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Communication... Is hard enough in the vanilla world. Messages and words get mixed up and misconstrued all the time... Which seems worse when it happens in Alt land. As we all have a shared lifestyle belief of acceptance and respect... This short conversation initiated by a so called dom in Oklahoma will illustrate my point... Okl guy... Hello, have you ever hit a hole in one or come close? pac... I have come within a few inches several times. But no hole in one. Okl guy... Well... I was actually "teasing" you a bit. But that's awesome you have came close. pac... I don't know you at all. How was pac t o know you were teasing her? You asked a question. A answer was provided... Okl guy... You have a "hateful and Ritchie personality". It is obvious how unhappy you are by your pictures. And I never thought you had enough talent t o get the ball on the green let alone a hole in one! So there you have it. pac is not perfect by any means. But did her response dictate the mean and vicious response she got? pac is honest t o a fault. Which has inadvertently offended people. But... if you are going to call someone out, insult and belittle them. They deserve a chance t o respond t o that... Yet... you know that didn't happen. This asshole insults my personality, talent and word. Yet doesn't have the balls t o hear my response! Imagine that! When you Dom's question why subs are snarky, sarcastic, and don't have much belief. Maybe think about this blog. And remember the constant assaults myself and many subs receive on a daily basis in our mailboxes!  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~ |
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Three things.... WTF is a "Ritchie" personality? Woke this morning to rain and a thunderstorm. It was wonderful! And.... Back to the graphic pics after I get some work done... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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6/18/2022 7:28 am |
pac... just tell the A/H’s in here to get F—k’d. Plain and simple... do not go past Go.. just F—-k off. 👍
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He is obviously a douchebag and tiny minded little boy. You deserve better, pac. Sorry to hear this but the country seems to be filling up with assholes who love spreading hate.
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6/18/2022 8:03 am |
pac, These types are out to lunch. Screw them.
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Strangers using double entendres to get their sexy- on are lame. So childish initially and then insults you to prove they belong in grade school. PAC deserves respect and direct communication.
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I had someone treat me like that once with the operative word being once.
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The guy obviously never heard that Communication is a pillar of BDSM, nor did he earn much respect with his response. Can't think he'll get far in our lifestyle...well he might get left far away from any submissive, by their choice. 
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I would have made word play joke like "Do you tell all prospective Doms if they had a few inches more it would have been a hole in one". Sorry I can't resist word play jokes
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pac, There are soooo many men, on here, with personality problems!! Never mind anything remotely close to being, BEING DOMINANT, ever! what i call three year olds in a adult body.... Just mommy boys who had a bad office day, or maybe his wife was "not nice" to him, or a colleague?!  amp; Dont let those losers get to you!
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"WTF is a "Ritchie" personality?" My thought exactly. Rondiri makes a good point about Communication & Respect being so important to the lifestyle. But as I've said before this place is now riddled with tosspots who just claim to be dominant so they can demand what they want. No real understanding of the lifestyle.
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pac What a worthless waste of humanity some people are!  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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upfront straightforward direct & honest is the way to be Pac don't let let them get to you or waste time getting flustered w fools like that! I always say...if the truth hurts change your truth!
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That's just sad Pac
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6/18/2022 8:18 pm |
We live in a time when the truth is "measureable" and where more people are able to speak several languages but we can't say hello to our neighbors. There is a social disconnect occurring as the generation that sat in front of a computer screen too long is coming of age.
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Screw that guy. Frankly, it's good to learn, early on, that someone is a d-bag; then, you don't have to waste any more of your time.
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6/20/2022 8:25 am |
Yep....... Fuck him! NEXT............ 
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