists someone back... Then what? Nothing? No initiative taking by the Dom who started this... Again? Why bother? This sub thinks Dom's should be assertive, resourceful, and follow through on potential communications. Otherwise, why start something you have no intention of pursuing? These almost like high school games don't amuse her. And it's no wonder pac ignores 99% of hotlists and flirts! pacs blog assures anyone can communicate with her. But you have t o read it and put a bit of effort in t o figure this out. If your going t o be lazy and expect the sub to do all the heavy lifting, as in contacting you. Your not the Dom for me anyway! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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To many lazy Dom's out here!  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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I am too far from a lot of subs wanting masters others want their masters to support them while theysit on their asses trying to figure out who will supply wear their next sucker is at.
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It goes both ways, pac. I have in my status that if they flirt or hotlist me, I will message them back, and I answer them all. Even if I'm not interested, that's just being respectful, in my opinion. But you would believe how many "hot lists" I get that the profile is "unavailable". Or I message and they don't bother replying. Why did they bother hot listing me? I feel your frustration. Dominants SHOULD take the lead in communication, that's part of being Dominant. But submissives should also reply as a courtesy (I know many subs get deluged with messages, but even a "No thank you" would be nice. I think you are right, Dom or sub, if they can't show common courtesy and respect, they aren't worth the time anyway.
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5/26/2022 8:07 am |
Hotlisted.... Okay. But if you are not a paying member what good are they. Watched Blogs seem more useful. Flirts are spur of the moment. Someone catches your eye and it is another way of say Hi. Again, if you are not a paying member do thy even work? pac, It is too bad all the wasted effort you have experienced.
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I have used the hotlist to follow certain bogs I like to read daily. It's a quick, easy way to see their new posts.
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Pac, you are THE hotlist in my book. I cant do anything cause I'm just a standard member. 🤷
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I think ron made a very good point. I don't, however, reply to a hotlist. Now, if someone writes to me and is polite they will always get a response in kind.
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I hotlist people that I want to write to but want to write more than "Hey Let's Fuck Bitch" and want to show them I read their profile. Sometimes after a second read of their profile I decide not to write them. [image]
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I also try to write back to all that write, hot list, or flirt my account ... but I don't have the points to do that and earning points takes a lot longer than adding to your hot list. On top of that, the limit on my hot list is only 100 so when it is claimed to be 200 - I'm having trouble even getting the help to understand the problem, let alone fix it. Oh, and "flirt" is not available to standard (unpaid) accounts no matter how many points you have.
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pac, The thing is, they are NOT dominants, at all SO why use that honorary title to just plain lazy vanillas, who think i gave her a flirt/hotlist her, so now it is her turn, and i can sit back and enjoy her doing all the work. They have no cleu about the dynamics and the power exchange and all that. Dont/ wont learn a thing. I dont pay any attention to those who 'hotlist' me. They are looking for jurk off material, thats all. Dominant- Masters know it is all about communication. Although some dominants prefere the submissive to contact them, because that, is to them, a sign that that submissive is willing to put some effort in the contact....
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Hey Pac, I use hotlists for profiles I want to come back to after one of those cursor views of a profile. It is sort of like book marking. I don't always have the ability or time to read a full profile when I first notice someone I may be interested in. And when I do get the chance to come back to their profile and have a good read, I may actually be turned off of them, so they get removed from my Hotlist. If I want to make a connection, I take it the next step by becoming a fan or sending off a message to say hi. Manners are a big thing with me, so I don't make demands and I am respectful with what I write. Someone may well be a slut, BUT they are not MY slut until THEY decide that is what they want, so until that happens, they are simply a like minded person who shares an interest in this kinky life, and so should be treated properly. RESPECT is a must. To fail to answer an email or a private blog message is the height of rudeness, and that gets them tossed into my Blocked list faster than a dog fart can clear a room.
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I hear you Pac & it could be many things... a sincere hotlist or flirt but unable to mesg you & not a gold member thou anybody can mesg you in your private blog! a sincere hotlist or flirt to scope out if your interested before they mesg you & is gold member a scammers ploy both not gold & gold members they continue to hotlist or flirt w you ghost you (look at your profile) but never mesg you they have multiple profiles from multiple locations they have 1 pic & lil to no info in their profile it’s a pot-luck stew here Pac all mixed together gotta weed out the junk that cause static to find the few gems!
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5/26/2022 7:02 pm |
I think ron made a very good point. I don't, however, reply to a hotlist. Now, if someone writes to me and is polite they will always get a response in kind.
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5/26/2022 7:04 pm |
I will be honest, I hot listed you so that you would show up center screen as soon as I logged in, it would show if you had a new updates and I could read it immediately. Maybe that is considered lazy, but I do not come here to read everyone's blog, but I do like yours. S.
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You are too full of yourself lol. It's not about you, it's a way for them to keep track. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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